I like a boy, but I don t understand it, and I don t know how to deal with this emotion

Updated on society 2024-04-16
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The mind is still better in academics, and you can get along as good friends

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better not to 、、、 you go through it a little more between you, maybe you can. Don't promise him yet. I'll wait until you're moved、、、 I'd like to hear it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Looks like you've got plenty of time! Just use your free time to talk to him! Or go shopping.

    Slowly, you will get to know him, and you can also learn whether he is suitable for you. Understanding a person is not a matter of a moment and a half, and it is not rushed! But it's all about how you divide your time and his!

    If there is a new development! It depends! See what progresses.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you plan to develop over there and have a good impression of him, you can accept her completely, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, choose once for love, and you will not leave regrets.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like him, tell him boldly, don't be afraid that the result will hurt you, this will hurt you, love and you will not leave regrets after trying!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Blooming too early is a beautiful mistake! As a person who has come over, I understand your feelings very well. This is a problem that both adolescent boys and girls encounter!

    Think about your future, think about your parents, and ask yourself what kind of life partner you need. That way, you'll know what to decide!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you accidentally bump into each other, you look embarrassed, what kind of expression does he have?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now that you've confessed, get along for a while and don't leave regrets. As long as you grasp the size yourself, you can get to know the boy with your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now that you've confessed, let's try it after getting along for a while, and don't leave regrets. As long as you grasp the size yourself and get to know the boy with your heart, no matter what the result is, it will be regarded as a scenery on the road.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Figuring out what your heart desires ... If you really like it, accept it, but be careful not to affect your learning, it's good to learn and progress together and promote each other...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Admit to liking it, but don't get too close.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's about 15 years old, and it's perfectly okay to make school friends

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think if you want to go back to live in China in the future, you might as well give up.

    If you have the affection of holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son in your bones, you should give up.

    Foreigners don't think about it so much, most of them are very unrestrained, and the bottom line of innocence has been put in kindergarten.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The main thing for you now is to determine if he means that to you, and if not, you are not happy in vain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Like a guy, but he hasn't come out of the previous relationship, in this case you should confess to him, and then tell him that you are not in a hurry to be with him, you can accompany him through this period of his sadness, and then reconsider the relationship with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Confess, although the other party still has an ex-girlfriend in his heart. But at this time, it is more convenient to "take advantage of the void", if you chase for a period of time, there is still no result, then give up, it can only show that you are not the other party's dish.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really like a guy, but he hasn't come out of the last relationship, you can show him your heart first, and say that you can wait for him to accompany him through this period to make him feel warm.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then don't be in a hurry, take proper care to help him, don't pester him too much, let him slowly regain his calm, and start a new relationship with himself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should wait for him to comfort him and accompany him, don't give up your feelings for him, maybe he will be with you when he comes out of the last relationship, there are many examples of this around me.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you wait for him, stay by his side during this time to comfort him more, and wait until the time is right to show your heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When you encounter this kind of thing, you have to rely on this boy's side, you must know that it is a window period, and you need someone to accompany you, but you can't pass it, it will make him uncomfortable, keep a distance and stick to him, and care about his life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then help him move on from the previous relationship, and then make you the protagonist of this relationship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I feel like I can work hard to see if I can get to this person's heart.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you're not sure if you like a guy or not, then it could mean that your relationship status isn't completely clear. In this case, it is recommended that you take some time for self-reflection and reflection, try to understand your inner feelings and thoughts, and determine what you really feel about this guy's laughter. You can ask yourself questions like:

    How do you feel when you think about this guy? Are you happy or excited?

    Did you take the initiative to find news of this guy or contact him? If so, then you may have some interest in him.

    Do you feel comfortable or happy if you are with this guy? Do you have a lot of topics or interests in the common balance bridge?

    When you are more aware of your inner feelings, it may be easier for you to be sure of your feelings for this guy. Whatever decision you ultimately make, respect your feelings and thoughts. If you just want to prove your relationship status, then try to communicate with the guy more to understand his thoughts and feelings, and see if you will develop deeper feelings for him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, there is nothing like this. Easy to use. If you don't understand him, understand him! Then you will slowly understand. There is nothing too absolute about this kind of thing, saying that it is not understood or understood. I'll understand it after a long time.

    If you don't understand this, you can ask him, or say that you are angry with him, and he will explain it to you, but you still don't understand. That's your problem, and when it happens, you have to think about what he said to you.

    I've heard that if you like him, you won't say you won't understand him. If you like her very much and love her very much, you will definitely get to know him slowly, and then you will understand everything.

    Many things when two people are together are indeed each other, and they can't understand each other. Maybe it's because of love! and others are carried away, so they don't understand those things.

    As soon as there is something, I will think about getting angry! It's not like normal, remember those things, because it feels like we're a couple, and we can't be the same as normal people.

    So when there are some things that you don't understand, you must not be upset, and you must calmly ask these things and deal with these things. There will always be a time when you understand.

    If these things happen when. You can, and you don't want to deal with these things in an angry way. These things can be solved in some pleasant ways! Absolutely! After that owes, then clean him up or what? Give him a certain punishment.

    The two of them must communicate more. And on a regular basis, say what is in your heart, and be dissatisfied with what the other party has done? Be sure to let the other person understand you, understand you, you do everything, if the other person doesn't understand you. Be sure to make it clear!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on what you don't understand, so I can also give you the following suggestions, I hope it can help you.

    First of all, you have to make sure that you really like him and really know the guy you like. A lot of likes may just be an illusion of self-suggestion, so you should try to understand the boy's thoughts, habits, personality, worldview, outlook on life, values. Get in touch with him more, and maybe you'll find out that you don't really like him.

    Secondly, if you know him well and still like him, you should consider what you mean by not understanding. Maybe you don't understand his individual behavior and style, then this is also a very slight incomprehension, so it is not worth worrying, because no one is perfect, and the person you like will definitely have shortcomings, and it is not as perfect as you imagined, since you like him, of course you have to accept this so-called incomprehension. Keep your eyes bigger, don't stare at small flaws.

    In addition, if this kind of incomprehension is due to the difference in understanding of his worldview, outlook on life, and values at some level, then it should be taken seriously. Because for a pair of lovers, the three views are very important and crucial, and the understanding of the three views is formed by the difference in family education since childhood, and it is difficult to change, so once it appears, you must consider it carefully and decide rationally whether to give up liking him.

    Because liking a person who has different views is often fruitless, but it hurts you more, and the relationship that ends without a problem is often the easiest because it doesn't take a lot, as long as you realize that two people are not suitable and relieved.

    I hope you will be loved for the rest of your life, and you will be relieved of what you can't get

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, a lot of boys do things that girls don't understand. For example, why they like to smoke, why they like to play games online, why they like to stare at beautiful girls. In the same way, we have times when they don't understand.

    Therefore, if you can ignore it, ignore it, if you can't ignore it, talk about it in detail, and if you can't talk about it, let him go, as long as he doesn't sin.

    Here I would like to ask you first if you and that guy are boyfriend and girlfriend? Or do you have a crush on that guy?

    Let's start with the first case, you and the guy are boyfriend and girlfriend. If you can become boyfriend and girlfriend, then you must have a lot of similarities, or you must have something that he is obsessed with.

    The two of you get along and get along with each other, and the problem arises, you don't understand what he does, and you don't know what to do. In fact, at this time, I want you to talk to him seriously. Then put yourself in his shoes and think about the issues you don't understand.

    If you really can't figure it out, don't think about it. Ignore all the things he does that you don't understand, so you won't be sad and you won't make your boyfriend feel bad.

    Let's talk about the second case, you like him, and you don't know if he likes you or not. If you don't understand him, you can ask his friend, because if you don't understand him at this time, it may be because you don't really know him well enough. You are not sure whether you want to spend your life with this person, and I hope you develop more interests similar to this guy, then you will have common topics, and maybe you will slowly understand what this guy has been doing.

    Love is rare and confused, and life is also difficult to be confused, and confusion will make you a little happier. Sometimes we don't need to fully understand a person. As long as it's right together. This should be the best state of boyfriend and girlfriend, we love each other and fit, we are different and we complement each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This question, in fact, just wants to ask, how to understand a little brother and then chase him. Otherwise, if you just need to understand, just ask his friend, it's not troublesome. To put it simply, I think it can be divided into three steps, but the three steps can actually be combined.

    First, get to know him through his friends. If you know him, you naturally know who his friends are, add his friends QQ or meet and chat directly. Through his friends, you don't need to know his measurements, height and weight, you just need to know a little bit about what he is most interested in.

    For example, if his favorite thing is basketball, then you need to know some basketball knowledge, such as the rules, and the famous stars. Or that he likes werewolf killing, then you can learn about werewolf killing and watch the live broadcast of werewolf killing.

    Next, there is the contact stage, where you need to talk to him first. If you're born with a chatterbox, that's fine. But if you're a natural cold player, then prepare a few topics to talk about in advance, and then start with your daily life, such as:

    Have you eaten? I had a grilled fish from one of them today and it was super delicious. Then it's a natural transition to the topic you've prepared.

    After a few days of chatting, it's time to move on to the third stage.

    If you like werewolf killing, you can go out with him to play a few games of werewolf killing. When he's done playing a game or a board game, you can give him a few words of praise. With the pleasant experience of the first appointment, the second and third times are relatively simple, you can make an appointment for dinner or drink milk tea together.

    When we meet, we will definitely chat, so that you can get to know him on a deeper level.

    By the third stage, you have gotten to know him well and have had a deeper contact with him. It's up to you how the plot goes next. Whether the little brother can catch up or not, he has to work harder.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You have to learn to empathize, think more from the other person's point of view, and integrate into his life, so that you can understand his thoughts.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you can understand him slowly, after all, the relationship cannot be forced or rushed, you must have a deep understanding process before you have a chance to be together. Therefore, you can slowly understand him, and if you still like him after a long time, then you should be brave enough to pursue him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then you should familiarize yourself with it more, start with friends, and communicate more for a while.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've also had this situation, my childhood sweetheart turned 13 years old, and he transferred schools. At the age of 17, I fell in love with another man.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Take the doctrine yourself.

    I feel like to continue.

    Think of it as an experiment.

    See if persistence equals victory.

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