How to become a person who is not changed by the environment?

Just be firm in your thoughts, always remember your own original intention, time and environment are changing, but as long as your goals and mentality remain the same, it will always be the same.

The environment is actually really easy to change people, many people are not like this when they first enter this environment, but after a long time, he is slowly changing, and I am glad that I am still my old self. I didn't forget my former self because of my age or increased knowledge.

To give a simple example, like yourself who have just entered college, many people are particularly positive when they are just starting out. You can apply for many clubs at the same time, and you are so busy that you don't even have time to eat every day, and you especially want to learn some knowledge and experience, which is really very motivated.

But over time, they have changed, because the environment is changing. When they were sophomores, if they didn't become the minister or other person in charge of the club, he would give up. I've long forgotten my original intention, and I feel that I should stop going back to the dormitory to play games if I am a sophomore and have no achievements.

The self who used to struggle has long been smoothed out by the years, giving up the dream he is chasing, and I feel that I have no face, and then I left.

But I'm fine, I'm still sticking to my own direction, and I don't just because I'm a junior and qualified to ask others, so I stand tall and tell others to do things, and I sit back and enjoy the results.

And when I was a sophomore, I didn't give up on joining the club I wanted to go to just because I was a sophomore. I was the only one in the room, a sophomore, and I stayed quietly inside.

And the people in the dormitory are playing games, and I don't have the heart to struggle, but I still encourage myself, don't fall, don't forget my original intention, and continue to move forward.

The bustling world is colorful and beautiful, but how can we protect ourselves from being changed in this beautiful environment?

I used to be new to society, and I was so stupid that I had no heart and lungs. I lost myself in an environment when I met an older sister who taught me how not to be changed in this complex social environment.

She said that if you don't want to be changed by the environment, you need to adapt to the environment, and you may need a layer of camouflage to protect yourself, and under the disguise, protect your own heart from being changed.

She also said that if you want to survive in this society and don't want to be changed, you have to choose the golden mean.

What is the "mean"? Actually, I don't understand either.

So how can you protect yourself from being changed in a social environment? <>

First of all, we need to recognize the environment. Be familiar with and see clearly what kind of environment you are in, what kind of attributes it is, what adjustments you need to make, and how to quickly and effectively enter this environment.

Then, look at yourself, see what are your strengths and what are your shortcomings in the current environment, and supplement your own shortcomings, so that you will not be annihilated by the current environment.

Then, integrating the environment and oneself, clarifying the goal, and determining one's own bottom line and principles, you may need a disguise to protect yourself, and then have a major concept of right and wrong, knowing what can be done, what can be seen, and what can be said.

Then let yourself have a strong heart to resist the invasion of the outside world. Keep your heart and live a relaxed and happy life in a variety of environments.

At first, I saw clearly, kept my heart, was true to myself, and was perfect.

I hope that you can live happily and happily in various social environments.

We all want to stick to our hearts, thinking that even if we are in the mud, we will bloom a lotus, but how many people can really do this, more or less will be changed by the environment, but some people are getting better, and some people have become what they once disliked the most.

When I first started college, I wanted to be a cheerful person who would try everything, but now it's a little bit different from my original goal, which has a lot to do with the environment around me: if I hadn't come to this school or met the people I am now, I might have gotten better and gone further. But fortunately, it's not very far, at least I have other friends and guides, who have been subtly helping me and helping me realize my original wishes.

If you are a person who is easily changed or easily shaken, then the resources around you are important, especially in a very dark environment. You have to try to find someone who you want to be like that, or someone who is close to your goal. Let him be your guide, your streetlamp, and pull you on your walk.

If you can't find this person, then you can only discipline yourself. Even if you read some chicken soup for the soul and some inspirational stories of celebrities, if you really can't do it, find some friends who you think are sincere to give you some advice. These methods are more or less useful.

The most important condition for not being changed by the environment is to grasp your heart, even if one day you are really changed a lot by it, as long as your heart is still there, your heart has not given up, then there is still a chance to change back, or even become better, but you will feel the vicissitudes of the world, full of emotion.

The society is too big, too chaotic, people will always change more or less in this torrent, some people become better and better to become what they want, some people become more and more weird, and they can't recognize themselves anymore. From my personal experience, in order to be a person who is not changed by circumstances, you must have a firm and very strong heart. <>

Just as the softer and more fragile things in our lives, the easier it is to change, if we are fragile in our hearts, then how can we hold on to ourselves in the face of a changing society? Someone once said that either we change the world, or we are changed by the world. So to be a person who is not changed by the surrounding environment, you can try to change the environment around you.

Because of the differences, because of the differences, there is a need for change. If you are different from your surroundings, there is bound to be a change in you or your surroundings. If you don't get changed by the environment, then you have to work hard to change the environment.

When Bruce Lee came to the United States, Americans didn't know what kung fu was, and Bruce Lee didn't want to change himself, so through his continuous efforts, the United States and the world recognized Chinese kung fu, and marveled at Chinese kung fu and went crazy for Chinese kung fu. <>

In fact, everyone has a heart to change the world, but most people are often changed by the world. In fact, many times, we can also associate with some people who are similar to ourselves, so when you see the appearance of the other person, you can stick to your original heart and not waver. The person who resembles you is like your referent, and whenever you give in to your surroundings, you can keep it by looking at him.

As the old saying goes: Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

Nowadays it is often said: people gather by like, and things are divided by groups.

It's as if everything is telling us such a truth:

About family background Born in a famous family, he will not worry about food and clothing for a lifetime, and he is destined to be rich and prosperous all his life.

If you stay in a good school, you will definitely get ahead, get good grades, and read poetry and books.

Most of those from poor families will be dull and do nothing, and they will live their lives.

About the environment If you are in a third-rate university, you can only work for others after graduation, and stay in the countryside for the rest of your life with two or three thousand dollars.

If you are in a prestigious university, as soon as you step into the society, there will be all kinds of companies waiting to compete for them.

However, why is there always a noble son from a poor family, there are always people who were once like us, but now they are living a life that we envy and have become the people we want to be.

We are always complaining about the environment and our family situation, as if because of this, we can temporarily cover up our incompetence and inaction, and only in this way can we temporarily forget our laziness.

The environment can affect a person, but it cannot change a person.

For many things, the key lies in whether we want to do it or not, not whether the environment is good or not.

When someone who started like you, or even someone who is behind you, surpasses you, his environment may not be as good as you, he may not be as smart as you, but the result is that others just surpass you, or even work harder than you.

When you are complaining about the bad environment and the people around you are always influencing you, people are already ahead of you. When you start to give up on yourself and think about yourself for the rest of your life, it can only be like this. People are trying to make a difference, and they believe they will succeed.

It is possible that the starting line of others at the beginning is your end.

It is possible that his family is wealthy, has sufficient resources and abundant resources, which can allow him to develop in an all-round way in many aspects.

It may be that you are in an environment that does not allow you to have extra time to improve yourself.

But that doesn't mean you can just let yourself go, go with the flow, and then disappear from the crowd.

If you don't work hard to change, no matter how good the environment is, it's useless.

You're always complaining, and even if it's done for you, you can still pick the bone out of the egg.

You have always been unwilling to face it, always shirking and seeking excuses, how can you grow.

In all of this, the environment is only an auxiliary work, and only you play a decisive role.