When others repeatedly count you down with mean words.

A word for you: there are almost no real friends after work.

Maybe there are true feelings at the beginning, but one day when there is a conflict for work responsibilities or interests, these all no longer exist, this is my experience, people are good is to be bullied, be smart, many times you have to learn to have reservations about yourself, and protect yourself well while not hurting others!

When you can't bear it anymore, don't let some people get an inch!

That's right, the current society is good at being bullied, and you also have self-esteem, don't you But it depends on whether he usually talks to others like this, if it is you can not worry about him, but if not, you should talk to him about it kindly, after all, it is too ugly to say cheap, I don't like others to say cheap, it hurts self-esteem a little, so you see if he is like this when he talks to others It is best to persuade him to use less such words in the future After all, everyone is friends

Don't blindly tolerate it, it's really good people who are bullied, especially in this society, fight back when you should fight back, everyone is equal, what if you come out early.

I used to be like this, I just came out last year, with a learning attitude, blindly tolerating, the result is my own suffering, unnecessary, now I will fight for what belongs to me, not to be trampled on.

I would like to send you a word: enrich yourself, hide your courage, and have a bright future! Oh, Khan, it's the 21st century.

Clarify the facts with text messages.

Of course, the letter written first must not have any bad impact, and the content of the text message must not make the other party unhappy. The main purpose of writing a letter is to gently remind the other party how the idea he put forward casually at the beginning has evolved into the delightful appearance it is today. In the appropriate places in the letter, you can include the relevant dates, the title, and any existing documentary evidence.

It's important to suggest a face-to-face discussion at the end of the text message to give you a chance to reinforce again what you really mean: you came up with the idea.

If someone really forgets your credit. If you want to take credit for yourself, then this method can play a role in earning you back the credit.

2) Praise the person who dug you for the credit, then reiterate that the credit is your own.

Once again, I would like to praise this colleague for his unique talents and insights. This approach is especially needed for working women. Many researchers have found that female employees like to see things from the perspective of "we" rather than "me", so their ideas and initiatives are often appropriated by their male colleagues.

If you look on the positive side of things – your colleague is looking for the best job to do, and he or she has a unique perspective on what needs to be done – it may help you solve this potentially tricky problem.

When you feel that this method is more suitable for you to apply, you should act early, and it will be much more difficult to wait for your colleagues to spread your ideas.

3) Exit the scramble.

At first glance, this doesn't seem like a good approach, or not a good one. But for some, it's probably for the best. You should ask yourself:

Which is more important, to put the idea into practice, or to have the reputation to come up with the idea alone? It's a complex question, especially for women, when should they justifiably theorize with their male colleagues about "appropriating other people's ideas", and when should they make some sacrifices for their own organization? When making a decision, you should consider how much effort it will take to fight this "lawsuit".

In some cases, such as when you are about to receive an important ascension, it takes a lot of time and effort; Or there is nothing in the way except a "matter of principle", and to prove ownership can only exhaust you ......It may also make your superiors angry and make them wonder why you can't use your time to do something more meaningful. In these circumstances, it is clearly wise to withdraw from the scramble. Feel free to post it.

I remember, there was a famous person who said a sentence that might work for you.

Speak of me, shame me, insult me, scold me, slander me, deceive me, deceive me, harm me, what will I do? Let him, let him, do as he pleases, let him, let him, let him, let him, help him, and see him in a few years. "

There is time for the two of you to talk about your heart, and then slowly lead to this topic, you half-jokingly and half-seriously talk to him about this After all, we are friends, and what you can't say is right

It's simple. Fight back against him. Other than that.

Be sure to be prepared for a lot of language before you fight back.

Don't be speechless.

Attack the shield of the son with the spear of the son.

Summary. Mean, its close relatives will often be jealous, sarcastic, sarcastic, vengeful, and resentful......These gloomy words will definitely make your mood gray and even your whole life will lose its luster and no longer bright. Punishing myself for other people's mistakes has never been my specialty, the thick barrier is my protection, when the mean words come and the ashes are destroyed, it is its best destination.

Of course, there are no absolutes in everything, some mean sentences sound harsh but full of warmth, he often comes from the closest people, and straightforward, don't know how to beat around the bush, related to the knife, mouth, tofu, heart, these mean words, I only remember his sincerity and kindness, other, is it still important? So, you're going to ask me the meanest thing I've ever heard, I'm sorry, I don't remember a single one.

Mean, its close relatives will often be jealous, sarcastic, sarcastic, vengeful, and resentful......These gloomy words will definitely make your mood gray and even lose your luster and no longer brighten. Punishing myself for other people's mistakes has never been my specialty, the thick barrier is my protection, when the mean words come and the ashes are destroyed, it is its best destination. Of course, there are no absolutes in everything, some mean sentences sound harsh but full of warmth, he often comes from the closest people, and straightforward, do not know how to turn around and erase the corners of the brigade, related to the knife mouth, tofu heart, these mean words, I only remember his sincerity and kindness, other, is it still important?

So, if you ask me the most enviable thing I've ever heard, I'm sorry, I don't remember a single one.

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