Why do so many people look at me unpleasantly?

It's your own feelings, a sign of conceit. You just need to be friendly, do a good job in words and deeds, try to chat with others, try to find opportunities to talk to people, and then you will find that others do not look at you unpleasantly.

If you ask your friends or teachers in college, they will say that the feelings of classmates in high school are the most real, and when you get to college, you will be like entering society, and everyone will become very realistic. Even if you're in the same class, you may not have said hello to you until you finish college.

Money has to be repaid to some people, sad things, is constantly to give back to those people, sometimes, we are to pursue the struggle, and adhere to the road, we are working hard and persistent, towards the future and persistent, learn to pay, continuous self-improvement, understand that people are in the same world, we need to live in harmony, we must pursue happiness, but peace and tranquility is closely related to the environment.

If you're a girl.

Either they're jealous.

And this kind of thing will be passed on by everyone.

Engage in people who originally had a good impression of you.

Everyone else thinks you're not pleasing to the eye.

So leave those people alone.

Wait for the university to change to a new environment.

Be mindful and careful about your words and actions.

Not everyone around me can believe it.

No, maybe you're doing something wrong.

If you don't manage your relationships well right now.

In the future, interpersonal relationships will not be so good that they will go.

You have to think about what kind of behavior you have that is not pleasing to the eye.

Then correct. Another possibility is that you can't think about it too much.

Maybe they still like you.

It's just that you don't think they like you.

Be a good person, do things well, do a good job in your own studies, it's not a big deal, don't care too much about these, your academic performance has gone up, you have a good university, you have everything, don't deliberately go to what, just do your best, with the growth of the year, everything understands, simple, simple, so not tired, what others think of you, it's someone else's business, just do your own thing, what do you say? How can we make everyone happy, impossible. Don't hurt others, don't hurt the country, it's good to do the current thing, you're still young!

Treat friends sincerely, only if you are good to others first, others will be good to you, how to say, high school, how boring life is without friends......When you meet with your classmates, take the initiative to say hello, don't ignore them just because you think they don't like you, maybe they are also wondering if you don't like them

Do you understand?? ...

You must have a problem

If you don't reflect on the university, you will be spurned as well!

Also"It's lonely"

You're pretty spoiled, and you're probably a pretentious girl

If one person doesn't like you, forget it, everyone doesn't like you! You're in a problem!

Just ask us! Hurry up and change it!

What is the concept of many people you are talking about? If 8 out of 10 people reject you, then the problem is you, and you need to reflect on it! If you are too demanding, you want to call for wind and rain in any group, and everyone is not so cooperative with you, it is inevitably a bit difficult to be strong, this kind of person is still very rare, which causes you to have this mentality, do you believe it?

It's really hard to make friends, and if you can make a few real friends in your life, you won't regret it! The so-called friends, to tolerate everything about you, will understand you as a person, willing to take the initiative to help you when you have problems, and will take the initiative to ask you for help when the other party has problems, which causes you to have this mentality, if these are not done, what kind of friends can this kind of person talk about? Don't socialize!

If you do all this, and you don't grasp it well, so that the other party is speechless to you again and again, then you really, really need to reflect on it! This must be your own problem, people can't be born destined to be hated! Come on.

You don't. What's wrong with the sac? You can make some friends with good grades, but you also have to see if your personality is not right (learn to be humble, tolerant...).

Learn to empathize with the problem, don't complicate the problem, it's not good to think too much, why bother yourself?

If you want to understand the knowledge of being a person, you must have a good heart.

It seems that there is no such thing as an absolutely perfect fate, and no matter how good a fate looks, there will always be flaws.

For example, a wealthy person may have to face loneliness for the rest of his life.

I feel the same way as you, send me your Q if you can, make friends, I don't mind.

It's possible that you're thinking too much about yourself.

If that's the case, you're not doing it right.

You yourself have to take the initiative to socialize and talk to others.

You look at others, and others look at you, how can it be pleasing to the eye?

Either you will look at it, or you will let others look at it.

This is pleasing to the eye.

Maybe you've done something that everyone doesn't like!! Think for yourself! If there is a change, if there is none, it will be encouraged!!

Treat people with integrity and sincerity!

I'm sure you'll get better!

If you really want to give up your high school experience, then I wish you a fresh start in college.

。。You are very talented.

Look after you. See what friendships you can have in college.

I don't think so, friendship is to accompany people for a lifetime, if you don't have friendship, then you have no friends, that will be very lonely, so it's better to make some friends sincerely! That way you won't be alone.

Treat everyone with sincerity!!

If one person annoys you, you may blame him, if two people annoy you, you may blame them, but if everyone hates you, then please find your own shortcomings. If you can't change others, you can change yourself! QQ sent me over, I'm willing to make friends with you!

Look at yourself unpleasantly, why don't you ask yourself, sum up your experience, and see how those people around you are popular? Take advantage of others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings, am I right?

Making friends is not in a specific time period or direction, you should get in touch with them, get to know the people around you, and let them know you.

Is there a kitchen knife, every family has it. Kill yourself. I don't have basic interpersonal relationships, I can't get grades, and I don't have the guts to mix in society. Silent in the middle to death, later potential social security households.

Send your ** up and see!!

Some people have a bad face, which makes people feel unpleasant at a glance, some people are unhappy with the way they speak, and some people are not pleasing to the eye because of his bad behavior, because everyone's thoughts and feelings are different, and they will look at some people who are pleasing to the eye and some people who are not pleasing to the eye, these are normal phenomena, as long as we ourselves are not affected, it is good, we must maintain a good mood

It can only explain the way of doing things for a person, so it will be like this, otherwise many people will not be pleasing to the eye!

Many people don't like you, maybe you really don't do well, you should work hard to improve yourself.

Because of jealousy or something else.

From a psychological point of view, seeing others unpleasantly is inseparable from one's own heart.

First, most of the unpleasant things about others are also in themselves. The psychological motivation behind seeing others unpleasantly is self-loathing and disliking certain tendencies within oneself. For example, if you don't like your own selfishness, you will pay attention to the selfish behavior of others. I am very snobbish and like to take advantage of others, so I am often very sensitive and hate to be used by others.

People reinvent their self-image by denying these "own shortcomings" in others.

Second, the unpleasant aspects of others may be lacking in oneself. Seeing the smiling face of the new colleague and saying "Look at this sycophant", deep down he was criticizing himself for not coming. If you are inferior to others in some aspects, you will be jealous, subconsciously avoid the advantages of others, and focus on "shortcomings and slips", and the more you look at it, the more unpleasant it will be.

In addition, people who have had the experience of being disliked, scolded, and excessively belittled by their loved ones in their childhood have low self-esteem in their hearts, and are prone to subconsciously form an inexplicable resentment, which is projected onto most of the people around them, as if everyone is their enemy. People who have been pampered since childhood or who have always had excellent grades, if they lose their favor and compliment, the huge psychological gap will cause jealousy and a sense of loss, and gradually look at no one pleasing to the eye.

At the moment of anger, the IQ of a person is basically zero, hurting others and hurting himself. Thinking about it from another angle, if you don't like others, you actually don't have enough self-cultivation. Changing this situation is very simple, it is to recognize the shadow of your own personality.

The more we don't like each other, the more we hate our own inner "flaws". As long as you can recognize it, you're already on the path to growth.

First, change the "ruler by which others are measured". I see "people who don't like the eye", but I actually have a lot of good friends. The reason why I don't like him is because I look at and evaluate others from my own perspective and according to my own standards.

The ruler by which we measure others is set by ourselves, so we might as well get rid of our self-centered position and try to look at each other by public standards, which can often be quickly relieved.

Second, don't look at people with a critical eye. "No one is perfect", replacing the critical gaze with an appreciative gaze, perhaps more able to see the commendable side of others.

Finally, learn to forgive and tolerate others, even if the other party is disrespectful and hurts you in words, you must try to refrain and tolerate them. Everyone makes mistakes, and only by not caring about the rights and wrongs of others can we gain the respect and understanding of others. In life, many non-principled things might as well be confused, sloppy, and forgetful.

God has opened a window for others and a door for you, and God is fair.

In fact, you just look at them on the surface, or they don't live so frankly and chicly.

Everybody has a limit in their psyche, and in that boundary is their own secret, a secret that the psyche doesn't tell others.

People who are beautiful on the surface don't know how many things there are in their hearts.

You should learn to be content with the wild, they have their good places, and you must have better places than them.

Everyone is excellent Just look at what kind of eyes and mentality you use to look at your own problems and hearts.

You don't have to think so much, just live as it is, be indifferent, you don't get tired of thinking so much.

Or find someone to talk to.

Friend: Don't let emotions take control of your life.

Learn to entertain yourself and find pleasure in your own life.

Do what you love, listen to your favorite songs, and live your life the way you like.

The vision is high, and I think they are vulgar.

It may be that I have been a little irritable lately, try to vent some of my emotions, and it will be fine in a short time.

If you have psychological problems, it is recommended that you see a doctor.

Maybe it's the environment.

Beat. You can treat him as air, if it's okay, don't go near him, and pay attention to your words when you talk, after all, people haven't done anything to be sorry for you, right? If it's just unpleasant, try to control yourself.

People are imperfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, as long as someone appreciates you, you are the most beautiful.

When he is air, don't look at him on the line. If you can't be the air of him, prove that you care too much about him, whether you like it or hate it.

It's good to know this kind of thing, and there is no need to say it.

If you are disgusted with him, try not to touch him.

There's no need to make yourself uncomfortable for the sake of a boring guy!

She told me that she didn't know why, but a colleague in her company was always targeting her. Obviously a very small matter, that colleague also choked her with words, and talking every day was like taking gunpowder.

Another time, when that colleague was discussing something with a few other colleagues, Xiao Bei stepped forward and interjected a few words, but the colleague scolded Xiao Bei mercilessly: "I haven't finished talking yet, what are you interjecting?" ”

Xiaobei herself was very puzzled, and after thinking about it again, she didn't know what had offended that colleague recently. In the workplace, it's not uncommon to feel excluded and targeted by your colleagues. After all, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and the key is how to deal with similar things when you encounter them.

Sometimes, because of disagreement or friction at work, they start to look at each other unpleasantly. And sometimes, some people do not like others for some reason, and always try to embarrass others.

For example, some people in the company hate Manager Li, so when Manager Li brings in a new person in the company, then these people naturally don't like the newcomer he brought in, so they make things difficult for the newcomer everywhere at work. If you think that your colleague is not inherently bad, but just because there are some conflicts at work, so they always hurt you in what they say and do, then you can try to take the following measures:

First, stay calm. Don't start to have an "incompatible" with the other party, which will only intensify the conflict. When you are extremely emotionally unstable, you must tell yourself to stay calm.

Second, be proactive. After solving the problem at work, you can try to take the initiative to chat with your colleagues to reduce the distance between the two parties. Communication between people is always a key, and a pleasant conversation can easily turn the page on an unpleasant past.

If you think that your colleague is targeting you maliciously, for example out of jealousy or because you have violated his interests, then try to do the following: First, learn to be humorous. You know that a colleague is deliberately targeting you, so when he chokes you with words, if you immediately reply, it is probably you and I will say endlessly.

So it's better not to take him too seriously and fight back with humor and witty. Second, talk to each other privately. If you really can't stand the deliberate targeting of your colleagues, and pretending to be confused can't solve the problem, then it's time to talk to your colleagues.

I have a friend who was sneered at by a colleague in the company, and it was repeatedly. Eventually, my friend asked the colleague out and opened up with her about it. She said, I just want to use this method to remind the other party that although I don't want to fight for anything, I am not so easy to bully.