Isn t my husband very macho like this?

Your husband is still a big child, and it can't be said that he doesn't know how to be considerate and care for you, only that he may not have been in such a role before, so he doesn't quite understand what to do to be the most suitable.

You should communicate with him more, tell him what you think, tell him your grievances, he is the closest person to you, and you have to go on the road of life together, so the two of you must be open-minded and communicate more.

I believe that after full communication, he will understand your hardships and hard work, and he will definitely feel sorry for you and actively share the pressure for you.

Remember, communicate more, be peaceful, and be caring, let your husband know your love and care for him, let him know how much motivation and comfort his care and understanding for you is, and wish you happiness!

In fact, you already know that it is a disservice to you that he is doing this. Why do you pamper him?

Your forbearance will only fuel his arrogance.

If he really loves you, he should respect you and understand you.

Maybe you won't be able to accept him when I say this, but you can still say this kind of thing if you have a high fever of 39 degrees, and you should consider whether such a man is worth cherishing.

Give her a baby, it will naturally mature, the man is muddy, you can't say deep or shallow, it's really hard to manage, get a baby, let him go to the delivery room to see you give birth, he will know that he feels sorry for you, his wife has a fever, how can I explain it? Ay.

It may seem like some trivial things in life, but in fact it is far from that simple!

First of all, let's think from the perspective of parents:

When people are old and do not live with their children, they feel lonely and long for their children to visit them often. Due to the bad social atmosphere at present, there are many people whose children do not interact with the elderly after marriage, and television and newspapers report it every day. This made the old man feel a kind of taboo in his heart.

Moreover, the hearts of parents have been placed on their children all their lives, and it is normal for them to miss their children! So they will often call ** to let their children go home, the first time they are too busy to go, the second time they can't go if they have something, and the third time they can't go when they are sick, so is it the fourth and fifth time that they can't go? What will the parents think, only the son goes, the daughter-in-law does not go, and does not go once, twice, or three times, what will the parents think?

Besides, the son often goes to see his parents, but the daughter-in-law does not go, so the son's face is put here? Will parents misunderstand that their son and daughter-in-law are at odds? Isn't this fearless to worry about parents?

It's understandable for your husband to say that to you, it's not machismo, he can still understand you from another angle!

But the plan is not as good as the change, you also have your difficulties, I can give you a suggestion here, you said that your husband's work is not very busy, then you can ask the company for two or three days off, accompany your husband to visit his parents, and explain the reason, don't care about the salary or full attendance bonus or anything in those two or three days, compared with family harmony, they are not worth mentioning!

As a woman, I feel the same way, if his parents are very important, then my parents are equally important, but if I have a fever of 39 degrees, I believe that my parents will definitely not urge me to see them, but they will come to see me, after all, filial piety is also in the body when the body is healthy, if even the body has no capital, how to talk about filial piety, such a man, I really want to spit on him, only he and his family are human beings in the world, and others are slaves; Today's man is really angry, ignore him, what does he love, such a man only knows how to care about himself, not worth cherishing.

If it were me, I would have a fever of 40 degrees and I would go back with him, and I would have regretted it for the rest of my life.

Filial piety to parents is important to be considerate and considerate.

There is nothing wrong with his filial piety, but he may think that you are lying to him for your fever, and you should communicate more.

Men sometimes have very small hearts, and they think that filial piety to their parents is very important, considerate and considerate.

Bring his parents to live with him

When encountering this situation, it should be asking the other party, advocating life, that is, to express their weakness to the other party, which will help to satisfy the husband's machismo, and once the other party is satisfied, the other party will also actively participate in these housework activities, and the child's education, effectively reduce their own burden

You should first communicate with your husband, then tell him what you think and agree with both parties, and at the same time correct his machismo behavior at any time.

You can praise him first, and then say what he didn't do very well, and tell him that he can do it better. Don't go to him hard, but speak to him with gentleness. You must know that machismo people are very strong, and you can't be too strong at this time, otherwise the two of you won't be able to solve the problem.

Don't argue, two people with a strong temper arguing together will make things worse and worse. Don't listen to him, learn to rely on him and let him do something.