I seem to have a crush on a guy, but for some reason he s engaged, and I can t forget him

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You just think he's engaged to someone else because he doesn't like you, or think about the men around you who are better than her! Get a boyfriend! In fact, others can't help you, only self-help is the best way!

    Also, your feelings for him are not clear, you just think about it! You treat him as an older brother.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It doesn't matter if I like you or not, you just know what the answer is for, you just ask him, he says he likes you, he doesn't like you, oops!! If I don't ask, if I have the heart, I won't get engaged to someone else, there is no one in this world who can't be together, it's just that fate and reality don't allow it, he wants to know if he likes you or not, he can't forget you, he will contact you, at least he will ask you: How are you doing?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't give yourself time to reminisce, think it's timely**, in fact, it's the second injury, I think this sentence is very philosophical, I've always liked this sentence, and I've always believed that it's true, don't give yourself time to reminisce, go out for a walk with friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I think you should find out if he likes you too, and if so, let go and chase your own happiness. If not, I advise you to forget about him!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like him now, let him live happily, and sometimes see the happiness of the person you like! Sometimes love doesn't have to be together!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to grasp it, pursue it, and give up if you don't want to.

    Loving him doesn't have to be together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's really painful like this, then bless him, liking someone doesn't have to get him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Therefore, it is not recommended to strive for it, because you will meet a better person who may not necessarily be happy with this person. Adjust your mindset and you will definitely meet someone who is more suitable for you, I hope it will help you.

    Hello, thank you for your patience, if you are already engaged, it is not recommended to fight for it. Because if you win it, their family won't care too much about you. Therefore, it is not recommended to strive for it, because you will meet a better person who may not necessarily be happy with this person.

    Adjust your mindset and you will definitely meet someone who is more suitable for you, I hope it will help you.

    But what should I do if I can't let it go, and I still have insomnia every day, which is very uncomfortable.

    After adjusting for 3 months and almost 4 months, I am not in the mood to do anything, and travel can't relieve my mood, it seems that I am about to be depressed.

    You just think that the other party is already engaged to someone else, he must have forgotten about you a long time ago, otherwise he would not have chosen to be engaged to someone else, in fact, you have won it, and you will not be as happy as before.

    In fact, before the engagement, he and I mentioned marriage, I didn't know that I liked him at the time, and I didn't agree later! It didn't take long for him to get back together with his ex, and when I agreed later, he said he couldn't go back, and now he has a girlfriend! So I regret it.

    Then there is no way, because to miss it is to miss to adjust it, and the mentality understands very well that you are in this mood now.

    So after this incident, I became depressed, and I knew it was my own problem, so I couldn't let it go.

    Adjust your mentality as soon as possible, don't focus all your energy on this person, because you have only one possibility with this person, and there are thousands of possibilities with other people, so don't think about it.

    If you miss it, you miss it, right?

    Yes, don't think about him, he doesn't belong to you anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello dear! We'd love to answer for you.

    The boy who used to like you is engaged, and at this time it is basically a boat, and the ending seems to be impossible to change. Because engagement is also a rather cumbersome process, they agree with each other, and the parents will also meet, and engagement means agreeing on the marriage date, so it is basically decided. It's really unlikely that you will fight for it again, unless the boy who once liked you still misses you, in this case, I think there is still a chance.

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    The boy who used to like you is engaged, and at this time it is basically a boat, and the ending seems to be impossible to change. Because engagement is also a rather cumbersome process, they agree with each other, and the parents will also meet, and engagement means agreeing on the marriage date, so it is basically decided. It's really unlikely that you will fight for it again, unless the boy who once liked you still misses you, in this case, I think there is still a chance.

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're a crush, and he doesn't know you like him. Then you should confess to him. Whether he likes you or not, you should let him know that he may accept you! Then you won't be sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Crush is the most painful, silently loving someone, but he doesn't know it.

    In the past, you did not have the courage to say those three words to him, which left regret in your heart, and it could not even fade.

    But looking back at the present, if you confessed at that time, were together, are you still together now, you don't have to be sad, he doesn't know you, but you know him, you keep the most sincere feelings to yourself, just silently pay attention to him, these feelings are really precious things.

    Finally, I hope you can find the other half who makes you happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.Tell him you like him. Be sure to express your feelings.

    2.Limit it, express it, and don't stick to it, which will only increase the disgust.

    3.The decision is up to him.

    4.If he refuses, smile, and remember to bless them even if you don't want to feel fake. Be generous, remember that this will give you extra points.

    5.Resolutely do not be ambiguous. If you love him, see his choice and be happy, then keep him as an ordinary friend, although I would suggest that you cut off all contact with him for a short time, but if you can't do it, you will be an ordinary friend at most.

    6.Forget. This is difficult, but I believe in the experience of most people, there is nothing in this world that cannot be forgotten, only the length of time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no chance, you are just wishful thinking, if he likes you very much, he will love you desperately, you still go with the flow, be a friend without regrets, there are many good behind, everything is destined.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's as you said, I'm afraid he loves her fiancée very much, otherwise if he loves you, he will break up with his fiancée desperately. So he can't tolerate you, and if he really can't tolerate you, then he's not worthy of your love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Time is a little short, but after he gets married, or you still have a chance to be together, but before you get married, the chances are not very good, and if you want to work hard, it's not a chance, unless she likes you very much or doesn't like his wife very much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You are in unrequited love and like each other very much, but the other party doesn't care about you or pays little attention to you; If you can't create the conditions to be with him, just bless him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like him, be brave, happiness is to be grasped in your own hands, use your wisdom to get him, but not for you to play tricks, I also had feelings like you, and finally I caught it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everyone is married, if you can't change it, and you still like him very much, just bless the person you like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't hang yourself on a tree, he doesn't love you, and barely two people are injured, it's better to let go and find the sea and sky that really belong to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe, you don't necessarily have to get it if you love him, wouldn't it be better to miss him.

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