How to live for yourself as a woman

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Everyone wants to live in an ideal environment, but the reality is cruel, people can only grow up in hard training Don't be afraid of getting hurt It's better to die than to live.

To be a person who can live independently, you don't need to rely on anyone, you have to have your own economic foundation. Be in a good mood, and the person who smiles is the most beautiful.

Just find a way to make your life better, then the people around you can also live a better life!

Women should be kind to themselves, in this world except for parents, no one will really care about you and love you.

Buy what you want to eat every day, place an order immediately for what clothes you want to wear, take care of your body, and dress up beautifully every day, which not only pleases yourself, but also gives others a sense of comfort.

Women must not wronged themselves, act immediately if they want to do something, do not hesitate, and do not leave regrets for themselves.

Seeing that some women are reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, their hearts and minds are husbands and children, devoting their whole body and mind to the family, torturing themselves into a yellow-faced woman, tired and sick, and miserable, at this time the husband dislikes, the children stay away, and push each other's responsibilities.

There is a colleague who thinks about his son when he has anything delicious and wants to leave it for him to eat.

Yesterday the colleague was beaten by his newly adult son.

My son, who is in the third year of high school, has been addicted to games recently, and his grades have plummeted, my colleague was anxious, so he blamed him for a few words, and he did not refute at first, and always remained silent, and his colleague looked even more angry, and the voice of blaming him became louder and louder, who knows, his son stood up suddenly, overturned her to the ground, and my colleague had back pain for several days.

After experiencing this incident, my colleagues began to slowly change their attitude towards their son, no longer thinking about their son in advance, knowing that they felt sorry for themselves, and recently bought social security for themselves, knowing that they were thinking about their future.

There has also been a great change in dressing, no longer the middle-aged woman who has worn a dress for several years, she has become a love to dress up, after the packaging of fashionable clothes, people also feel more energetic than before, and their faces are often filled with happy smiles, and finally live out themselves.

How important is it for girls to stick to their careers? My opinion is as follows:

1.Chinese women have a very strong desire for independence. They understand that economic independence is the foundation of all independence.

The beginning of marriage is an important turning point in life, and our personal time and energy are limited, it is difficult for us to take care of all aspects of life, so we need to weigh and make choices in career and family, and choices often determine the direction of our lives. Life is like a scientific experiment, and it requires constant trial and error to adjust its direction.

2.Having a baby is a woman's life choice, everyone will have different choices at different ages, choose what you can bear, and bear what you choose. If women do not have a unique career, when there is a conflict, they will not be able to create direct economic value, and they will naturally have less right to speak, and they will not have the "status" of them, which is naturally the free labor force in the family, their needs will not be seen, and their interests will naturally not be guaranteed in the slightest.

Therefore, career is the guarantee of women's own lives, and it is also to make their lives more confident.

3.For women, the best backer is never a good family background, rich or powerful, let alone finding a good husband, so that they can have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of their lives. A woman's best backing is herself, and it is eternal, and she will collapse if she is impatient from beginning to end.

If your family and marriage are unhappy, at least you have a job that will keep you in touch with society and free you from the trivialities of everyday life. At the same time, career is not the standard for men, it is actually the standard for women, in today's environment, career is not only important for women, but also for men.

For the sake of love, affection and family, sometimes it is necessary to make a choice of trade-offs, and the purpose of pursuing career success is to better manage the family and create better material and economic conditions for the growth of children, so the career is to serve the family.

The two are not incompatible contradictions, career is a strong support condition and premise for family happiness, family is a strong support for career success, the two are complementary to each other to promote each other, not a relationship of mutual separation and tearing! Equality between men and women does not mean that both men and women should rush to the forefront of their careers, but to make the best coordination and cooperation according to the different characteristics and advantages of men and women, and give full play to the maximum benefits, so as to not only make the relationship between husband and wife harmonious, but also make the family happier and more satisfied!

Family members have unified goals and needs, we should communicate more in family life to achieve unity of goals, put the current living standard on the bright side, put forward the difficulties in life, and let everyone be on the same frequency. Buried before.

For example, we newlyweds are now in a period of struggle, do not have much time and money, and are not suitable for having children, so we struggle together for a few years and devote ourselves to earning money. If the wife or husband thinks that the security needs at this stage are sufficient or that the stability of the family is achieved, we can try to communicate more about the needs of the family. Many times we don't want much, just a simple greeting, careful listening, affectionate looks, tender concerns, affectionate deep kisses and that's it.

Try to do both with both hands, and then focus on work or family. Don't forget, it's not just you and your husband in this family, and you can discuss with your husband who focuses on the family and who focuses on work.

The education of children is the business of the husband and wife, not you alone, don't carry all the responsibilities on your back. Don't have children easily, once you decide to have a baby, please treat her well. Also, please be considerate of your mother's hard work and give more support and support.

Life is not a blind work and hard work, not a breath of love.

This situation can be solved by simply making yourself independent. Therefore, women must learn to be themselves correctly.

01. At any time, a person can always be relied on in the end. Many women will have such an idea, thinking that they can be attached to a man after marriage. For a man, when he loves you, he may support you, but no one can guarantee that he will always be unbiased towards you, and if you want to live a better life, you should have the ability to be independent.

In any case, a woman should have the ability to live independently, so that even when there is no love, she can live well. An independent personality can make you feel more confident in your heart, and you will not be overly afraid of losing when you encounter things. If a woman wants to live a better self, she has to be independent, both mentally and financially, and she has to face things.

If a woman can live completely on her own ability, she has the right to choose the lifestyle she wants, live how she wants, and don't need to look at anyone's face, only independence can be free.

02. Maintaining self-discipline A woman's independence is fundamental, so self-discipline is the most important thing. A self-disciplined woman can make herself a better version of herself and achieve herself. Especially in the long years, the person who can stand the test of time must also be a healthy and self-disciplined person.

In life, many people only look at the surface at first, if you don't have a good outside, healthy body, then no one wants to look at your heart. Behind the beautiful and delicate forehead you see, there is actually ascetic-like self-discipline. Be strict with yourself, go to bed early and get up early, don't consume too much health, keep exercising, improve your taste, and maintain your image, which is the best sense of security for a woman.

03. Stay indifferent Many times, if a person wants to live happily and live the way he wants, he must be open, and only when his heart is big, he will feel beautiful and free. There are many things in a person's life, both good and bad. If a woman can maintain a positive and optimistic attitude at all times and face everything in life calmly, it is natural that nothing can affect your life.

And if you want to live your life, you have to make yourself relaxed, without too many concerns, you can choose the life you want, and do what you want to do. Only by being able to do this can you live a better life.