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1. You are just on a whim, and you haven't seriously thought about whether she attracts you in the end, whether you are suitable, and whether you can live together!
2. At first, you understand her just on the surface, but you have more contact, know more deeply, and learn some facts that you can't accept, maybe you don't know each other at first, you feel like her, and when you get to music together, the girl begins to stick to you, and you feel that your mother-in-law and mother are annoying.
3. You chase her because distance produces beauty, when she doesn't belong to you, you crave, when she becomes your exclusive one, you no longer cherish her!
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Isn't it tiring to feel like you've caught up? If you're tired, you don't really want her.
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Maybe you're just a momentary favor, but it's not called love.
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You should ask her if she really wants to be with you.
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1. I have been injured in a relationship and have not recovered;
When you have a serious relationship, but you break up in the end, it will be difficult for you to like someone else, maybe you still believe in love, but you just don't believe that it will happen to you.
Not everyone, after a period of injury, can put it down neatly and then quickly come out.
It's like you're almost done writing an essay, but the teacher says you've scribbled up the assignment and told you to write it all over again. Although you remember the beginning and the content, you don't bother to write it, because an article has taken all your energy, and you have to start all over again.
2. I didn't meet the right person, so I didn't want to settle;
There are indeed many people in this world, but it is not easy to meet the right person.
If they can't meet the right person, some people choose to settle, but some people are not willing to give in no matter what. He attaches great importance to love, and would rather die alone than find someone to fall in love with and marry casually.
You can do anything, but you can't have feelings, I'd rather live alone than find someone to mess around.
3. The circle is small, there is little contact with the opposite sex, and the personality is not good at communicating;
When your circle is too small and you don't know a few people at all, then it is often difficult for you to meet people who are suitable for you in this limited social circle.
There is another reason, that is, most young people nowadays have social difficulties to some extent, and they may boast on WeChat on their mobile phones, but they are not good at speaking in front of real people; may play in front of the same sex, but be quiet in front of the opposite sex;
I'm not used to taking the initiative to hook up, let alone be sultry, knowing that there will be a story if I take the initiative, but I never take the initiative. You say you want to find a partner, but you can't resist it in your heart, and as soon as others show you favor, you will immediately distance yourself from each other.
4. After being single for a long time, I am addicted, and I don't want to fall in love very much;
If you have been single for a long time, let alone twisting the bottle cap, the bottled water will be carried for you in minutes. is so strong that he doubts that he can open the world, and he is much better than too many people.
And now the "love" of the rising fiber is not very reliable, so I think it's okay to be single. They can't take care of you anyway, so they just take care of themselves.
A single person has been addicted for a long time, and he doesn't really want to fall in love, he enjoys that kind of freedom very much, he can do whatever he wants, you don't have to be controlled by anyone at all, I don't want anyone to intervene in my life, and I am not ready to fall in love, who to marry and have children.
5. It's hard enough to live, and you still have the leisure to fall in love;
Falling in love has always been a need for a certain amount of capital and a certain material foundation, because the reality is really that poor couples mourn everything, let alone get married without money, and even love is difficult to do.
Especially when your own conditions are not very good, then you have no time to take care of love, and will only spend all your time and energy on making money.
I always feel that I have to wait until my conditions are better and I have the capital on my body, and then I want to think about falling in love and getting married.
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It's hurt by love, right? Respect your own heart and wish you happiness.
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In today's society, many people think that having a romantic relationship is a normal thing and is even considered a necessary stage of life. However, there are also some people who don't want to fall in love when the conditions are good in all aspects. Here are some of the reasons that can cause this.
1.Worries and stress Some people may not want to be in a relationship because of other worries or stress. For example, they may feel that it takes more time and effort to challenge their career, academic, or other goals.
As a result, they may want to focus on these aspects and avoid distractions in a relationship.
Reluctance to face risks Falling in love and getting married are both risk-related decisions. When a person feels reluctant to take these risks, they may not want to be in a relationship. For example, they may worry that the relationship will eventually fail, or they may not want to take on the financial or psychological burden of emotional problems.
Perceptions of Relationships Some people may be reluctant to fall in a relationship based on their values and beliefs.
Perhaps one's life experience and family background will also affect the concept of love. In addition, there are also people who may have developed a negative attitude towards a relationship because of the failure of their past relationship experience. 4.
Self-growth and development Some people may want to use their single status to pursue self-growth and development. They may want to focus on studying, traveling, pursuing their dreams, or becoming a better person. In this case, they may not want to be in a relationship because it can interfere with their goals.
Previous trauma and pain Trauma or pain experienced in a past relationship or marriage can cause people to not want to be in a relationship again. For example, they may have been betrayed, cheated on, or disappointed and therefore afraid to fall in love for fear of being hurt again. In short, everyone has their own reasons for what they don't want to fall in love for.
Sometimes this condition may only be temporary, while in some cases it may become a way of life. In either case, we should respect everyone's choices and decisions, and let them live a happy and personal life.
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Love is happy and sweet, and everyone hopes that they can have a happy and happy love. ......However, there are also some people who do not want to fall in love, and the reason why these people have such thoughts is because of the lack of personal willingness to fall in love, their own poor conditions and inability to find a partner, and the temporary inability to fall in love due to external factors.
1. The reason why some people don't want to fall in love is because they lack the willingness to fall in love.
The key factor in whether a person is in a relationship or not is the ...... of personal willIt is only when you want to fall in love that you may take action to fall in love. ......In real life, the reason why some people don't fall in love is because they lack the willingness to fall in love. ......There are many reasons why these people don't want to be in a relationship.
But these people have one thing in common, that is, they are unwilling to fall in love from their own hearts. It is precisely because of this state that these people lack interest in falling in love, and then do not want to fall in love.
2. For some people, the reason why they don't want to fall in love is because of their poor conditions and can't find a partner.
Among those who don't want to fall in love, some people don't want to fall in love because of their poor conditions. ......These people actually wanted to fall in love, but because of their limited conditions, they couldn't find a wishful partner, and after a long time, these people wanted to fall in love The idea of falling in love will gradually disappear, and eventually become part of the people who don't want to fall in love. ......Fundamentally, it's not that these people don't want to fall in love, but that they can't fall in love with their own limited conditions.
3. Some people don't want to fall in love because they can't fall in love for the time being due to the influence of external factors.
For a person, external factors have a very big impact on their own state. ......For example, working in a different place will make two people who love each other a long-distance relationship, for example, the disapproval of parents will become an obstacle to two people falling in love, etc., these external factors will become an obstacle to their own love, resulting in their inability to fall in love for a period of time. ......Some people accept these problems rationally, wait for the opportunity, and try to try to obtain favorable conditions.
And some people are disheartened and no longer think about ...... in loveThis latter type of person will become a person who does not want to fall in love, and they make this choice out of desperation.
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I think everyone is eager to fall in love and desire love, but I can't find the right person for various reasons, but it's too troublesome to explain the specific reasons to others. It's better to simply say that if you don't want to fall in love, you can block all doubts. If you really want to dissect the underlying causes, they may be roughly divided into the following types.
Clause. First, there is no personality problem in the bureau.
In fact, many people who say that they don't want to talk about slippery love have love in their hearts.
There is also a desire, but because of their own personality problems, than.
Such as low self-esteem, excessive introversion, sensitivity, etc., which lead to their own disdain.
came into contact with love, so he simply stopped falling in love.
Clause. 2. Affection.
This is also a reason not to fall in love, some people have been.
I loved someone very deeply, deeply, but in the end I was hurt, or I wasn't together for some reason, but my heart was one.
Nao still can't come out of that relationship, so he won't accept the new.
of feelings. Clause.
3. Feel love and don't get tired.
This is also a reason to feel that falling in love is really a thing.
Very troublesome things, all kinds of emotional problems to deal with, think about the brain.
The bag is big, it's better to get along with a group of friends and buddies, so.
Let's not fall in love first, just like that, day after day, it became that.
A person who doesn't fall in love.
Love is not something you want, and the love you deliberately pursue will not last long. It is advisable to follow the fate, everything goes with the flow, what should come, will always come.
Forget the past, move on to a new life, study hard, distract your feelings, and get out of the pain of falling out of love as soon as possible. There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love this flower. High school is the most important time in life, because it can determine a person's life, so you remember my words, learning knowledge is more important than anything else.
If you don't want to fall in love with each other, you have to make an appointment to talk about the reason, and it will be better to make it clear in person. Personally, I think that in fact, the prompt breakup is the biggest harm to her, and only by making it clear face-to-face can this harm be reduced, if you break up without saying a word, this kind of damage is the greatest.
Hehe, I'm only 22 years old, why be in such a hurry? Think about it, at this time, many people are still in the stage of studying? >>>More
In fact, this matter is not difficult, but your way of dealing with the problem is different, your parents dislike your boyfriend just because they love you too much and don't want you to suffer, think about it from the perspective of your parents, you can tell your boyfriend's love for you, I think your parents just want you to live well, what is more important than a man treating his daughter as a baby, talk about it, and also talk about the excellent qualities of a soldier. >>>More