What will happen to your child who asks you, How did Mom and Dad meet?

Mom and Dad were introduced to each other by our respective friends, and then they fell in love and got married. "Let's be honest.

I met your dad on the bus, I took a lot of things, got off the bus together, and he sent me to where I went, and that's how I got acquainted slowly. ”

My husband and I must have been fateful, "I met your dad in Simbak at that time, we liked the same position, we could meet every time we went, and later found out that we were also very compatible." ”

The two of us are childhood sweethearts "I grew up with your mother and almost all studied together, we were just buddies at first, and then chased your mother, and I didn't want other boys to get close to her. ”

We: "Your dad and I met at the subway station, we met by chance several times, and then we got in touch and got together. ”

Once at a friend's birthday party, your mother sat there alone and didn't speak, so I accosted her, and your mother didn't look down on me, so she met and fell in love until now. ”

This is a long story: "Your mother and I are alumni in college, and we met by playing badminton, and it took a long time to chase your mother to agree." ”

Once I went on a plane trip, I met at the airport, and we knew that we were going to the same place during small talk, and we happened to be alone, so we went together. ”

We both love to play games: "I met your dad in the Internet café, he sat next to me and laughed at my technical dishes, and we met in a sentence or two, and then we played together." ”

will tell the baby that it was born by the mother, crawling out of the mother's belly, and it hurts. By the way, educate the baby to be filial to his mother.

To put it this way: after the father and mother are combined, there will be a baby, and the baby will grow up slowly in the mother's belly, and when the baby is born, the mother will give birth to the baby from the belly. There are still a lot of truths in this that you can't understand yet, and when you grow up and can understand, your mother is telling you. ‍‍

As the father of the child, the child did not ask me such questions, but she communicated with her mother, and I happened to be present. The child's mother replied that you grew up in your mother's womb, and you didn't want to stay until you didn't want to stay, and the fuss was so loud that the mother asked the doctor to cut open the stomach and take it out, and also showed the child the knife wound left when she had a caesarean section. When the child asked if it hurt, his mother said, "It hurts, in order for you to come into this world, my mother endured it, you have to love your mother!"

The child nodded all the time after hearing this, I think that even if I don't understand it now, one day in the future, I will always know that it is not easy for my parents to give birth to him and raise him!

When the child asks this question, be sure to answer the child positively, tell the child that you were born in the mother's womb for 10 months, the mother is pregnant with you is very hard, it is not easy for the child to understand the mother, and then the child will be the same and understand the mother. ‍‍

My five-year-old daughter also asked this question, and I told her that it was my father who gave my mother a seed, and my mother ate it in her stomach, and the baby grew up slowly, and then went to the hospital to open a knife and take it out. ‍‍

Sex education has always been a headache for people, and it is a very good time to educate children about sex before the age of 12. But it's much better now, after all, I'm starting to pay attention to this part of education, of course, the answer is that I was born from my mother's womb.

I would show him my pregnancy ** and tell him that he was also in his bulging little belly, and that his belly was getting bigger and bigger because he had grown up. When he grew big enough, his mother couldn't put it in his belly, so she let him out. ‍‍

Tell him directly that he may be more confused and unintelligible, after all, they are still children, and their minds are not so mature. I think you can use the process of turning a seed into a tree to compare it to him, saying that this is how you grow, but your place of birth is in your mother's womb, and when the time comes, you will naturally come out of your mother's womb.

When the child asks this, he is just asking at first, but in fact, it is impossible for him to understand the deep question, and he will only tell him that he was born from his mother's womb.

When I was three years old, I was pregnant with my second child, and he was full of curiosity and would always ask me what was in my stomach, so I seized the opportunity and showed him the picture book "Xiao Wei Rushes Forward", which is completely from the perspective of children, and explains the fact that "how children come to be" from the perspective of children. If you explain those obscure knowledge out of thin air, parents will feel embarrassed, and Xiaobao may not be able to understand it.

I have told my baby about this problem, I said that my father loves my mother very much, one day, my father gave my mother a chocolate candy wrapped in love, my mother swallowed it into her stomach, and the chocolate slowly became a little person, and after 10 months of gestation in my mother's belly, I grew up, and then the doctor took the baby out of my belly. It's as simple as that.

My son also asked me this question, and I answered him directly, I gave birth to him, and he grew into various organs in my womb for nine months, and he wanted to come out to live with me. I went to the hospital to find a doctor to operate on him and took him out. ‍‍

"There is a group of people in the far east, and they are all descendants of dragons. "Tell the child that when his parents grew up, they got married, collected all the Dragon Balls, summoned the dragon, and made a wish to the dragon, and the dragon gave him to us. Haha, Happy Children's Day!

It should be very serious and serious to tell my daughter that after the father and mother love each other very much, there is you, and then the mother is very hard to conceive and give birth to you in October, and tell her some difficult and interesting things about pregnancy, so that the child can feel the warmth of the family from an early age, the love of the parents, the hard-won happiness of life and the hard ...... of raising herIn this way, her young heart is full of love, expectation, and beauty for the world. Although the child is only a few years old, the child can still feel the feelings when the parents answer seriously and lovingly.

It is indeed difficult for many parents to answer these questions involving privacy, but for the normal development of their children in the future, they should still be told the truth, in fact, physiology courses have been added to education in China. Communicating openly and honestly is better for your child's physical and mental health than hiding it.

Tell him that he was raised by his parents and is unique, and when he is a little older and older, when it is understandable, tell him in detail.

You were originally a little angel in the sky, but then your parents fell in love, and you came to your mother's belly, and after 9 months, there will be a you in the world! ‍‍

Show the baby the Journey to the West played by the six-year-old child, and let him see that the monkey known as Monkey King came out of **, and tell him that he just came out like this, and when he grows up and spontaneously combusts, he will know how to get out.

Born from your mother's womb, she has seen her mother's previous **, if you see a little brother or little sister in the big-bellied aunt in the future, you must let them!

Every child will ask a lot of questions in the process of growing up, and they feel that what their parents will give him will be the most correct answer, so it is best not to refuse the child's question, first of all, when a father hears this question, he should not be embarrassed, but should think about how to say it so that the child can understand and is very compromised and the correct answer. Say the most reasonable things in the simplest language, so that the child can believe it. Just like a tree, it is a process for a seed to sprout in the soil and slowly grow into a towering tree, so the child also needs to understand how it came to be.

Parents are the first enlightenment teachers of children, so they have to pay attention to details when talking and doing things, so as to avoid guiding children in the wrong direction, only when the truth is clear, so that children will feel that they are very happy children, most of the children are very smart now, they are also looking at their parents' words and deeds in the eyes of slow learning, so only the harmony between husband and wife can achieve real harmony in order to give children a complete family to establish a sense of security, will grow up happily.

I also asked my parents about this question, and my parents said that I picked it up in the trash.

If I were the child's father, I would tell the child that you came out of the mother's belly. The meaning of this is to let the child know that he was born with his mother's hard work, and the other is to let the child understand that seeing the pregnant woman knows that it is the beginning of a life, and cherish his own life, and it was the mother who gave birth to him with hard work.

When the child is receiving knowledge, if the child is instilled with the wrong idea, then the child will really learn the wrong view, and also learn to lie, when he knows that the father and mother lie to him, he will feel that lying is correct, so as to learn to lie, to the child, it is better to be more sincere.

I know that many parents' answers are not to answer their children positively, so the impact on children is really a lot, for example, saying that the child is picked up in the trash, the child will feel that it is not good for me, can the child who picked it up be good; When the child grows up, he will understand, and the child will think that I have grown up, but the parents will always feel that they are too young; said that the child jumped out of the crack in the stone, is it an orphan like Sun Wukong? There are too many such examples, so it is necessary to answer this question carefully and carefully

It is recommended that parents, if the child asks this kind of question again, it is better to tell the child how it came to be in the form of storytelling, of course, what form the child is willing to accept, parents can give the child a targeted answer!

If my child asked me how he came here, I think I would tell him that.

Him: Mom, how did I get here?

Me: It's a long story, do babies want to hear it?

Him: Listen. Me: Okay, then the baby will sit down.

Once upon a time, when my mother was a little girl, I was as old as you, in the company of my parents, I grew up, studied and worked, and grew up happily, one day, my mother met the baby's father, and the two of us made friends, just like the baby and the children in your nursery get along, and the baby's father got close, and everyone will go out to play together, and the baby is not also with the kindergarten children last time out to play?

Him: Yes. Me: So many children, who do babies like to play with?

He: That's so-and-so.

Me: Oh,,, then mom and dad are the same, just like babies and so-and-so, they often play together. But what? Mom and dad grew up at that time, so the baby and so-and-so were still young and had to study and work, so baby, you and so-and-so were good friends, right?

Him: Yes, friends.

Me: By the way, my dad and I fell in love with each other after getting to know each other for a while. Just like we all love babies, we will be good to you, care about you, and give you the best.

Then after getting along and falling in love, we became a small family, lived together, went home together, slept together, and then we had you, and now we love you together.

Him: Then can I also sleep with so-and-so and form a small family?

Me: Then it depends on whether you are well-behaved or not, the baby is still young, and when the mother and father are so old, if they are obedient, have good academic performance, and work well, they can make a decision at that time. Now, I still have to listen to my mother, you know?

Him: Got it, Mom.

Me: Okay, I know, just go read the book and go to class.

Him: En.

Hello, my family is a son, although I can't say to him, but it is also recognized by the people around him, and his father is more strict with him, but the bits and pieces of life are also permeated with love for him.

Every time I asked this question, he was surprisingly unanimous, it was the same love, my family was the favorite [laughs], and although I was a little puzzled why I didn't like the favorite person the most, because my love for him was the most "obvious", I was still very happy, and his answer was better than I thought.