What if he asks a friend about friendship and he doesn t want to say?

First of all, I don't know if it's for friends with the same surname or friends of the opposite sex. Also, I don't know how far you plan to get involved with him? If it's a friend of the same sex, it seems that the other party doesn't treat you as a real friend, and at least he doesn't care what you think.

If it's a friend of the opposite sex, it means that the other person doesn't want to have a deep relationship with you. Recommendations may not be accurate. I hope that you can correct your position in making friends, friends are equal relations, and you can't lose your self-esteem because you want the other person to accept you.

If it's a good friend, maybe it's because he has something to worry about, and it's good to communicate well when he is in a better state. If he really doesn't care about your feelings, I think you can give up. Time will make you forget, if you really can't forget now, find something to do for yourself, get busy, there is no time to think nonsense.

It's your business how you treat others, and you can't expect the same from others. You agree that I am your friend, but I may not identify you as my friend. It's all up to you.

Friends are divided into several stages, but when both parties are sincere, they are friends. I think your friend thinks that the question you are asking is boring, but it should be obvious that he already knows what you are asking, and his is sure, he should have regarded you as a true friend. But you have to know that friends are not the same people as friends, and friends also have their own interests and hobbies, and they can't be forced.

People are completely different individuals, the premise of friendship is to maintain the independence of the individual, as long as you have a part that can be shared, hobbies or views can be, and enjoy this tacit understanding, you must be entangled in whether it is a friend in the real sense, it will only give the other party a feeling of oppression, but will push the other party away and feel that your behavior is unreasonable. I always feel that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.

I have always been very sincere with my friends, but some of my friends have made me very confused and frustrated......I consulted my psychology teacher [in school], and she said that some people just feel annoyed to have a group of friends together, and some people feel that even if they get together every day and laugh together, that relationship still can't be broken, you are good to others, he may not be equal... But in fact, that layer of emotion is absolutely there, but everyone expresses it differently.

Friend, you think too much! A true friend doesn't need to be deliberately understood! Be your true self and see people's hearts for a long time!

And it varies from person to person, some people are not suitable for deep friendship, be honest with each other, and exchange sincerity for true feelings! It's not easy to make a friend, don't give up easily, if this relationship is really broken, it will be irreparable! Cherish everyone around you and hope you meet a true confidant!

It's good to be natural, don't be too deliberate about pursuing these. Also, you have to be very assertive in front of him, and don't listen to him in everything.

Ask in a different way. Don't ask him directly what he thinks of friendship or what kind of friend he thinks is a real friend. Tell a story about a friend and ask him what he thinks about it. Learn about what he thinks about friendship.

If you treat him sincerely, then he will definitely feel it, and he will definitely repay you sincerely, if he doesn't appreciate it, then he must think that you are not to that extent.

I had the same experience as you. How to say, this type of person is actually heartless, if he doesn't know how to cherish a friendship, and just takes it for granted, then such a person is really not worthy of you to treat him as a friend. It's not that we can't live without them, and since he is not suitable, then go and find someone who is like-minded with you.

If he is willing to treat you as a friend, he will keep you in his heart, on the contrary, a person's sincerity is limited, and you can make other friends

Personally, I think making friends depends on feelings, and I also have friends who are very good to me, but I always feel that it is not fun to talk and snub him. In fact, sometimes friendship is the same as love, not that you will definitely be rewarded if you pay.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, don't worry about these problems, as long as you treat people sincerely, there will always be good friends. Sometimes what a confidant needs is a feeling, a tacit understanding.

It's hard to say, some people actually regard you as a friend, but they just don't want to express it, and some just think that you and him are not the same person, what kind of personality and hobbies are different! Or feel like you can't help him with anything. It's useless to find you if you have difficulties

As long as you pay sincerely, you have worked hard, even if you fail, you have a clear conscience, and it is his loss to not be able to make friends.

Well, this is probably his perfunctory performance. He probably accepts your contribution as a matter of course, he is a person who is not grateful, this kind of person is not worthy of deep friendship, I suggest you give up.

Other people who care about you are a good choice.

Not saying it means that he is more subtle or really reluctant to say it, in fact, it doesn't matter, as long as they get along with each other.

Actually, I also feel like I feel like my friend doesn't think of me as a friend, and if I treat her as a friend, and she always does something to hurt me, then I won't treat her as a friend anymore.

It's better to ask clearly, a friend doesn't even have such a little honesty, it's not right, there's nothing that can't be forgotten, time can erase everything, whether it's love or friendship, look back later, there's nothing to lose Every relationship is an improvement for yourself It's a kind of progress Come on

You feel that his impression of you is actually implied by your impression of him, try to do what you think he is not doing well.

No matter how much you change, there will always be people who will not see you as a good friend in the true sense of the word, and no matter how much you keep yourself, there will always be people who will treat you as a best friend.

First of all, make sure that you are sincere to your friends.

Be tolerant, understanding, and treat with sincerity.

The Tao is different and does not conspire with each other, the soldier dies for the confidant, and the woman is the one who pleases herself.

It's a little complicated, first of all, is your friend a man or a woman? Have you ever done anything to be sorry for him? When did it start to get cold to you? You are the person in question, and only you are most likely to know why, observe carefully, or come up with something to trick him.

By borrowing money, you can test friendship, many people will because friends do not borrow money, and make friendship disappear into passers-by, in fact, this is normal, if you have the ability to repay, friends will lend you money, and you have not repaid can be, not to mention that friends do not lend you, even your own parents, siblings will not lend you, you should also understand, now the most difficult to find is money, especially in the past two years! No one's money is only blown by the wind, nor is it bent down to pick up the money, if you want to blame yourself for not having the ability, and blame you for not making real friends. No matter what the friendship is, no matter what the purpose, you must pay attention to proportionality when speaking, do not say things that are old and young, do not say things that cause trouble, do not say things that involve privacy taboos, never say things that hurt people's self-esteem, and do not say things that are not clear.

Remember that no matter what time, no matter what occasion, no matter what kind of friends, you must control your mouth to avoid trouble. Everyone will have their own privacy and some secrets hidden deep inside. In many cases, not to mention people with average friendships, they are friends who are very close, and some words are impossible to tell.

There is also a situation where in the process of getting along with people with average friendships, it is necessary to speak a little measured. The so-called friendship is average, then the friendship between you is shallow, and the understanding between you will not be very deep. In the chat, there are some things that can be said, and some things that really can't be said nonsense.

For example, if you don't know about other people's situations, you come up and ask about other people's family situations. If this matter happens to be someone else's sore spot, how can you continue to talk about it that day, and everyone will be embarrassed if you don't get it.

For another example, others are taboo to talk about their income, but you don't know the depth and have to ask about other people's income, can this be good? Even if you are a straightforward person, don't talk about other people's shortcomings straightforwardly, anyone who is said will feel uncomfortable, people who are familiar with you know that you are a straightforward person and don't care, and in the face of people with average friendships, she is not familiar with you, how can she not care! Therefore, for people with average friendships, it is better not to say things that should not be said.

The most important thing to say in friendship is who is important, don't ask the other party if it's a boyfriend or a friend who is important, don't set routines for each other, don't compare with others, and don't test the friendship between two people, because this is the biggest question about the friendship between two people, and it will also destroy the friendship between two people.

<> people will have many friends in their lives, some of whom can accompany you through thick and thin, and some of whom can accompany you to enjoy wealth and prosperity. Some can accompany you in the advance and retreat, friendship is really a very strange thing, it is sometimes mysterious, but sometimes it is so real.

Do you sometimes grieve that your inappropriate remarks hurt your friends and cause them to leave you? And because your friend told you something that was appropriate, did you stop accepting and forgiving your friend? I believe that most of us have experienced this at some point, and this is quite normal.

This is true between husband and wife, and even more so between friends, so do you know what taboos are between friends? What should I say, how should I talk to my friends, and what should I pay attention to when chatting, these are all questions that each of us should think about.

When it comes to friendship, there are three things that I think should not be talked about.

The first point is to talk about money, since ancient times, there is an old saying that talking about money hurts feelings, in fact, it is very good, this sentence is very right, like most examples in our lives, many friends have a very good relationship with each other, but it is because of borrowing money, resulting in a stalemate between the two sides, and finally fell into an extremely embarrassing situation, so I think that in the friendship problem, we must talk less about money, although real friendship is not divided between you and me, but people will always be interested in only their own interests, so even if the relationship is good, we must avoid money.

The second point is to talk about your own achievements, which means not to show off yourself in front of your friends, generally this situation will be extremely resistant to your friends, which will also make your friends feel that you are a very bad person, even if you are super rich, talented, and capable, over time, your friends will leave you, so remember to be humble and humble between friends.

The third point is not to talk about his partner in front of his friends, which is the most taboo, I will say, what do you keep saying about other people's girlfriends? It's not your girlfriend, so ah, avoid this, it's possible that if you say a word, others won't like it, and women are symbolic of men's face, if you slander a man's face, will he like it? It's best to keep your partner at a distance.

Regarding friendship, I think it is better to have your own opinions, which are different from person to person, and the best way to get along is not to treat everyone equally.

I know, I think you're average, that generous girl looks very good, I think it's more comfortable to be with him, you're so hypocritical, it's been so long, I don't want to worry about you, in fact, don't say these words.

Why are you so stupid, why are you so stupid, you let me down so much, I don't have any hope for you, I hope you can change for me and so on.

There are good and evil people, and friendship is also sincere and false! Sincere friendship is sincere no matter what the situation. False friendships, when met with the right climate, immediately reveal their hypocrisy.

I remember someone saying that"When you see two dogs caressing and playing with each other, you will think that there is no better thing than this, as long as you throw a piece of meat between them, you can see what the friendship between them is really like"! However, how many friends can we meet in our lives? As long as we can encounter such feelings, we must try to grasp it, don't let it fly away!

Otherwise, you will regret it!

Good luck! In fact, having a really good friend is everything! Just like you said!

Hello: First of all, you have to understand women, it is normal for feelings to change quickly!

Secondly, a woman is always dismissive of the men around her who are good to her, maybe she treats you as a buddy-like friend!

If you really like her and want those guys to go away, treat her as well as you used to and don't talk about your feelings, because you might hit the nail! She won't come to you until she gets hurt in front of others!!

Helpful to adopt, thanks.

A friend is someone who can be there when each other needs it, help you, and make you happy.

As for his friends, it must be that your presence poses a threat to them!

You're thinking about her friend now, not her friend, aren't you?

As for what to do, it's good to be good with her, and you don't have to care what others say.

Of course, if you have a problem yourself, you should correct it in time, and you can talk about her problem at the right time.

My brother still settles the score, maybe she just doesn't care about her usual performance. This just shows that she treats you as a friend and is not polite to you!

Haha, it's not easy to make a good friend, please cherish it!