How to cross the parents hurdle in love, and how to tell your parents when you are in love

In fact, this matter is not difficult, but your way of dealing with the problem is different, your parents dislike your boyfriend just because they love you too much and don't want you to suffer, think about it from the perspective of your parents, you can tell your boyfriend's love for you, I think your parents just want you to live well, what is more important than a man treating his daughter as a baby, talk about it, and also talk about the excellent qualities of a soldier.

Parents love their daughters and want their daughters to be happy, if you take your time, don't rush, otherwise your parents will think that your boyfriend has brought their precious daughter badly.

This kind of thing, the effort of one person is very small.

In fact, your parents' doubts are all on your boyfriend, so you might as well ask your boyfriend to go to your parents to communicate and behave a few more times. Don't let your boyfriend leak his abilities and strengths, and don't wipe them out when it's time to be sweet. Let him remember one sentence:

The big husband has to be able to bend and stretch.

Even if you're your age.

Ten. If you are eight or nine years old, you will not delay your marriage by spending another year doing ideological work with your parents. Don't exacerbate the conflict with your parents, the more you escalate the conflict, the more difficult it will be for you and your boyfriend to solve the problem. No matter what strategy you use, there is one principle to keep in mind:

You have to eat the rice one bite at a time. If you eat a big bite, you will choke, and something will happen. You're also a senior, and your boyfriend is a soldier again, so you two should be able to make a plan, make a plan for the two of you to fight together, and then solve it step by step.

The fortune teller is too easy to solve, as long as you are willing to pay, you let him say that you two are a perfect match, then it will work.

The trouble also began, if you give in, then how will you talk about the object in the future.

Don't parents allow them to fall in love? Falling in love is like going to college, it should be a necessary process, and parents can't want you to stay single or get married all the time.

This is very simple, depending on how old you are, if you are less than 20, don't say it, unless you are ready to elope, because no parent will let their child fall in love so early, for fear of being deceived.

You have to find out if your parents are against you finding a partner now.

When you can watch TV together, there happens to be a similar plot on TV, so take the opportunity to probe the wind.

Let's put it bluntly. There is nothing to hide.

First of all, you should be an adult, an adult, you and him when you were a child, it was like death, right, well, well, in fact, this love, well, it's very simple, because you're an adult, and you have this psychological need, right, well, that's it, so this thing, it's actually quite easy to say, it's um, that's it, and when you chat, you just say this, it's actually quite simple, um, I don't know why you don't have the courage to say this.

You can half-jokingly say to your parents, "I'm looking for a boyfriend."

Take your girlfriend, call two friends, go home for dinner together, and then you two get closer, and your family can watch it.

You can refer to the following, but don't copy it.

Since I learned what love is, especially the vigorous love in the TV series, I always fantasize about how good it would be if I could experience this kind of love! One day, at dinner, I looked at my parents, who were sitting across from me, and then at the romantic drama that was playing on TV, and suddenly I wondered what the love between my parents was like. Mom looked at me suspiciously

Xiao Qian! Why don't you eat? I hurriedly came back to my senses

No? It's okay, just seeing a mosquito flying behind you!! "But as soon as I had said that, I regretted it, for when I knew what I had said, I felt that even I felt a great flock of crows flying over my head!

It's embarrassing! It made them all laugh! After eating, my father went out, and my mother was knitting a sweater on the side, and when this was a good time, I immediately sat down next to my mother and said:

Mother! May I ask you a question? Mom paused and said

Gotta get it! Ay! I said what's wrong with you today, if you have any questions, don't hinder me from knitting sweaters!

Otherwise, I won't be able to finish it before winter. Mom simply stopped and waited for my question. "Mom!

Do you love Daddy? I asked the question in one go. Mom heard this, was stunned, and then continued to knit her sweater, saying:

In our time, we didn't say anything about love or not, we didn't say it then, and what age are we now, do you still talk about this topic? Okay, okay, do whatever you're busy! Stop asking such boring questions!

If you don't love it, then why would I marry your father. Or if you don't love it, then you don't have ......"Wait. Disappointed, I went back to my room and continued to chat with my friends.

As soon as I arrived at the door of the living room, I heard my mother say to my father, "Come and let me see if the sweater is suitable?" Will it be a little narrower?

Dad walked over and asked Mom to take the sweater and measure it on him, saying, "I said you?" Don't get it so late, it's not better to rest early, and it's not waiting to be worn!

Mom was a little unhappy when she heard her father's words, and said: "Who told your physique to be more afraid of cold, it's almost winter, if you don't weave it quickly, it won't be you who will suffer at that time!" Dare to say.

Dad laughed dryly.

That's when I suddenly realized that this was the love between my parents! Ordinary and ordinary, think about each other, care and love each other, although it is not that they don't talk about love all day long, but in fact, they love each other deep down. I suddenly felt how childish and boring it was that I used to envy the love on TV, and now I longed for the prosaic, happy and beautiful love between my parents.

Because love is not by words. To have substantive action, substantial care, and sincere affection, this is the love I desire! I wonder if my future life will be like my parents' life now?

I'm immersed in the infinite vision of the future!

Write about true feelings, just write about what you usually see, because you don't know what love is. If you really write it, it will highlight the student spirit and be touching.

I recommend you to watch a movie, Zhang Yimou's "My Father and Mother", after I watched it at the time, I was very moved! It might help you write!

To be honest, it's really distressing to encounter this kind of thing.

First of all, I want you to persevere.

The most important thing in this kind of thing is yourself.

The opinions of family members can be referred to, but it does not mean that they should do what they want.

Especially things like love and marriage. After all, you are an adult and have your own independent thinking.

Chinese families are like this, and traditional concepts have penetrated into their bones. It's not easy to convince them, and you need to find a balance between your family and your loved ones. You must know that love marriage is not a shuffle, and if you wash it once, you will never go back to the original.

You also have to know that your parents will not live with you for the rest of your life, and you will eventually die of old age. In the end, it is the people who support each other the most.

As long as you love him enough, that's enough. I hope you don't give up and I hope your boyfriend persists. One day, your actions will impress your family.

Believe that time will tell.

I wish you all success. Good luck!

Parents pay attention to the right family and character, they see problems more comprehensively than us, and they are also the people who love us the most. Why are your parents against you? If it can be solved, solve it, and if you can't prove that you are suitable, you should listen to your parents.

Then say that you are looking for it yourself I think it is suitable, I will be happy after getting married, and I don't blame them if I am unhappy, if I break up Listen to them and find a marriage, when the time comes, I will complain about them if I am unhappy, and I will complain about them for a lifetime, the old people love their children, and they can't afford to take on such a big responsibility I hope it will help you, can the landlord give some points?

Be honest. Parents don't let their children get hurt.

If only you understood this! ~~

Why are parents opposed? You've grown up, and your parents have always treated you as children, and you have to prove that you've grown up and have your own judgment.

If you have something you like, your parents will understand.

One by one, my husband and I are like this.

I've come across it too. The most important thing is that two people persevere.

Maybe you're young and a lot of things aren't mature. Do you have what it takes to manage the relationship? Do you have what it takes to live independently?

Can you feed yourself? A lot of material things are still immature, and it is not suitable for falling in love! After all, your parents came from your age!

He knows more than you do! I'm afraid you'll take a detour!!

This problem is not too sad to ask, I have also encountered it, but my approach hurt my parents who love me the most, but I am pursuing my favorite, I believe that my parents will forgive me, and if they don't forgive me, I feel no regrets, because my love is not easy to come by.

Your parents love you, first find out why your parents are against it. If there are some things that you don't have, explain them to your parents, and you will be happy with him or her. After all, parents are for the good of their children.

As long as you can be happy, they will not object.

It's for your own good that your parents don't let you fall in love, and in order not to get hurt is a sign of loving you. It's better for you to be so sneaky than to let your parents know. If the family really doesn't agree, you can introduce your boyfriend to your parents in the form of friends and classmates.

Then it will be much easier for the two of you to get in touch. When your parents know that he likes him, it's good to explain your relationship to your parents. The reason why you are 25 years old is to make you more mature and find someone who can really love you.

All you have to prove to your parents that you're right. Let them check the gates.

My idea is to keep it public first, so that my parents can get familiar with and like him first.

When your parents mention it or when you have nothing to mention it, ask your parents what they think.

When chatting with your parents, make some small jokes, what is the reaction of your parents when you marry such a person? You can compare a few boys whose parents know. It's best to find someone who is familiar to the family and who is better at it.

Finally, find an appropriate time to announce the two of you. Formal introduction to parents. Don't say how long you've been together. Let's just say that it will be in love for a long time. Once your parents accept him, they won't stop you both.

By the way, you should be a college student. So what are you worried about? I should have a boyfriend.

If you're a high school student, you'll want to focus on your studies. After all, parents are also for the good of their children. Keep your relationship secret and use each other's relationship as motivation to learn well.

Is the college entrance examination the most important thing in life? . .

I wish you all happiness!!

Closer to mom and dad?

Tell the parents who are closer, come one by one, and break them one by one.

First of all, let's take a chance to have a one-on-one interview, and I believe that my parents will always be able to understand.

Then ask the persuaded parent to do some work for the other parent first.

Then work with one of the parents to convince the other.

You can start to act when you have something to achieve, and when your parents are happy.

Tell them that Prince Charming doesn't fall from the sky.

If you always try to escape, you won't know if you're deceived in the future.

Love also requires experience, and you can only choose the right person to live your life after experiencing it.

If you reach the age when you should fall in love, talk about it openly, and if you are still young, then treasure this relationship first.

What to do? Have you already admitted that you are in love? Can you be sure that you are in a relationship, not a friend of the opposite sex?

You're a kid with too developed sex hormones.

It seems that the landlord is still young, probably a junior high school student.

Look at the reaction of the landlord's parents, and if they don't mention it, you can pretend not to know.

If they strongly disagree, I think you should break off the relationship first.

Sit down and talk to your parents seriously Every parent loves their children the most, and everything he or she does is for your good, and if you really love each other, talk to your parents about it, and it will make sense.

Yes, how old are you, it doesn't matter if you are above high school, if you are in junior high school, you should restrain yourself, your studies are important, you can bury this love in your heart, and wait until you are admitted to a good school and then contact.

Let's just say, it's time for me to break the red and give you money for living expenses.

It depends on whether your parents are enlightened or not, but no matter how you say it, they are their own children, and it will not be like that.

What's this! Tell them that since they know, they must be fine, and the emphasis is on communication.

Tell them directly, maybe it will be accepted.

If you don't break the law in love, it's okay, are you underage?

How old are you? Junior high school students?