What should you do when your boyfriend isn t looking for you?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a boy and I often can't be with my girlfriend

    All I can tell her is: I miss you so much, and she will tell me once in a while, "I miss you" so that I am already happy

    Thinking about him means that you like him very much But don't stick to him too much Otherwise he will feel very tired Give him time and space Often** information does not mean that you can hold him

    So when he's not looking for you, you can think about how to be nice to him, how to move him

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Participate in some training courses that you are interested in, you can increase your knowledge, you can enhance your skills, you can also increase your fun and entertainment, in short, you can kill time, you can accept new knowledge, and improve your overall quality, why not?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't let him know that you miss him, hold on

    Do what you have to do!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I can see that you like him more, we are in a similar situation, distract your feelings, don't stay alone, this will only make you want more, play more with friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you trying to make us say find another man?

    Later, downstairs will say, "Look for me, qq***."

    Don't you have nothing to do, you don't have to go to school, you don't have to go to work?

    There is nothing else in your life but men?

    Poor woman.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then go online and talk to me on QQ all the time, Rosso!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How did you live without a boyfriend? Go on.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't take the initiative to find your boyfriend, then he won't take the initiative to find you, most likely because he doesn't care about you at all, because for a boy, the person he really likes will definitely want to be by his side all the time, even if you don't look for him, he will definitely take the initiative to find you, if you take the initiative every time, then you must think carefully about whether he really loves you.

    It is possible that the boy will be too silent and introverted to take the initiative to express his love for his girlfriend, but if he really cares about his girlfriend, then he will definitely take the initiative to contact youBecause boys are not as shy as girls, since two people have established a relationship, it is very normal for a boyfriend to take the initiative to contact his girlfriend, but it is not normal not to take the initiative to contact.

    No matter how shy a person is, love will also make this person take the initiative, if he doesn't take the initiative to find you, then he must not care about you so much, so don't take the initiative to contact him, let the two of them be quiet, you think about it carefully, in daily life his actions, love someone can't be hidden, don't love too, maybe you already have the answer in your heart, but you don't want to admit it.

    But when we love someone, we can't let ourselves be humble in a love, in addition to loving someone, we should learn to love ourselvesTherefore, recognize the reality and get away from the person who doesn't love us, so that we can meet someone who truly loves us.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Definitely, so you still have to leave him as soon as possible, and it will be happier to find someone who loves you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's true that I don't love you, and there is no need for the relationship between the two of you to continue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It may be true that he doesn't put you at ease.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He doesn't love you, so break up with him quickly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It should be like this, if you love someone, you will be very active.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I must not love you enough, otherwise I would have gone crazy a long time ago.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are only two reasons why your boyfriend won't contact you, he doesn't love you or he doesn't have time. The first reason is self-evident, not contacting you is deliberately avoiding you and distancing yourself. As the saying goes, twisted melons are not sweet, and in addition to men and women in the world, are you afraid that you can't find them.

    The second is that he doesn't have time, maybe he's really too busy, working hard, working hard for your future. If it's true, congratulations on finding the treasure. You have to forgive him and care about him, you can also take the initiative to contact him, put down the shelf and not be ashamed, a smart woman knows when and what method to fight for her own happiness.

    If you don't think this will affect anything, then you won't have a sense of imbalance in your heart, and it won't affect your feelings.

    In terms of feelings, girls always seem to have a sense of disparity, and they always like to compare their boyfriend's current state with his performance during the love period, you must know that life will eventually tend to be dull. If this girl really likes him, then even if you can't send a message, it's hard to feel bad Sometimes being hurt is not necessarily a bad thing There are many things that everyone must experience in life Maybe you have been taking the initiative and giving all the time Will move him or make him realize your importance Or even if he still ignores me, you recognize his personality and know what you should do, whether it is worth it!

    You're all sure of the relationship, so why bother about who takes the initiative over whom. In the world of feelings, love is the most important, miss each other to say it, in love, there is always someone who will take the initiative, will fall a little earlier, will love a little more. It's as someone else says:

    If you don't take the initiative, how can we have a story? If two people who love each other always compare who gives more and who takes the initiative more times, then this kind of love has no soul and will eventually perish. Remember, there is not much between lovers who are active and inactive, only love and non-love.

    If you love, please love deeply, and if you don't love, go away!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello! If you like the other person, of course you need to take the initiative to find the other person! You can't ask people to like you, so the relationship needs to be softened slowly, and they will naturally come together after a long time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You shouldn't take the initiative to find him, if you take the initiative to find him, you will seem to be very humble, and you must wait for him to take the initiative to come to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I belonged to your boyfriend some time ago, and my mentality is that I don't really like you, and it's a moment of loneliness or impulsiveness to talk to you, and I don't know how to face you after I'm emotionally cold. Of course, the premise is that his life is normal and he has not encountered any setbacks, and I believe that this should be the reason. As for the question of whether your lord is not active, if you like him very much, then you should be semi-active, that is, do not cling to him, but face him when he needs care or help, so that he really likes you.

    If it's dispensable, you can divide it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, you shouldn't take the initiative to look for him, because if the other party doesn't look for you, it means that the other party has no feelings for you and doesn't like you, so you don't need to go to him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't have a boyfriend, so I don't take the initiative to look for you, so you should also understand the actual situation, of course you can take the initiative to find him. Of course, happiness is also earned by oneself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be, the relationship is originally maintained by two people, and he must not take the initiative because he is more introverted, so he can stand up at this time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Personally, I think that when talking about friends, boys should take the initiative, if your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to find you, now he doesn't like you at all, if you also like each other, then you should take the initiative.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love is mutual, why do you have to wait for your boyfriend to take the initiative to contact you, I think if you can, you can also take the initiative to contact your boyfriend, this seems to be nothing that can't be done, and it won't say that your identity is cheap, and you are lovers, and people are not your servants, why must someone contact you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you can take the initiative to find him, because if you have a problem or a conflict with your boyfriend, for example, if you take the initiative to find him, he will definitely give you a step.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the two of you are in love, and the relationship is relatively good, I think you can take the initiative to find a boy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should take the initiative to find him, if your relationship does not even interact, then the duration of this relationship will be shorter, the maintenance of the relationship is the process of your coming and going, not just relying on one party to maintain, if he is busy you can take the initiative to find him, you can also inform him of your thoughts, so that he will pay attention to the frequency and habits of the initiative in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then I personally think that since a relationship has been established, if the other party does not take the initiative to find you, of course you need to go to him, if both people do not take the initiative, then how to fall in love?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love needs to go both ways, not just a person who has always taken the initiative, he doesn't take the initiative to find you, you can take the initiative to find him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, the main is not active, there is no distinction between men and women, and although some are boys, they are also introverted and passive by nature. So, I don't think it's a problem, the key is to see if you like him or not.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can take the initiative to try it and see if he responds positively.

    Because, the active is not necessarily long-lasting, but it is not good not to be active.

    So, it's okay to be moderately proactive!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He didn't take the initiative to find you, it can only prove that he is not so attentive to you, you have to give him a chance, let him have a chance to show himself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to look for it, what do you have to look for? If he has something to do, he's too busy. You should also take the initiative to go to him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If your boyfriend has not taken the initiative, then you should take the initiative to find him. If you're tired of taking the initiative for too long, you can actually start a showdown and ask your boyfriend to talk about his thoughts.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. This shows that your boyfriend is not very attentive to you. He doesn't like to take the initiative to chat with you, and you can see that you care more about him.

    This shows that your boyfriend is not very attentive to you. He doesn't like to take the initiative to chat with you, and you can see that you care more about him.

    I took the initiative to ask him what he was doing when he wasn't eating.

    He didn't ask me.

    They had a holiday today, and then I was supposed to go to work today. Then Nazao rested and didn't shake the coarse tomato. He didn't look for me today, and then he asked him if he had dinner just now when I looked for him. Then we chatted a few words. I didn't talk about it. Yanqing.

    We were half an hour apart, and then he didn't talk to me, and I don't know what he's doing.

    How long have you been together.

    How did you meet?

    We had been together for more than a year, and we broke up in March this year, and he came back to us in August. Then after three or four weeks together, I broke up again, and now I'm back together. I used to be together for more than a year, and I mentioned it three or four times in the middle, and I broke up with him.

    It's just not more than a day. Because sometimes he does things that make me cranky and make me angry. Let him do something for me, and she won't listen to Tsu Xun Zen.

    Then I was very angry and often couldn't help but say break up, and the last time I said I wouldn't break up with you anymore, I moved out. It's been a few months since we broke up, almost half a year, and he also looked for me twice halfway through. I didn't go out to see him, and in the end he deleted my WeChat.

    I found out that I also deleted him, and then he privately messaged me on Douyin, saying that he still couldn't help but miss me. I added WeChat back, and then I said I didn't want to talk about it now, so I talked for a while. And then now that I've been back together for three or four weeks, I've brought up again.

    Now that they have reconciled, Cong Chen has become less talkative.

    Because two weeks before the breakup, I also thought about it a lot. I also have problems with my limbs, and I always talk about breaking up. That's one thing I'm not doing right.

    Later, I looked for him very well, and said a lot of things. I'll just say that I'm going to reconcile with you for the last time. He replied to me that what if we broke up again?

    Each went back to his own house to find his own mother, he said so. I just said no, and then we agreed to reconcile with each other, he was a few days ago. They have also come to me.

    Before that he was doing sales. Because his uncle is also here. He opened his own factory, and then he didn't do it this year, and his uncle helped him arrange to be the manager's assistant, well, he was doing a paper leather factory in the factory.

    Maybe he's tired of you splitting and merging, he is rich now as a manager's assistant, and there may be other girls who like him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Can you still ask for it if you don't take the initiative? I like how a person can resist not talking to each other and chatting, I think this will be the case without lead inspection. No matter how busy he is, if he has you in his heart, he will miss you, he will miss you, won't he look for you, he doesn't want you, why are he looking for you?

    It's acceptable to be too busy, the frequency is a little lower, if you don't take the initiative all the time, it should be a problem, who takes the initiative for a long time will be tired of nuclear agitation, won't you be tired? Anyway, I can't accept it, I think the frequency of finding each other is linked to thinking about you and not wanting you, loving you or not loving you, find someone who loves yourself, don't let yourself be too tired, I think. Hope it helps.

    Don't hang yourself from a tree. See more beautiful scenery and be in a good mood.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you don't take the initiative to find your boyfriend Hongdou, you don't necessarily can't ask for it, it depends on whether you're too busy pretending to ruin your boyfriend? If your boyfriend is too busy, we have to be considerate of him at this time, because when he is too busy, the hall will not be able to take the initiative to find you, if he is not busy and will not come to you, at this time we will consider this relationship.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is irresponsible to not be able to take the initiative to contact a girlfriend, and it is better not to have such a boyfriend. However, if the boyfriend is good enough, then it is best to communicate. Reputation is stupid and blind.

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