Let s talk about the reason for the marriage between urban girls and rural boys?

There are many such examples around me, the woman is well-off in the city, the man is still divorced in the countryside, the woman feels that the man in the city is not as simple as the countryside, and the rural husband is very good to her, picking her up to and from work every day, cooking, etc., taking care of everything, being good to her is one reason, and being motivated is another reason, I believe that hard-working people will not have a bad life in the future!

In fact, now the countryside and the city are the same, the country roads have been widened, the cement has been hardened, the rows of houses are gradually new, the infrastructure is complete, the construction of the new countryside is changing with each passing day, a thriving atmosphere, the scenery is more beautiful and more charming! More urban girls are welcome to marry in the countryside!

This is not uncommon. Some girls pursue love, regardless of other conditions; Some girls will consider that they will not go to the countryside to live when they get married, so it doesn't matter where their mother-in-law's house is!

First of all, why can't you get married. Rural people are down-to-earth and simple. People like each other too.

Let's get married! A colleague of mine, from the mountainous area of Sichuan, has made friends with 3 girls from Beijing! There are two who want to marry him, one wants him to be a son-in-law, and in the end, he refused one by one, (is it considered a scumbag)!!

In short, one reason, it comes naturally!

There are many cases of urban girls marrying rural boys, which is the so-called peacock man with phoenix woman. The boy from the countryside is simple, kind, willing to endure hardships, relying on his own skills to work hard in the city, he knows that he has no backer, so he works harder than the urban boy with a superior family background, knows how to cherish the girl's feelings, and takes care of the girl's family, so many urban girls are willing to find rural boys.

Love is a pure blank piece of paper, there is no class concept and no age boundary, as long as it is a sincere fight between each other, so as to find that sweet and warm feeling, strengthen the confidence to pursue a happy marriage, and work together to create a new home of their own.

Love is regardless of geographical boundaries and age gaps, regardless of whether urban girls marry rural areas, rural girls marry cities, as long as they have true love for each other, have true feelings for each other, and attract each other, you and I are willing, love each other, two loves, two loves, urban girls marry rural single men better and more beautiful, and can enjoy the beautiful scenery of rural nature, and the local atmosphere!

Regarding the relationship of marriage, I think it still depends on the individual! I have a real example of this around me! The woman is the daughter of a wealthy businessman in Hong Kong, and the family property is estimated to be more than 10 million!

The man is a young man in our village, and his family background is the kind of people who are very ordinary in the countryside, and now the children can run off the ground! I'm still happy like this!

There is no standard answer to this question and it varies from person to person.

Whether it is a girl in the city or a boy in the countryside, whether or not they settle down to live in **, the main reason depends on the human beings themselves. In other words, the issue is negotiable. As long as both men and women can reach a resonance, the problem will be solved, so the key to the problem lies in the people, and the personality characteristics of men and women, the degree of love for each other, etc., is the key to the problem.

The importance of communication.

Communication is conducive to eliminating misunderstandings between each other and establishing interpersonal relationships of mutual trust. In the process of communication, if you want to get sincere friendship, mutual respect, and mutual trust, you must communicate deeply and increase your understanding of each other, so that you can know the personality and personality of both parties, and in the process of communication, you will not affect the relationship and feelings between each other because of some small differences and different living habits.

In actual work, a person's communication and coordination ability is very important, good at communication, good communication effect will often make people quickly open up the situation in the work, but also can greatly improve the company's efficiency. Communication is a two-way street, on the one hand, you have to get the real information about the other person, and on the other hand, you have to convey your own real information to the other party. Only such communication can be considered successful.

Most of the girls who come out of the countryside and go to the city are reluctant to marry back to the countryside for many reasons, including economic, ideological, and interpersonal relationships.

1. It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift.

As Sima Guang of the Northern Song Dynasty said: It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift. Girls who go from the countryside to the city, especially from remote rural areas, the prosperity of the city is completely beyond the reach of the countryside, as well as the convenience of life, and the diversification of leisure and entertainment methods are one of the important factors to attract young people.

It is difficult for girls who are accustomed to living in the city to go back and accept the backward lifestyle of the countryside. And if you want to be able to take root in the city, in addition to your own hard work, the quickest way is to marry yourself in the city.

2. I like the romance of flowers and sweet words.

As long as it's a girl, whether you're in the city or in the countryside, you like romantic love in your bones. Rural boys, because of environmental influences, are mostly honest and responsible, and compared with urban boys, they lack a sweet mouth, and there are fewer romantic gestures such as giving flowers and gifts.

Also because of the environment, urban boys are more particular about dressing than rural boys, and they all say that men like beautiful women, and women are the same, and their sensual demands are not lower than men's, and boys who are exquisitely dressed and handsome can win their hearts more. Therefore, rural girls with a little capital are looking for a partner in the city.

3. The economic conditions in the rural areas are still relatively backward.

In the past, it was always said that to marry someone who was honest and knew the roots, so most rural girls at that time married boys from the same village or surrounding villages. Today's girls are more realistic about marriage, and the strength of the other party's family has become the primary criterion for them to choose marriage.

Especially the girl who came out of the countryside, she saw the outside world, clearly realized the backwardness of her village, and finally broke away, how could she be willing to go back. If you can't marry, you must at least marry a village that is richer than your hometown, and marry someone whose living conditions are better than your hometown.

This can not be generalized, if the man wants to be based in the countryside and have his own career, then if the woman loves him and wants to start a family, she will definitely follow the man back to the countryside, now is the Internet era, in fact, it really doesn't matter if you live in **, of course, if the woman you meet is more insistent, that is, to stay in the city, then it depends on the two people who will sacrifice for each other, in short, everything is possible!

Urban girls will certainly not return to the countryside after they get married. How many young people still live in rural areas? If you don't work outside, or you don't buy a house in the city and settle down, you don't have to think about living in the countryside after getting married.

Even girls in rural areas may not agree to live in rural areas after they get married, because young people are working hard outside the home, and there are very few young people living in rural hometowns. So it's better to buy a house in the city, buy it early and buy it late.

In fact, I think that this possibility is relatively large, because even if a girl in the city finds a rural boy, because after all, she grew up in the city since she was a child, and few girls will choose to go back to the countryside with the boy, because maybe this living environment is not for the girls in the city to adapt to, and for some reasons, the development prospects in the city are better than those in the countryside, and there are more development opportunities in the city, and there are some things that are more convenient. Therefore, I think that even if urban girls marry rural boys, there will be a large number of girls who will choose to stay in the city, and a small number of girls who will choose to go back to the countryside with boys.

Most girls in the city find a boy from the countryside to marry, and most of them are reluctant to live in the countryside, after all, they are pampered in the city, and they are not used to going to the countryside. Unless you go to the countryside occasionally, you can't really live. Normally, girls in the city will ask the man to have a house in the city.

If there is a house in the city, the education of children in the future will be better than that in the countryside.

Most of the urban girls who marry rural boys will choose to settle in the city, and the general rural life is not used to urban girls, and they will not want to live with their rural parents-in-law. However, now that everything is developing well, many people from the countryside are buying houses in the city, and the parents-in-law will not force their daughters-in-law to live in the countryside.

Even if a girl in the city marries a boy from the countryside, she will certainly not go back to the countryside with the boy. At most, they settled in the city later. Because girls in the city marry boys from the countryside.

Girls generally adapt to boys. Life in the city. So very few girls marry boys and go back to the countryside to live.

Even if a girl in the city marries a boy from the countryside, she will not return to the countryside with the boy, and unless the living conditions in the countryside are better than in the city, she will still settle in the city.

I think it's a city girl, and if you go to the countryside to live, it's possible. There are a lot of unaccustomed or inconvenient places, and he and he himself will not think about it, even if he goes to the countryside, he will be taken off the shelf, and if he is taken off the shelf, his parents may not be very happy, and if they have a bad life for their daughter. Is it unacceptable for all parents?

Now most of the people in the countryside are buying houses in the city, basically the young people will go out to work after they get married, and they will not stay in the countryside to farm, and now the young people will not farm, so the girls in the city do not have to go back to the countryside when they marry the boys in the countryside, because everyone has bought a house in the city and will still live in the city.

Yes, you're absolutely right. Now that they are girls, even if they marry a boy from the countryside, they will not live for the countryside anymore, and they will buy a house in the city and settle down.

People go to higher places, water flows to lower places, and life in the city is higher than in the countryside. Of course, they will all fall to the city, and they will not settle in the countryside with the man. However, there are also individuals who like rural life. But there are very few.

Urban girls, even if they marry a rural boy, will not go back to the countryside with the boy to live, this situation is more realistic, urban girls will not like rural life, so they will also settle in the city after marriage.

It varies from person to person, some mature girls find a boy in the countryside, and after getting married, they are willing to go back to the countryside to live, and some are willing to settle in the city, which is different, depending on what kind of girl you are looking for to know what he thinks.

I am also from the countryside, my thoughts may be a little different, mainly depending on the economic aspect, now many places in the rural living conditions are good, living in the countryside is also very good, if the future for the children to go to school can also buy a house. If you are all working in the city, you can also buy a house in the city, but it is not recommended to transfer your hukou to the city.

As the saying goes, people go to high places, and water flows to low places, so even if a girl in the city finds a boy in the countryside, she must live in the city, and it is impossible to go back to the countryside to live, because urban life can have more opportunities.

Urban girls who marry rural boys will not return to the countryside, because the rural land is becoming scarce, and there is no work in the countryside, so they all work in the city, so they will live in the city.

After all, everyone is different, the environment is different, the living habits are different, and the way to behave is not the same, of course, their choices are different when they meet you in this situation, some will choose to live and settle in the city, some like the pastoral life, there are families in it, and some choose to stay in the countryside for a lifetime, the important thing is to be willing to be happy and happy.

Hello, now the post-80s generation will not return to the countryside.

Maybe the boy or girl just wants to live in the countryside, and many rural areas are no different from cities nowadays.

If there is no good development or a home in the city, it is difficult for urban girls to marry rural boys, after all, there are no boys in the city to find !! Although the countryside is much better now, it is still much worse than in the city, and many neighbors around us, as long as the family is okay, have bought houses in the county!!

Your question is a bit difficult. As normal. Ninety percent of them settle in cities.

Won't go back to the countryside. There is no good medical care in the countryside. There is no good education.

There is no ** for your life. Not what you think it is. Get along well with your boyfriend.

The current development trend is this, whether you are looking for a boyfriend in the countryside or in the city, you will generally choose to live in the city. It's not that the countryside is bad, it's true that sometimes it's very inconvenient. First, in terms of work, there are more job opportunities in the city, and it is more convenient.

There is also the problem of children's schooling in the future.

Nowadays, rural girls want to work and live in the city, even if their boyfriends are rural, they will start a family in the city with their boyfriends, and settle in the city, and the life and opportunities in the city are incomparable to those in the countryside.