How to cultivate children s good habits

Cultivating good habits in young children should be to persevere, not to let them reach a certain level all at once. Instead, you should develop good habits for a long time.

I need good leadership from parents to cultivate good habits in young children. Walk into them together. The way of life.

How to cultivate children's good habits, start from small things!

Cultivating good habits in young children starts with everything! Every time, try to do it yourself to accompany the child's self-care ability.

Set an example of awareness.

For individual children, they may be subconscious movements, habits that they have already formed, and it is difficult to break them all at once.

Through role modeling, guide them to pay attention to the behavior of these children, so that they can have a positive reference to compare with their own behavior.

Some children have developed the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, so that they can find their own mistakes, make it easier to correct their mistakes, and do not hurt their self-esteem.

Give praise appropriately.

Compared with praise and criticism, children like others to use positive language to motivate them, with praise, encouraging language, so that children feel that they are affirmed, in the process of praising him, other children also see in their hearts, and they will laugh with them, then his behavior is seen by other children, and he is more willing to do a good job himself, there will be no bad habits, which is also a disguised supervision. Hunger.

For example, some children are naughty, usually can't concentrate well in class, will be distracted, talk to the children around them or do other things, but one day the child is doing well, then the teacher can praise him and believe that he will do better.

Standardized education.

The teacher's requirements are also very important, and the teacher's improper guidance and unsystematic normative requirements may also lead to the occurrence of bad habits in children.

3 6-year-old children are the critical period for the formation of personality and morality, because of the great plasticity of children, their personality and character will often be repeated in the formation process, so the educational content should be systematic.

The systematization of educational content is reflected in all aspects, and according to the individual differences of children, the guidance for them is also different, and it cannot be generalized.

The teacher's requirements cannot be changed all the time, so that children can form a certain sense of rules, and if the requirements are constantly changed, it will make children uncertain about the rules, so it is very difficult to develop good habits.

Involve young children on their own.

In the process of forming children's behavior habits, sometimes teachers and parents force them to form, which is a very wrong thing, and the formation of bad habits may be caused by improper guidance behavior. Therefore, when cultivating behavioral habits for children, it is best to make an agreement with the child, so that the child will be more willing to obey.

In addition, we should respect young children and develop a good habit, which should be to make children feel: this is what I am looking forward to, I especially hope to have this good habit, which helps me a lot, there are more good habits, I am a good child student, I can make more friends.

Parents take potatoes in the sedan chair at home to exercise their children more and cooperate more with kindergarten education. In the kindergarten stage, many parents have a misunderstanding, want to develop children's intelligence, so hope that kindergarten to teach more knowledge, in fact, this approach is not advisable, kindergarten stage is to correct children's bad habits, cultivate good behavior habits of the stage, so parents should actively cooperate with kindergarten, help children develop good behavior habits.

Parents lead by example. In terms of cultivating behavioral habits, children's imitation ability is very strong, for example, adults do not have the habit of washing hands before eating, then children will not develop this good habit, and parents' habits imperceptibly affect children.

Develop good behaviour habits through play. Parents can play games with their children at home, or let their children play games with other children, and in the process of playing, learn to cooperate with others and learn to communicate with people in civilized language.

Even if it is a small mistake in behavior, parents should correct it in time. In daily life, if parents indulge their children's bad behavior habits once, even if it may be difficult to correct them later, such as not paying attention to eating, always looking around, these small problems should be corrected in time.

Constantly encourage and praise your child. When a child's wrong behavior is corrected, parents should praise the child and give appropriate encouragement, so that in the future, the child will develop good behavior habits.

Make clear requirements for your child's behavior habits. Parents must put forward clear requirements for their children's daily behavior and habits, telling their children what to do and what not to do, for example, not to take other people's things, not to laugh at others, to fold their own quilts, and to wash their hands after going to the toilet.

After watching the "Special Lecture on How to Cultivate Children's Good Life and Learning Habits" in Zhejiang Children's Channel, I felt very deeply, mainly in the above points: First, be a parent who keeps pace with the times. With the progress of the times, the speed of knowledge update is accelerating, as a parent, we must also keep pace with the times and learn all aspects of knowledge, so as to catch up with the rhythm of the times.

Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds are very important for their children's lifelong development. So, create a learning atmosphere at home. Through parents' own learning to educate and guide children, so that children can also have fun in learning, so as to cultivate good learning habits.

The second is to let children learn the truth of being a human being from their own actions. If you don't litter, you must obey traffic rules, don't jaywalk and other small things, parents themselves must first do it, and use their own actions to educate their children "don't take the good as small, don't take the evil as small", so as to help the child establish a correct outlook on life and be an honest and kind person. The third is to carry out more appreciation education for children to improve their self-confidence.

By setting up a "growth file" for children, recording children's success stories, cherishing children's first perfect scores, the first published essays and paintings, the first manuscript fees, etc., on the one hand, through the collection of these achievements to encourage children to build self-confidence and dare to succeed. On the other hand, it also made him know how to sweat and harvest. Fourth, be a close friend of children.

On the basis of equal dialogue, talk to your child often and learn about the situation in school. As Mr. Tao Xingzhi admonished: "We must be able to become children before we are worthy of being children's husbands."

This means that when educating children, we must use the "child's heart" to feel, the "child's brain" to think, the "student's eyes" to observe, the "child's emotions" to experience, and the "children's interests" to like. How? That is to be a child's bosom friend.