Is it wrong for men not to fall in love? Is there anything wrong with not getting married?

Personally, I think you're a perfectionist at first, and that's right. Prove that you are excellent. However, marrying a girl you really like, living a mediocre life together is actually a kind of wave of warmth, not everyone's love will be vigorous, it is called love buddy. Come on!

It's definitely a big mistake for a man not to fall in love and not get married, maybe it's nothing in your own opinion, but have you ever thought about your parents or something, how could they not want to hold their grandchildren?

I'm a woman, I'm 24, and my mom said, let me fall in love again at 28 and get married after 30

It's all a matter of personal perception. I don't want to have children yet, I just want to adopt.

Don't listen to others. Consider your own feelings! I also have male friends with a monthly salary of 3w, and it's not unfinished at the age of 35 It's normal!

You are doing the right thing, you see if you still enter the divorce in the end, or regret it, then it is better to start when you have confidence in yourself at the beginning, and you can ensure a happy life, so you are not wrong, you are very good.

Too idealistic. Personally, I think my woman has to be with me to put in the wind and rain, there is no free lunch, and so is the relationship.

I wouldn't want that useless Snow White.

In fact, lz your idea is right, that is, you are too demanding of yourself, although in real life, the material aspect is very important, but there is no requirement to say, you must be rich and powerful to be qualified to talk about marriage, if a woman takes a fancy to you is not necessarily your person, but your money? When you really come across the right one, come on.

Hello, I think falling in love and getting married is my own business, everyone else is an additional factor, that can only affect you, but it should not be a choice for you, idealism is not a bad thing, a person will get true love after getting rich, it will decline, than to find true love after being rich, it is better to fight for her after finding true love, that is more meaningful.

Think too much, you haven't met the right person, it's good to meet the person you like, be hungry, be confident in the future, you don't believe in your own ability, then someone else will definitely not be able to hand over her future to you, come on!

You probably want to spend your mind on your career or making money now, and then talk about it after you have a certain stable income, right, in fact, this is not a wrong idea, but falling in love is not a distraction, love can give people a safe haven when they are sad, and a shoulder to lean on when they are lonely.

You're still young, it's nothing, you can take your time to see what suits you, I don't think you have seen what makes your heart move, the man is 30 and standing, 40 is stable, ,,, is still long,

There's nothing wrong with you, and there's nothing wrong with thinking that way. It's just that love should still be talked about.

This is too conservative, if a woman loves you, she doesn't care what you have, and the experience of fighting together is the most important thing.

What's there?

I think your thinking is very good, very manly, a man should create better conditions for himself and for his future family

Don't care what others say, 23 is the time for self-struggle, I think it's not too late for a man to get married in his 30s, be yourself.

Maybe it's too realistic in today's society.

Love without a material foundation is too unstable.

You probably have a lot of ideas that many men have, but they just can't stand the invasion of loneliness.

I don't think you're wrong, but I still think that when love comes, don't say no.

As long as you work hard, "she" will be happy.

What does this mean?

If you don't fall in love, you won't be in love.

But you're going to get married sooner or later, ......

If you really have this heart. Then I advise you to be brave enough to love. Don't run away. Because when you have money.

The one you're with. Maybe.. It's not worth thinking so much about her.

Don't care about ego. Ideal. Everyone has shortcomings. Or maybe some of these are your strengths.

Can't you just not fall in love? Giving up the idea of falling in love, is it not good to be alone?

What I hate the most is love.

Actually, when you meet the right person, you'll feel completely different.

Your own life, your own choice!

If a man only falls in love and does not get married, it cannot be concluded that he is hypocritical. Similarly, a man who is willing to marry you does not necessarily really love you. This issue is more complicated, and it cannot be simply concluded, but must be viewed according to the actual situation.

But in general, men only fall in love and do not get married, mainly because of the following five reasons.

Influenced by the family of origin or relatives and friends around you.

If the husband and wife do not get along well, it will not only affect both parties, but also the children's hearts will be severely damaged. If the husband and wife often fight each other and make the family restless, the child will have an escape mentality.

In his young heart, the seeds of disappointment in marriage will also be planted. After being in a noisy and strife environment for a long time, he subconsciously wanted to escape from the situation and seek peace.

In addition to his parents' mausoleum, the marriages of relatives and friends around him will also subtly affect his view of marriage and love.

There is a friend around him who is like this, his parents often quarrel when he is ten years old, and he finally divorced. Later, his best buddy got married, and they left again less than a year later.

Marriage is only a small part of his life.

Some men are not resistant to marriage, but for him, there are higher ideals to be realized, and marriage is only an insignificant part of life.

Because I don't want to be responsible.

To be married means to take responsibility and ...... to the family, to the lover, and to the childrenIt's all responsibility.

The phenomenon of men only falling in love and not getting married" is a marriage phenomenon that has gradually increased in recent years. There are many influencing factors behind this phenomenon, and I will analyze the causes of this phenomenon in depth by combining the factors of social culture, individual psychology and social change.

First of all, social and cultural factors are one of the important factors that cause men to only fall in love and not get married. Traditional beliefs can be an obstacle to marriage in some cases, especially in traditional marriage, where men are often seen as the pillars of the family and the economy, and need to take on more responsibilities and pressures, so many men believe that marriage will inhibit their freedom and development space.

Secondly, individual psychology is one of the important factors that lead men to only fall in love and not get married. With the changes in society and culture, men began to pursue self-realization more openly, to explore their potential and value, and at the same time, they also had more time and energy to pursue their own interests and hobbies, and these activities in addition to love, marriage will make them unable to continue to pursue. In addition, some men experience domestic violence and marital misfortune at a young age, creating a psychological shadow of not being able to withstand more marital pressure, leading them to choose to live alone and pursue the joy of love, but do not want to take on the responsibilities and obligations of the couple.

Finally, social change is a direct cause of men falling in love and not getting married. With the development of society, more and more women have begun to pay attention to their career development and life autonomy, and marriage is no longer their only goal, and they are not willing to choose to marry because of the pressure of men's marriage. This makes men more victims of forced marriage.

In addition, some men believe that marriage is a wave of personal desires, an oppression of moral principles, and that marriage is a way to lose freedom.

To sum up, the phenomenon of men only falling in love and not getting married is caused by multiple reasons. Some men think that marriage will cause a lot of constraints on their freedom and personal development space, and at the same time, in the traditional concept, men are often regarded as the pillars of society and family, and need to take on more responsibilities and pressures, which also makes them feel that they do not want to take on the responsibilities and obligations of marriage. In addition, personal psychological reasons, such as difficulties and shadows in marriage, can also lead men to resist marriage.

With the development of society and the rise of women's consciousness, it is very likely that it is becoming more and more common for men to only fall in love and not get married. However, after all, marriage is a good mechanism for two people to support each other and grow together, how to make men re-understand the meaning of marriage, check and improve the traditional concept of marriage, and pay attention to making decisions on the basis of equality, respect and trust with women, this is a problem that needs to be thought about and deeply understood.