What is an optimistic person, how to be an optimistic person

Optimism is a state of mind, a person's approach to life and life. To put it simply, it is to have a happy view in life, which means to laugh at everything and everyone. It's easy to say, people have to be optimistic, but it's really difficult to actually do it.

So I'll tell you a few points: 1. Let a grateful heart run through every corner of life at all times 2. Have a positive attitude towards life. 3. Always see the good side of things, 4. Think about the good when you encounter things.

If you still have rules that can be optimistic, you might as well say it too, and we will share it together, so that happiness can fill our lives. Finally, I wish you a happy and happy one!!

Do more. It's a happy thing.

Hehe, actually, I just want to tell you.

Life is our most basic thing.

And also. The ** of life is ourselves.

If you don't pay attention to this issue.

Maybe your life is going to be bad.

So life. Love.

Undertaking. Camaraderie.

If you want to get it all.

You have to keep a good attitude.

To live vividly.

It's wonderful. Go live your perfect life.

Do you understand. The ** of life is yourself.

Make the most of your current life.

I think you'll be happy.

May good people have a safe life.

Actually, I know it's boring.

Because there's nothing to do.

You think, if only there was something to do.

Will it still be boring.

You can do something you love to enrich your life.

Every day, we must maintain a good attitude, be happy, and be happy.

It's better to be in a good mood than anything else.

I think. It's hard to be unhappy.

For example. Listen**.

Watch TV series. Eat what you like.

Delicacies. Read comics.

Watch a movie. Play and run.

Play the game. Play mahjong.

Read**. Go to bed.

Tourism. Go out shopping.

Find a friend to chat with.

I think it's all good.

In short, do whatever you want.

Just be happy. Yes.

Hehe. Happy to you.

A happy life. Forever.

Carefree. Target.

Happy and peaceful.

Full of self-confidence, always have hope in yourself and others, and see the turning points in life's difficulties.

When you are in trouble, you can comfort and encourage yourself to find relief or vent for your pain or troubles.

Don't ask yourself questions.

Optimism is a very general description, and it may be considered optimistic to see what things don't get into the nitty-gritty.

When encountering difficulties, it is optimistic to treat them positively.

However, I think the most important thing for an optimistic person is to behave in times of adversity and despair.

It's like a mountaineer who falls off a cliff and grabs some vines, and then he suddenly finds wild strawberries around, so he grabs them and eats them, and then says to himself, it's really sweet and juicy, and finally the climber finally waits for rescue.

That is to say, optimism is often not just about ordinary life, the greatest optimism is how we look at things when we encounter an irreversible form.

The above is a personal opinion only.

To have a positive attitude towards life, often smiling is the manifestation of an optimistic person, I think we are very optimistic, if you want, we can talk.

To be optimistic is not to be pessimistic

I don't completely agree with Lou and laugh a lot, that's too tiring.

I think optimism is a state of mind, perennial smiling waiters, insurance brokers, **, businessmen, etc., are they all very optimistic? Not necessarily, smiling can be learned.

People who have a positive attitude towards life are certainly optimistic, but they are even more optimistic about setbacks in their careers, relationships, and all aspects that can quickly fade away.

My understanding is that you can take life seriously, and you can face the joys, sorrows, and sorrows calmly and seriously.

You're not a pessimist, looking at things from the worst-case scenario, just to prepare yourself for the best?

Living with your heart is not a problem.

1. Love is not to change each other, but to grow together.

2. Have the greatest hope, do your best, plan for the worst, have the best attitude, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what is true, the sun is always new, and every day is a beautiful day.

3. In fact, every ferry port can be docked or ferried, and it is warm and always by your side. Life is a journey with no beginning and no end. All the stories will come to an end, vigorous, after all, it is a passing cloud.

The way of Zen enlightenment lies in the clear heart, forgive the time, remember the good, delete the complicated and simplified, freeze the fragments of the years, let the tide of life surge, and my heart is at peace.

4. In a short life, everyone is a foreign traveler on the journey. This is neither your permanent home nor your final home, it is only a temporary visit for you.

5. If a person sees clearly how tortuous the course of life is, it is best for him to rely on his conscience as a navigator. As long as people who know how to control themselves automatically at the right time, they can achieve true balance of mind and have a happy life.

6. The years are in a hurry, life is short, beautiful things can't be kept, and there will not be too many happy moments, knowing how to cherish, live to the fullest, and live happily is the wisest choice.

7. The journey of life has a journey of scenery. Looking back at the picture scroll of life, the fragments of the past, there are always some encounters that will stay in the bottom of my heart; There are always some people who have given us warm company. Who will carve the pure beauty of time into a heart flower, and warm the color of life with traceless pen and ink?

Who is the soul of the soul, in the world of a drop of water, nourishing the feelings between the flowers, in the rush of time, together and separated?

8. There are many things in life that are enough to knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.

9. On the road of life, please cherish the people who watch the scenery together, maybe at the next corner, they will wave goodbye. All the stories, one day will be yellowed on the plain paper of the years, chanting a small poem, the book a touch of affection, not for the rendering of the heart, nor for who to remember, just in the light of the passing years, learn to be tolerant and grateful, until the green silk is full of frost, suddenly look back, if there is still warmth, it is the brightness of time.

10. How many bumps can be walked on a road; How much joy and sorrow can a heart hold; How much separation can a love endure, how many reincarnations can a story deduce, how much time can tolerate, and the journey of life will always be divided and merged; There will always be comings and goings in the corners of time, time, stumbling, life, ups and downs, how much of the past can be taken away by a turn, and how many vicissitudes can be written at a glance. ‍

People live to live a happier and happier life, and a happy life must be earned by oneself. In order to pursue his own happiness, he has the desire to fight for it, and for the goal of life, people must work hard, find fun in their work, make their monotonous work full of fun, make themselves carefree, physically and mentally healthy, live peacefully and comfortably, and live happily every day.

1. Seek truth from facts and foresee the ups and downs of life. Maintaining a little realism allows you to see the longer term and prevents your life from falling into an unbalanced state. You can't say that if you're an optimist, you won't experience unsatisfactory things in life.

You're bound to go through some ups and downs – that's the reality. Life doesn't always have smooth sailing. To be 100% positive is like the ocean where the tide rises and falls.

But once we realize that the ebb and flow of the tide are part of the same sea, we can face the world with envy and calm.

2. Be good at accepting the opinions of others. They have their own discernment ability, they can discern whether other people's opinions are useful or not, they can accept valuable opinions from others, they like to listen to others tell the truth, and they are always humble in their hearts. I don't deny myself easily.

They reflect before deciding whether to appreciate the other person's opinion.

3. Continue to receive education for ideals and keep pace with the times. Learning, gaining new knowledge, and understanding the development of the world is a joy in itself. Therefore, he has always advocated that learning is a lifelong thing.

If people have no ideals, they will be tired of the current life, and there will be no way to talk about happiness; If you have ideals but don't take action, you will be disappointed and depressed. Therefore, having ideals and practices complement each other, and having them at the same time, is the source of happiness.

4. Everything will also be thought in a good way. Optimistic people always think about the good side of everything. It's not that his life is smooth sailing, it's not that he doesn't have sorrows and troubles, but that he will face it with an optimistic and positive attitude.

In the eyes of an optimistic person, life is a kind of spiritual practice. Since it is a practice, it is necessary to accept all kinds of suffering and tempering, so what should come is what is coming. It is precisely because of this mentality that optimistic people will feel that everything should be and must be accepted, so there will be no complaints, and there will be no retreat.

Life is a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, if you cry at it, it will cry at you, keep a positive and optimistic attitude, listen to more positive and optimistic **, or watch, more inspirational movies. Therefore, to be optimistic and positive, we must first determine the appropriate needs according to our own reality, so that we will continue to realize the happiness of pursuit, and we will also be positive.

1. There is a violinist who plays the violin at a recital. He pulls and pulls, and the G string suddenly breaks, what should I do? He didn't stop, he immediately changed the tune, which could be done without the G string from beginning to end.

He played very successfully, and the audience gave him a round of applause.

Insight: Life is to bravely face setbacks, turn in another direction and seek another development or make trouble.

2. There is a person who left his home since he was a child to find the meaning of life. He searched for 20 years, walked thousands of miles, and searched very hard. At last he passed a farmer's house, and at night he saw the farmer and his wife, the child, talking and laughing together.

After reading it, he felt that he had found the meaning of life, so he ended his wanderings and went home.

Insight: The warmth of the family cannot be found even if you go all over the world.

3. When God created man, everyone carried a big burden. Human beings often complain to God that their own burdens are too heavy and others are too light. One day, God told these people to exchange their burdens, but to take someone else's.

After carrying the burden, I felt heavier and less relaxed than before.

Perception: Be content and cherish what you have now.

4. Eros and evil spirits came to the world together.

In the spring, they swim together in the garden. Eros said, "Ah! What a beautiful view – full of flowers! The evil spirit said, "Beauty, there are thorns under the flowers!" ”

In the summer, they go on a tour of the mountains and forests together. Eros said, "Look! What a wonderful scenery – green trees! The evil spirit said, "Wonderful, there are worms in the tree!" ”

In the fall, they go on a tour of the countryside together. Eros said, "Look! What a joyful beauty - **world! The evil spirit said, "Rejoice, what yellow means withered!" ”

In winter, they travel together in the desert. Eros said, "Ha! What a clean earth—snow-capped before! The evil spirit said, "What is the snow, and there is sand under it!" ”

So, God left Eros in heaven and sent the demons to hell.

Insight: There is love in the heart, and what you get is joy; There is hatred in the heart, and all you get is pain.

5. A gentleman commissioned two people to appraise a piece of land that he was interested in.

One reported to him: "There are all trees in that place that can't live, and the stream is so narrow that you can almost step over it in one step, and the weeds there are a man's height for miles!" ”

Another commented: "There is enough firewood in that land for you to burn for a lifetime; There was a small pool wide enough to dig by the stream; In terms of the size of the weeds, this is the most fertile and fertile land in the region. ”

This gentleman made a second report and opened up into a delightful leisure farm.

Insight: Pessimistic people see misfortune in every good opportunity; Optimistic people see good opportunities in every misfortune.

Examples of the collapse of optimistic figures in ancient China:

1, Su Shi

Su Shi has been belittled several times, but he still faces life open-mindedly, and he has a poem "Thin Wine" written:

Five more to leak boots full of frost, not dog days high sleep feet north window cool.

Ten thousand people are sent back to the north, and it is better to hang the quail and sit alone in the rising sun.

Rich in life, articles after death, a hundred years of blink and eternal busy.

Yi, Qi, and thieves are all dead, and it is better to forget both the right and wrong of being drunk in front of you.

2. Lie down and taste the gall

In 496 BC, the king of Wu sent troops to attack the state of Wu, but was defeated by the Yue state, and he was also seriously wounded and died. Two years later, Fu Cha, the son of Helu, led his troops to defeat the Yue Kingdom, and the Yue King Gou Jian was escorted to the Wu Kingdom as a slave, and Gou Jian endured humiliation and served the King of Wu for three years, and the Fu Cha discouraged him and sent him back to the Yue Kingdom.

In fact, Gou Jian did not give up his heart of revenge, he was obedient to King Wu on the surface, but secretly trained elite soldiers, strengthened the government and was inspirational and waited for the opportunity to counterattack Wu. Gou Jian was afraid that he would covet the comfort in front of him and lose his will to take revenge, so he arranged a difficult living environment for himself. He slept at night without a mattress, but only laid some firewood and grass (called salary in ancient times).

Gou Jian hung a bitter gall in the house again, and he would taste the bitter gall from time to time, in order not to forget the shame of the past. In order to encourage the people, Gou Jian and the queen participated in the labor with the people, and with the concerted efforts of the people of the Yue Kingdom, the Yue Kingdom became stronger, and finally found the opportunity to destroy the Wu State in one fell swoop.

The optimistic deeds of Socrates

When Socrates, the great philosopher of ancient Greece, was single, he lived with a few friends in a small house of only seven or eight square meters. Although life is very inconvenient, he is always happy all day long.

Someone asked him: "With so many people huddled together, it's hard to even turn around, what's the coke?" ”

Socrates said, "Isn't it a great pleasure that friends can exchange ideas and feelings at any time?" ”

After a while, my friends got married one after another and moved out one after another. Socrates was the only one left in the house, but he was still alive and well.

I have a lot of books! A book is a teacher. How can you not be happy to be with so many teachers and be able to consult them all the time? ”

A few years later, Socrates also became a family and moved into a building. The building has seven floors, and his home is on the ground floor. The ground floor was the worst in this building, and the top was always splashing sewage down, throwing dead rats, broken shoes, and miscellaneous dirty things

Are you happy to live in such a house? ”

Oh, yes! You don't know how wonderful it is to live on the first floor! For example, entering the door is home, and there is no need to climb high stairs; It is convenient to move things, and it doesn't have to take a lot of effort; It's easy for friends to visit, and there's no need to knock on the door one floor at a time to ask.

What particularly pleases me is that you can raise clumps of flowers and grow clumps of vegetables in the open space, these pleasures are innumerable! Socrates couldn't help but say.