What kind of marriage is happy What kind of marriage is happy?

Put your wife first.

I think a lot of people think that two people can get married together as long as they have a house and a car. But is this the only condition for two people to have a happy married life? I think there are three conditions for the best marriage: financial sufficiency, mental maturity and emotional stability.

First, the economy is sufficient, you don't have to have a house and a car, of course you have the ability to have a better one. Two people have a stable income. In addition to daily expenses, a large part of the funds can be used for investment and savings each month.

Even if one person gets married and has children, the other person's income can cover all living expenses. No embarrassment and tension.

A good married life is also based on a certain amount of economic depression. If the income of two people is low and unstable now, it is better to work hard for a while and wait until the economic income is sufficient before considering marriage. Otherwise, a quarrel caused by financial distress will hurt the feelings of two people.

Such a marriage will also be unhappy.

Second, it is also very important to have mature thinking and correct three views. Don't just look at the surface, look at the essence of the problem, and stop being emotional and willful. If you keep complaining about this and that, always giving up halfway, procrastination is very serious, you can't stick to everything, and you can't solve difficulties when you encounter them, then you'd better not get into married life too early.

Let's not talk about the bad influence of this state on two people. When you get married, you'll have children soon. These personalities and behaviors of yours will affect your child.

Parents are their children's best teachers. If you don't set a good example for your child in these areas, it's easy for your child to go in the wrong direction with a negative outlook on life, immature thoughts and emotional actions.

You've seen a lot of families where the children are unruly and domineering, and the parents are pretty much the same. The children's cultivation is good, the parents' cultivation is good, and the family atmosphere is also good. Parents who blindly accuse their children of bad habits and hate iron and steel, why don't they think about whether they also have these bad habits?

Didn't you set a good example when your child needed the right guidance?

Third, emotional stability, which is also the most important. It's normal for two people to quarrel together, but if every time it turns into a big emotional quarrel because of some trivial things, everyone will not back down, cold war, thinking about the worst breakup and divorce, it will definitely develop to the point of irreversibility after a long time. No matter how good the relationship is, it can't stand being so weak every time you quarrel.

If two people do not have the idea of breaking up or divorce in the worst-case scenario of quarreling, but think that everyone will give in to each other, understand each other, take the initiative to reconcile, and end this conflict, then their emotions will be stable and bent.

It is fate for two people to be together. Since you have decided to spend your life together, you must enter the marriage hall in a state of full preparation. If nothing is ready, no matter how good the emotional foundation is, it will fall apart under all kinds of tosses. By the time you know everything, it's already too late!

First, the other party must have a certain economic foundation. The economic base determines family harmony. Everyone knows that poor couples mourn everything, and only after falling into firewood, rice, oil and salt every day do they know that many contradictions are intensified because of lack of money.

Second, love is to be wanted, but you can't indulge in it, love can't be kept fresh for a lifetime, and the other party's character is very important. To marry an old man, you also have to examine the other party's conduct, and don't give yourself to the other party without reservation just because the other party is good to you and the other party is handsome. Marriage is a lifelong thing, the other party's character is not good, being good to you is just an appearance, and there will be hardships in the future.

Third, it is very important to have a certain financial ability. Your financial ability determines your family status at home, as well as your voice at home. Don't think that you will sacrifice your career for the sake of taking care of children, one day, the other party will use this excuse to dislike you.

Fourth, before marriage, go to each other's homes several times and observe the other party's parents' personality, occupation, way of speaking, and education level. Everyone understands the popularity of the word family of origin, and they all know the influence of family origin on the growth of a person. A family of origin with positive values has a positive meaning for life after marriage.

Fifth, a partner with the same three views will make the happiness after marriage stronger. If he wants to travel, he thinks you can see a lot of scenery by watching TV at home. You say you're going to eat a romantic Western meal, and he thinks you have money and nowhere to spend it.

This kind of life, it is estimated that you will not be able to stand it for a year and a half.

6. In addition to appreciating each other's strengths, we must also accept each other's shortcomings. The longevity of the marriage is not because of the many advantages of each other, but because both parties can tolerate each other, understand each other, and endure each other.

7. Have another child after one or two years of marriage. However, it is better for girls to complete it before the age of 30.

8. Evaluate the marriage, this assessment includes many aspects, such as whether the solutions to the problems faced by the two parties are the same, such as when the two people quarrel, what kind of way will the two parties handle, whether the difference is very big, and whether they can understand the other party's thoughts. The second is to understand each other's views on the family, for example, the simplest is whether to live with parents after marriage, whether to have children, when to have children, who will control the financial power of the family, etc., and make an understanding before marriage to avoid major conflicts after marriage. The third point is whether we know each other enough, not only to know each other's advantages, but more importantly, to know each other's shortcomings, to know each other's weaknesses, and whether we can accept each other's shortcomings.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and there will be a late distance in their hearts, and the marriage should end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily. Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure that the family is harmoniousMarriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.

Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them.

Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage. When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together.

Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and as soon as your brain is hot, you will take him as your ideal partner. The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

1. Mutual understanding, tolerance, and mutual trust, such couples basically have no great friction in their marriage, and every day is safe and stable, although it is dull but still sweet.

2. Two people are together, supporting each other to make progress together, and they are silently contributing to their own strength in both family and career, so this marriage and family will get better and better.

3. The three views are basically the same, there are common hobbies, they are not tired of getting along, and they can even feel very comfortable.

4. When facing differences of opinion, two people can tolerate and compromise with each other, and think about each other, empathy, and contradictions can be eliminated naturally without disputes.

Happiness is relative, and being able to do what you want to do and achieve it all means is what I think is happiness.

I have experienced a happy married life, as I once imagined, because my mother-in-law and husband are very good to me, like my own family, and I feel very lucky. A truly happy marriage is one in which two people get along easily.

There is no absolute happiness, the so-called happiness is, to put it bluntly, just two people who are not tired of getting along together. There is no need to worry about it every day, and it will not be a daily gain or loss, one can trust unreservedly, and the other can be more truthful in moderation.

You can't go wrong with this feeling of comfort. When you stay with each other, your heart is at least down-to-earth, relaxed, and happy.

Happiness is what you are willing to say and I am willing to hear. When two people are together, the happiest thing is not to have something to talk about, but to be willing to talk, even if it is just to share a little bit of what they have encountered.

Real couples are not inseparable from the short topic of parents, although it seems boring, it is indeed very real. can talk about each other's hearts, have plans for the future, and talk about happy and unhappy. They quarrel with each other together, and miss each other when they leave.

This point is the most direct and obvious way to see whether a couple's relationship is good or bad, and the true feelings of their hearts for their lovers. For example, when a couple is together, they can often quarrel over a trivial matter.

It's annoying to see each other, but once they've been separated for a few days, they're very worried, and they can't wait to see each other right away. Respect each other's personality and support each other's dreams. Even if I am married, it does not mean that I belong to him, he belongs to him, he still has his freedom, and I should keep myself and respect each other.

The purpose of husband and wife together is actually very simple, knowing that life is not easy, so they want to find someone they like to go together. Instead of sacrificing some of the other person's things to fulfill one's own life.