Is this the case with your husband?

Case 1 Ms. Ren: How to make her husband's self-management of food, clothing, housing and transportation qualified?

As long as my husband is at home, he always asks me every few minutes, "Wife, where is my white plaid shirt?" "What about the pen I just used?" "What about the CD I brought home today?"

It's as if I'm his "super lost and found". However, there were some things that he had just taken, and in the blink of an eye, he didn't know where they were thrown away. I often "make mistakes" in housework, because he often says:

I still know where I am if you don't clean up, and I won't be able to find anything after you clean up.

Six tips Trick 1: Prepare a few more storage boxes. In this way, although he still messed around, at least he saved himself from littering the floor.

Feasibility analysis: At least the home doesn't look so messy. But if the husband can't find something, he will still ask his wife for it, and the wife has to continue to be a super housekeeper.

Trick 2: Say no to him! The wife should not do everything, and don't treat him like a child.

Feasibility analysis: It is not enough to simply say "no", you have to propose a solution to the problem, otherwise it will be invalid.

Trick 3: Let him not find it, and teach him a lesson. Throwing things away, the next time he can't find the car keys when he goes out, it's his own business, and he wants to let him know the consequences of his actions.

Feasibility analysis: equivalent to AA system. However, there will be no improvement in environmental hygiene at home, and the relationship between husband and wife will not improve.

Trick 4: Develop a system for your husband Keep your own things, if you lose and find them, you have to pay a certain price.

Feasibility analysis: The analysis is the same as three.

Trick 5: Use your own "incompetence + retarded" to stimulate your husband's intelligence and enthusiasm. If you are very forgetful, you will definitely be able to force your husband to understand everything. Sometimes pretending to be mentally retarded is also a ploy.

Feasibility Analysis: The possible result is that neither of the two people's things can be found.

Trick 6: Be sure to help him form a good habit of not putting things indiscriminately, look for opportunities to help him, encourage him, and affirm him.

Feasibility analysis: The wife needs to pay enough patience and love.

At first, it was like this, but I could develop it, and my bad habits were changed by my wife, but it was a longer process.

I'm different, I like to use 5s to manage the family.

I'm also a hygienic man!

It's not messy, it's rare to see a man who loves to clean up. Men are born like this.

My husband is the same, he never does housework, he plays games when he comes home, and he doesn't grow up to be a child.

It turns out that men in the world are really the same.

My husband is like this, and he is still divorced because of this.