What s so bad about being such a person?

You have changed, you have become like you, it proves that you have grown up and matured, and I congratulate you!

In society, in order to protect oneself and be safe, who is not suppressing oneself? Isn't it a mask to live? As long as you treat people with sincerity, why not?

You are a perfectionist who wants to be perfect in everything you do, so you care so much about what others think of you.

If you can be more restrained and self-disciplined like you, then this society will be full of harmony and beauty!!

However, it's not good to be suppressed for too long, because people's emotions need to be released, so let's communicate with close friends!!

Have a really good time.

In fact, I don't care what other people think, my personality is similar to yours, and my heart is sometimes very depressed, but when I am with my friends, I will be happy and I don't know why. Sometimes it is just because of one thing or one person that can change a person, and personality is a matter of a person's nature, which is difficult to change. What's so bad about being gentle?

At least it makes people feel safer. What about doing it? Is everything absolute?

So what if he thinks you do it in his eyes, but maybe he does it in the eyes of others? It's good to live your life anyway. It's not good to be depressed for too long, so let's communicate with friends more,!

Everyone has a two-sided personality, it's just that we don't care. But when we encounter different things, we react differently. Some people may say that it is very fake, but only we know that it is our truest performance.

No matter what you do, you can just be happy, so why care about others. Wouldn't that be tiring?

Everyone has their own way of living, be themselves, go their own way, ignore other people's evaluations, and just be happy.

Try to change yourself, show your unknown side, don't be depressed, vent appropriately, cry when you should cry, and laugh boldly when you should laugh.

I've done that before, but I think it's too tiring.

I'm doing it without harming anyone else.

You can come as you want, and no matter how you do, it won't make everyone like you.

Instead of suppressing yourself, let yourself live an easy life.

As long as you don't pretend to be too much, it's okay to go your own way and let others do it!

I don't know whether intentional or unintentional maturity makes everyone like you, then congratulations, you have the potential to succeed, if you can't even stick to these potential advantages, I think the result goes without saying Hehe, I like you.

You're just like me. Sympathize.

Maybe it's a little different for some reason.

In fact, sometimes you have to try to change yourself and be a good person.

It's really not easy to be a good person, everyone has their own opinions and ideas, as well as their own biases and preferences, sometimes being a good person is not to let your thoughts and preferences affect others, but to put other people's thoughts and preferences in your own heart, to be considerate and understand others, to tolerate and tolerate others.

Once, I met an old man on the bus who was walking very slowly and delayed everyone on the bus. Everyone else was pushing him, and some even pushed him away, but he didn't speed up, he just walked slowly. When I saw this scene, I had a very heavy feeling in my heart, because I understood the situation of the old man, he was old and his health was not very good, but it must be very uncomfortable to be urged by others and pushed away by others.

So, I walked over, took the old man's hand, and slowly led him to his seat. The old man saw me, smiled, said thank you, and then began to put his luggage away again, as if he hadn't been on the bus for a long time. When I saw this scene, I had a new feeling in my heart that it was really hard to be a good person.

A young man sitting next to him said, "Hey, it's really unfortunate today, I have been delayed by this old man for a long time. I looked at the young man and said:

In fact, you don't have to worry, the elderly also have their own difficulties, everyone should be more considerate. The young man listened, did not speak, just lowered his head, looked at his mobile phone, and seemed to be thinking.

Seeing this scene, I have a warm feeling in my heart, I feel that I have done a good job, and I am also a little proud, because I can be considerate of others, and I can also put down my own prejudices, understand the situation of others, and tolerate and tolerate them.

However, I also know that it is really hard to be a good person, because sometimes, what you think is right, but others may feel wrong, and sometimes what you think is right, but others may feel wrong. Therefore, to be a good person is to put down your own ideas, to be considerate and understand others, to be tolerant and tolerant of others, which is the most important point of being a good person.

In short, it is really difficult to be a good person, because you need to put down your own thoughts, to be considerate and understand others, to be tolerant and tolerant of others, which is a very difficult process. But when you see others become happy because of your help, you feel that being a good person is really worth it.

When it comes to good people, the most common phrase that comes to people's minds is "good people have good rewards", but now there are also many different voices, because in this materialistic era and a more materialistic era, people will have such an experience: it is becoming more and more difficult to be a good person. Good people are easy to suffer, good people are easy to get angry, and good people are easy to get hurt!

Why are there such ideas and phenomena? I think it has something to do with the times, the environment, and all aspects of human nature.

From the perspective of human nature, to be a good person, you need to know how to make trade-offs, sometimes you have to give up a lot of immediate interests, from the perspective of human nature, everyone has a tendency to avoid losses, so it is difficult to make a person make concessions and make sacrifices, so to be a good person must have this sense of sacrifice.

From the perspective of the times, in the era of money-only theory, people attach great importance to interests, and people generally have the idea that people do not destroy the heavens and the earth for themselves, which leads to a lot of bad orientation or negative energy empowerment in society. People will demand more and more from good people, and the cost and cost of being good people will also increase. And for the bad guys, people are more likely to turn back and forgive, and it is easy for people to forgive those who go from evil to good.

From the perspective of the environment, being a good person may be perceived as alien, or even resisted and rejected by those around you. People will think that good people are acting, flaunting, or acting. And there are a lot of keyboard warriors and Internet trolls in this society, which are very easy to be smeared by people on the Internet.

Even in the real society, the scene of being pitted because of helping the elderly is often reported, which causes many good people to be sad, and also makes people have a lot of confusion and distrust in the social environment and morality. It is difficult to be a good person, the difficulty is to be strict with yourself everywhere, and the difficulty is to constantly strive to improve your own character; It is difficult to be a good person, it is difficult to be a villain, a wicked person, a bad person, and a miserable vulgar philosophy in the world.

It's hard to be a good person, but it's hard to be expensive. Before human society entered the communist period, if it was easy to be a good person, then that person must be a "good man" who is good and everyone is good, not a good person who really talks about principles and morality. Just like "infinite scenery is at the dangerous peak", good people are expensive in difficult places