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Four people encountered in a person's life.
The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, the one you love the most, often does not choose you, and the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?
Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.
If you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and his bad, love his good and love his shortcomings.
You must not want him to become what you want to be because you love him, if you can't change it, you won't love him, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult time, that is, there is no slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not only obtained, separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
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Why don't you take the initiative to tie each other's knots?
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I will sincerely apologize, I will tell him that I didn't mean to, so ask for your forgiveness and get his hug.
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I will take the initiative to apologize, this kind of behavior is very bad, it will affect the relationship between two people, and it will also make me lose the person who loves me the most.
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I will sincerely apologize and hope to be forgiven by my lover, because I love her very much and do not want to lose her.
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The sentence for causing serious injury unintentionally is: fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years or short-term detention. Where the Criminal Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions. According to the provisions of the Criminal Law, unintentional injury causing serious injury is negligent wounding, which constitutes the crime of causing serious injury by negligence.
Article 235 of the Criminal Law Whoever negligently injures another person causing serious injury shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years or short-term detention. Where this Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.
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Hurting and being hurt are mutual, and when you hurt him, in fact, you have been hurt to some extent, and everyone has the ability to refuse harm, and when a person is hurt, the only medicine is to adjust yourself, and time is the most natural water, which can heal all the harm in your heart.
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In life, we need to have contact with others, socialize, etc., and sometimes there will be some small frictions. When there is a small friction, it is estimated that many people will be at a loss and will ask for help from others. Actually, everyone should remember:
It's really better to rely on yourself than to ask for others. When I was chatting with my colleagues today, I accidentally found that I had done something that hurt others, but I had no way to remedy it at the moment, so what should I do? Is it just left here and ignored?
Definitely not, the solution is human. Let's first analyze what this damage is all about.
What exactly is an unintentional injury
There will be a reason for everything to happen, and you have unintentionally done something to hurt others. In fact, this matter may be from your own point of view, and you are not wrong. But the end result does affect and hurt others.
So we need to calm down and work hard to think about what is the problem, how serious the damage is, and so on.
Is there really no way to remedy it now?
No one can turn back the clock, and since things have already happened, then you still need to calm down and think. Let's see if there is still a way to remedy this injury. If this is really sentenced to "death", there is no way at the moment, then we can only wait for other opportunities.
Follow-up to do what he likes, silently "atonement".
Maybe the injured person will have contact with me in the future, so that we can remedy him in other ways. Even if it is okay to "atone for one's sins" slowly, but you need to remember not to forget your own principles, because "atonement" without principles is actually a disservice to oneself.
An unintentional move at the beginning caused harm to others. This is not good for yourself or others, and you must find a way to remedy it as much as possible. When remedy, even if you have to "do what you like" in the future, it is okay, after all, if you do this, you will not leave regrets.
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If you have inadvertently hurt someone and there is no way to remedy that matter, you should try to remedy it in other ways, taking into account the victim's thoughts.
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The damage has been done beyond repair, so find an opportunity to compensate for it in the years to come. At this point, you can only look forward, and it will not help to dwell on this, it will only make you feel troubled.
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I feel that even if there is no way to remedy it, I must make some gestures to apologize to the other party. Can minimize the damage of the opponent.
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If you hurt someone unintentionally, you need to apologize sincerely, even if there is no way to remedy it at the moment, but your intention to apologize must be accepted by the other party.
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In the future, just be kind to the other party in other things, and apologize for hurting others can't make up for it, so it's better to help the other party in a down-to-earth manner, and give him charcoal when he is in trouble.
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Then go and be friends with that person, try to help him as much as possible, and one day, the other person will need the help of others.
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At this time, you must go and tell him in person the cause and effect of the incident, and then you must sincerely apologize to him.
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