When misfortune suddenly befalls the family, how should we maintain our mentality?

The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, and empty their bodies. When a person encounters misfortune, don't be compassionate, and don't complain about the unfairness of fate to you, this is fate is training you, exercising you, making you grow, so that you have the ability to meet the next challenges and opportunities, this is a fact, but also a kind of self-suggestion, when you encounter misfortune, you must respond positively, don't be discouraged, complain, this is useless at all, and such people can't become a career at all. We must correct our mentality and correctly see what misfortune brings us, instead of thinking about what we have lost, and what we lose is directly proportional to what we gain.

Stay optimistic, live each day as if it were your last, be happy, and cherish the moment. There is a story: a neighbor said to another neighbor while walking, I bought the snake wine to drink it has helped my body to recover a lot, tomorrow I will eat the snake too, the next day, he took out the snake to see, it turned out to be plastic, so the mentality is very important, the mentality is good, the disease is naturally lighter, plus fitness, conditioning, even the doctor ordered an ultimatum, people will not be absent.

Mindset is the most important thing.

Strengthen your own mentality, do anything need to be cautious, of course, it is not that you can't let go of anything to do, face difficulties, solve problems when encountered, face everything with an optimistic attitude, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, difficulties are only temporary, immortality will eventually come out, tomorrow's sun will still rise from the east, and your family, all I, as a man in the family, should bear the burden of the family, they still need me to take care of it, and I can't fall.

What can I do? It's time to eat, it's time to drink. You weep bitterly, you don't think so, the sun will still rise tomorrow as usual.

The so-called misfortunes that befall us suddenly are actually premeditated, and they have been inadvertently hinted at before they happen, but you don't care. But now is not the time for remorse. First of all, I hope you can understand the truth that "difficulties are like springs, if you are weak, it will be strong, and if you are strong, it will be weak", this society is the survival of the fittest.

When you are proud of the spring breeze, the sun will also warm up by three points, and when you are frustrated, the stones on the road will also trip you. At this time, it is not a good time to bury your head and cry, and to cry is to keep tears of joy after overcoming difficulties.

There are some misfortunes that we can not change, natural disasters and man-made disasters, everything is the arrangement of fate, we have to see these things, what should come will always come back, you can't hide and can't change, misfortune is often accompanied by luck, facing life with a positive attitude, is what we should do. We don't have to dwell on what has happened, we can't change it, can we? All we can do is be ourselves and try to live our lives.

Tell Mom and Dad, and you. A week ago, my classmate's sister was only 23 years old, and her brother-in-law was walking on the way home. was hit by a car, the man died at the time, the sister was in a coma, and there was a five-month-old fetus in her belly, and three days later, the sister also died.

My parents are also farmers, and my mother can't hear her voice. My sister has just graduated from college and has no stable job, and now, my sister and brother-in-law are dead, and she has to rely on her to support this family, and she is even worse than you. Let's open some.

Never subjectively think that you are in bad luck, because a large part of human suffering comes from over-exaggeration and self-reinforcement, and secondly, if you are really in a bad state, fitness and studying are always wrong.

The Matthew Effect. Adjust your state as soon as possible, and don't fall into the mood of mourning and feel sorry for yourself. Positive self-suggestion, a positive state of life, everything will get better and better.

Turn grief into strength, find a job and work hard, reduce the burden on your parents as much as possible, you are the hope of the family, and be a strong man as much as possible.

I'm very unlucky right now, doing some things, or investing in some things has not yielded results, and the cheapest investment right now is to study, learn your hobbies, and make your hobbies better.