What should I do when someone I trust deceives me and I feel very sad

I think you're honored, at least you know that he's lying to you, and I'm afraid that you'll be deceived and say that he's good!

If it was my friend who lied to me, I think he and I would never be friends, he lied to you once and there was a second time, such a friend is boring, really, I feel deeply! My best friend stole the Walkman! Alas, the people of nowadays, there is everything!

Let's find out why!! If it were me, I wouldn't give up, at least I can't tolerate a person I trust to cheat on me, if he had to do it, I might forgive him, but if he meant it, I would make him pay the corresponding price As for your good friend, I think since she is your good friend, then she will definitely be considerate of you, after all, you are also a victim!! You don't have to take it personally, I think your good friends will forgive you

Stay away from him. Otherwise, it's still you who gets hurt.

Maybe you really care about him.

Then you can influence him.

Stay away from him in the future, or what else can you do?

Play with all the people you know you don't know.

It's my words.

I would still choose to believe it!

Time can ** all wounds, let time dilute everything.

I have been hurt by others, I can't trust others, I feel that I am credible, and I don't want to believe in others is a defensive psychology.

Defensive psychology refers to the defensive psychological state in response to external pressure. A nervous feeling such as encountering various unexpected situations or facing danger.

There is a point of view in psychology that a person's character is his defense, a kind of protection for his psychological world, so the more inferior he is in his bones, the stronger this defense will be.

Because low self-esteem means that you subconsciously think that you are "weak", but you are not willing to admit it rationally, and of course you can't let others find out, so you will try your best to cover it up and try your best to defend it.

The so-called inferiority complex in the bones is actually a subconscious belief that oneself is not good, or that oneself is not good, that is, that oneself is too weak, but one cannot admit this, because this will hit a person's narcissistic psychology.

Therefore, they will defend, and they will protect themselves in various ways to protect their weak hearts, the most common of which are the above 3 types:

1. Pay special attention to the eyes or evaluations of others; 2. Single hobbies; 3. Stay-at-home, closed, like to play with mobile phones.

Defensive psychology caused by subjective factors takes time to heal or needs the guidance of a psychologist. For example, people who have had a failed marriage will have a strong defensive psychology against the opposite sex in new relationships. People who have been traumatized both physically and mentally by the blows of life sometimes reinforce their normal defensive mentality into a mental illness.

This situation requires professional guidance and psychological care from a psychologist.

It's normal to be hurt by others, as long as people will be hurt, this is also an inevitable thing in life, how do you know this person's morality and character without being hurt, in fact, this is also a good thing, and it also makes you reflect on whether you usually hurt others by speaking, or an unintentional sentence seems normal to you, it sounds very harsh to others, or that you have gossip, if these words have not been said, this is a good thing, Because what you find out in time to avoid greater harm in the future is also a kind of practice in life

Don't dwell on it, just be yourself, everything is beautiful, you want to open up, as long as you have a sincere heart to treat others.

Once bitten by a snake, he was afraid of the well rope for ten years.

I think it's because you've been hurt yourself, so you don't have that kind of confidence.

You have to get out of this psychological shadow to be right, the outside world is full of sunshine.