Do I have hope for a girl from such a family?

Man! Do it if you want to! Don't mother-in-law and mother-in-law are saying that you chase after you show that you have the ability, you are still young to do things with momentum, there is nothing impossible for you, no matter how big the problem can be solved, you must have self-confidence, the most important thing is not to let yourself regret it later.

Family circumstances are what you used to be, and you can change them.

If he loves you, he will share your ups and downs.

Don't worry, everything will be fine.

There will be bread, there will be milk, everything will be fine.

My brother was sad because of his family background

Let's fall in love. But don't think too far ahead, lest you get sad.

got married too far, and my brother talked to his girlfriend a lot after falling in love, so he ended up so sad.

It depends on your ability, you are attractive, even if it is rural, you can chase it.

I don't care about you, so I don't care about your family. Don't blame me if you're straightforward.

Try it anyway, though.

She won't be her parents, love is not the same as marriage, if you just want to fall in love, it's nothing, if you want to get married in the future, then forget it, it should be against it, marriage is not a matter of two people!

Characteristics of girls with poor family background:1. Low self-esteem. No matter how poor a person is, he can't be poor in ambition, everyone understands this truth.

But if you have been living in an environment with extremely scarce resources, and your friends around you are dressed beautifully and eating delicacies from the mountains and seas, but you have nothing, such a strong contrast in the long term will make the girl's heart extremely inferior. Low self-esteem when you are young will only lead to introverted and withdrawn personality, but when you are older, it will make the girl lose a lot of opportunities in vain, and she may spend her life in missing out and regretting.

2. Narrow-mindedness.

A girl who is used to living a poor life is conscientious every day, and as far as the eye can see, there are some coarse things and light food, and her biggest intention is only to save money. In today's ever-changing society, many opportunities need to be invested in advance, and narrow-minded girls will feel that this is a waste of money, afraid that they will lose so much money by investing, and over time, they will miss many good opportunities. For example, the real estate boom in the past two years has many people regretting and depressing.

But once the opportunity passes, there is no room for turnaround.

3. Covet a small bargain.

The news on TV is broadcasting supermarket sales all day long, and a group of grandparents and uncles are rushing to cause unexpected news. It may seem absurd, but if you think about it carefully, these people were not too poor back then, resulting in a greedy temperament. Once such a character is cultivated, the small just likes to rob cheap items, and the greater crisis lies in being deceived, and many scams deceive many people through such means.

In marriage, it is ridiculous to only think about family background, but it is stupid not to consider family background. ”

Just like love, it is not enough to focus on the present, you must plan for the future.

In this future, in addition to the young couple of the new family, there must also be other members of both families, especially each other's parents, and the attitude of the parents can also affect or determine a marriage to a large extent.

There is a topic on Zhihu that discusses: What is it like to have a warm and harmonious in-law's family? "Being in my mother-in-law's house is like being in my own home, and many times, my mother-in-law is like my mother, I feel that I am not married to my mother-in-law's family, but has returned to my mother's family.

The subject said that a large part of the reason why she married her husband was that she liked the good atmosphere of his family. Her mother-in-law and father-in-law are very good people, easy-going, close, and although they are from a Kochi family, they are not at all Kochi shelf.

When she and her husband were still in love, her mother-in-law often cooked all kinds of delicious food for her. Every time I celebrate the New Year, I will send her red envelopes and buy gifts. After getting married, she and her husband moved out.

Knowing that she likes to be clean, her mother-in-law never takes the initiative to disturb them. Even when she said that she didn't want to have children, her mother-in-law and father-in-law didn't mind, saying that as long as they lived happily, they would decide whether to have children or not. Seriously, if you can meet a peaceful and warm family, I think many girls will not resist marriage so much.

Even if the life after marriage is a mess, with the support of two families, no matter how big the difficulties are, you will have the courage and confidence to face them.

Getting married, to put it bluntly, is not only marrying this person, but also the entire family behind this person. Therefore, before getting married, it is very necessary to look at the other party's family background.

Why do you want to look at each other's family background when you get married, I have heard a great saying that "everyone's personality hides their inherent three views, which are influenced by the family environment and educational environment over the years." ”

In other words, everyone's behavior, style and attitude are related to the family behind him and his parents and family to a certain extent. If this person is always submissive, indecisive, and likes to avoid problems, he may have lived in an environment where people are decided and manipulated for a long time, and he has a father or mother who likes to make decisions on his own. If this person is in a hurry and his temper will blow up at the slightest stop, then his parents may not have a good temper, and he may have been scolded and harshly criticized since he was a child.

Similarly, if the person is cheerful, optimistic, and positive, it means that his family atmosphere is relaxed and his parents have given him a lot of room to grow.

Life is just a few decades, and the person who wants to spend his life with us in the future, he can not be so handsome, not so rich, not so humorous and romantic, but he must have a good character, responsibility, and responsibility. So, girls, out of responsibility for themselves, whether they are in love or married, they must keep their eyes open and stay sober. If you want to love and marry someone who has passed the character test and the family background has passed the test.

After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and no one can pay for you and be responsible for it except yourself.