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Most introverts have rich hearts, she doesn't need to go out to find excitement to make her life fulfilling, she can generally bring her own charging mode, will continue to fill her heart, you seem to have a boring life, but she can live a quiet and comfortable life, so life needs all kinds of people to paint different colors, so no matter introverted or extroverted live out of themselves, live a wonderful life!
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It's very important to know yourself, don't label yourself, look at yourself and your current behavior objectively and truthfully, and explore with awareness to see how that uncontrolled thought and behavior happened? Re-establish the framework to practice, see yourself and the world from a new perspective, and maybe you won't be obsessed with whether you like to go out or not.
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The reason why life is so beautiful is that people have different personalities, different lifestyles, extroverted and extroverted ways of doing things, and introverts have introverted life attitudes.
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Because often I have no motivation, I just want to stay at home, and I don't want to go anywhere. I can't take any interest in people, and I don't want to make contact with people. I was worried that I would be like my father, with few friends.
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Introverted personality does affect people's social relations, and it is not conducive to your future social interaction scene in the society, whether you are engaged in a managerial career in the future, or a person engaged in a business career, more or less will deal with people and interact with each other.
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Lao Tzu said: "Old and dead do not get along." Introverts have their own value in life.
The blessings of people in the world are only to look at others, and the true blessings are not on the outside, but in their own hearts." Introverts are by no means lonely, selfish, and inferior. On the contrary, they are more respectful of all sentient beings, selfless, desireless, and selfless.
We really should genuinely respect introverts.
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In the past, I always didn't dare or want to talk to others, but in the summer after the high school entrance examination, I looked for a lot of jobs. You can't but talk to people when you're looking for a job, right? Then I went to advertise and set up my own stall to sell books, and at first I was not used to it, but then I realized that talking to strangers is actually very simple and fun.
So you can also try this, and if you don't have time in your sophomore year of high school, participate in more class activities. For example, speech contests, debate contests, and so on. The judges and the audience are all strangers, right?
Since we have the desire to change, we have to force ourselves to do it, we are still so young, we must be able to.
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Some people are introverted by nature and have stage fright. But the day after tomorrow can be changed, it's just that you haven't encountered an occasion that can change your personality, once you encounter it, it will be natural.
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1. Introverts can work in technical jobs.
It is obviously difficult for an introvert to engage in a job that communicates with people frequently, such as sales or marketing.
Take sales as an example, if you don't market the product to the customer, there is no sales value, and it is impossible to get bonus incentives.
That being the case, introverts can move away from jobs that require a lot of interpersonal interaction and instead work in more technical ones.
For example, a carpenter or a gardener, as long as he does his own technical work, can still get a fair remuneration for his labor.
Technical jobs, focused on a certain area, tend to be narrow, which is a good match for introverted professionals. It just so happens that my relative Xiao Zhou is also studying industrial engineering, and if he goes to a manufacturing company to do a technical job, it may be a good way out.
Second, introverts can engage in window transactional work.
My second suggestion to Xiao Zhou is to let him take the civil service examination or career establishment, and it is good to be a window clerk.
This does not mean that the window staff does not need to communicate with people, but that the work content is relatively procedural and simple.
Even if you communicate with people, you are limited to a very conventional field, so no matter how introverted people are, after they become proficient, they don't seem so introverted.
Of course, it takes a certain degree of difficulty to get into such a position in the system. However, introverts will have some psychological advantages at the learning level, at least they will be able to calm down and focus on the exam.
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For particularly introverted boys, how to find the other half of life? Is introversion an advantage or a disadvantage? What kind of people are introverts looking for?
People's personality is mainly divided into 9 types, each character trait is different, used in life, work and other fields in all aspects, in general there are also introverts and extroverts, we must know how to get along with a variety of people with different personalities! When a boy is looking for a partner, because of his introverted personality, what kind of object should he look for? Personally, I think introverted boys are suitable for such a partner; Lively and cheerful, humorous and funny girls will bring new fun to the life of introverted boys, beautiful love is nothing more than one is watching, one is making trouble, and there will be no embarrassing atmosphere when getting along; Girls who love life and are full of positive energy are suitable for being with introverted boys and influencing each other.
Girls who are confident and have their own opinions are often more suitable for being with introverted boys because they can complement each other; It's not that introverted boys are not suitable for introverted girls, mainly to see if the two people are in tune, no matter what, there is no real good or bad character in the sense of rolling auspicious, although introverted boys are not good at expressing their inner thoughts, but such boys know how to cherish, more dedicated, good at thinking, and use action to represent everything, etc., in short, no matter what character, as long as we find each other's advantages, encourage each other, and influence each other, we will become optimistic, cheerful and confident, will also make use of your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and you will definitely be happy!
Personally, I think you should be friends with extroverts first, if they are willing to accept you, you will learn a lot of humor over time, and you will naturally make more friends if you can make people happy from time to time. The first step is complete! With these accumulations, you can start your big business through friend introductions or networking!
When you first meet, you can ask an extroverted friend to come with you, which can relieve the embarrassment of being cold! After getting along for a long time, the other party knows your character, and the matter is done.
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It depends on how we use introversion, introversion is actually both an advantage and a disadvantage, introverts are generally more serious and focused, and are easy to be favored by Zheng to hold their limbs to girls, so introverted boys should shout more to expand their friends, so that their skin manuscript other girls realize that they are easy to have a relationship.
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Karen chatted on the Internet first, because there was no need to be face-to-face, and there was no need to send messages and voice messages and chat quietly with his grandson. It has always been a shortcoming in a relationship, because if you don't dare and won't express your love well, you will miss out on a good relationship.
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That's not necessarily.,What's introverted.,As long as you have the ability to survive.,Have an education.,Have the ability.。。 Besides, introverted men are masculine
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The book says no, but the reality shows that introverts don't handle interpersonal relationships very well, and now this social interpersonal relationship is a university question.
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