I decided never to fall in love, and I never got married, and I don t know if it was right or wrong

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You may be able to do it in a year or two, but after a long time, you will feel empty and lonely when you see that your friends around you are married and live happily every day.

    In fact, two people are together to have love, if you have really loved someone with sincerity, then you will not have that kind of thought, love and be loved is a very happy thing, two people who love each other together even if they do a very ordinary thing, such as eating and shopping, you will feel different, you will come out of the heart a kind of happiness, happiness. You say this because you haven't met your fate, if fate comes, even you can't control your emotions at that time, and when you meet your other half without anyone to persuade you, you will unconsciously want to marry him and live with ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've got your back! I'm 26 years old, and I haven't been in a relationship until now. I just want to live like this for the rest of my life, not that I have material problems, in fact, I am much better than ordinary children, with a car, a house, and an income of more than 200,000 yuan a year.

    It's a pity that I just want to live alone, and I'm okay physically, but I'm still sick with my sexual orientation, but it's a pity that I just want to live alone! The people around me and my parents and relatives thought I was heartless and cold-blooded. But how do I feel that I am still loving?

    After earning money for about 10 years, I started to go where I wanted to go, have a good time, and honor my parents. Otherwise, it will be in vain for me to come to this world. As for the property, give it to the niece.

    Wait until I've read everything I want to see, go to the place I want to go, find a good place, and solve it myself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Brothers are bound by the same fate. Like you, I want to be single for the rest of my life.

    How good it is to be single, you don't have to worry about your girlfriend, and besides, if one person is full, the whole family is not hungry, and how good it is to have money for your own use. You don't have to spend money to buy things for your girlfriend, you don't have to spend money to raise your children in the future, and you don't have to worry about this and that for a day.

    I'm afraid that the child will be like this for a while.

    After a while she gets angry and you have to coax him.

    Long live single, I support you brother

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love should be two hearts snuggling up to each other, when lonely, helpless, sad, sad, there should always be someone by your side quietly accompanied, because you know the existence of this person, you will not feel that you are a person, this is a very important thing, try to see each other as a part of your life, sometimes it is not a bad thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, humans are not supposed to get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're just missing one thing, can you really endure a long period of loneliness? It doesn't matter if it's a year or two, it's really cold to the bone after a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't look like that

    You can't let yourself be too tired to be alive

    No man's blood is cold

    Only are you willing to do it?

    If the past cannot be recovered, then use another kind of love

    Keep it in your heart

    Rediscover yourself

    You'll be happy

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not necessarily. Because everyone's view of love and marriage is different, some people like to fall in love and not get married, so I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's wrong, orange sells because you only talk about love and love Qiwu, people who don't get married may be playing hooligans, the ultimate goal of our love should be to get married, if you quietly don't want to get married, don't fall in love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For the question raised by Chen, I believe everyone will give their own views and suggestions. Personally, I don't think it's right or wrong to fall in love without getting married. In addition to love and marriage, there are many things in this world that we should ponder and cherish.

    1.Marriage is not as scary as you think. First of all, marriage is not as terrible as you think.

    Many people are afraid to get married because they are afraid that they will not be able to bear the responsibilities and obligations of marriage. The longer you are in love, the more you know and understand each other's lives, and the less you will be tempted to get married. In fact, marriage is not as beautiful as you think, and it is not as ugly as you think.

    A truly happy and beautiful marriage is inseparable from the joint efforts and dedication of both men and women. When you have been in a relationship with someone for more than three years and are still in love with each other, you can consider getting married. Because marriage is the best destination for love.

    As long as you feel happy, whether you are only in love and not married, or all love is paving the way for marriage, as long as you feel happy. Whether you are in a relationship or getting married, it must be based on sincere love and appreciation for each other. It is precisely because you are attracted to each other and know how to cherish and respect each other that your relationship will last for a long time.

    When two people are together, the most important thing is to be happy. If you are becoming more and more unhappy with someone, you will not feel the happiness and sweetness that you deserve in a relationship, but will be filled with endless pain and sadness, which means that your relationship has broken down. Whatever emotional model you choose, take responsibility for your choices and decisions.

    Falling in love or getting married should be the choice and decision of the two of you. If you can't experience pure happiness in a relationship, all your joys and sorrows come from outside perceptions and evaluations, and you always keep going, but forget to look up occasionally at the Milky Way in the night sky, which means that there is room for irretrievable and irretrievable feelings.

    Although marriage is the grave of love, love without marriage tends to end badly. If your relationship is stable and your relationship is strong, then you can consider getting married. If you both find it troublesome to get married, or it is better to maintain the status quo in your relationship, and you are too lazy to toss, then you can choose to fall in love instead of getting married.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is nothing wrong with it, everyone has their own choice, if you only fall in love and don't disturb the state to get married, you can make it clear to the other party in advance, otherwise it will be easy to cause misunderstandings when the time comes, this is actually a very free view of love, there is nothing wrong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's really wrong, as the saying goes, falling in love and selling royals without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, so if you just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, it's irresponsible. Vertical key.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is nothing wrong with it, everyone has their own ideas and choices, and some people are reluctant to get married, and it is normal to only fall in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In that case, why continue to work hard? Wake up early and find a new way to find the other half of your life, and start a family as soon as possible.

    When you meet true love, you will know the answer.

    Don't listen to those useless, celibacy, I can only say that the mind is very good, no one can judge whether a person's mind is right or wrong, but, to be realistic, if you are old, how to solve your life, no one cares directly, and in the end you will either be starved to death, or, be tortured to death, so, when you are young, try your best to find a other half for yourself, if you really lose your mind about love and marriage, then go and adopt a child, at least when you are old, someone can take care of you.

    There's nothing in this world that can't be done.

    A lot of people are not married, as long as they feel that they are alive and full, and they don't necessarily have to go the path of marriage.

    I'll send you a word, people who go their own way are the ones who really live, and ordinary people are reproduced.

    ps: I didn't see that you are a girl Girls should still find a man you can rely on After all, it is too difficult for a woman in the world Don't worry, take your time, you will always find him.

    I hope you are happy.

    Hello, it is good to be married, and resolutely do not be a single dog.

    Is it okay Hehe If this is all normal and everyone thinks so, then there is no need for family planning, hehe.

    The latter, of course. Feel it all. In fact, the latter life is meaningful. Of course, the former is also my favorite way of life.

    Wrong idea, after all, it's your brother's girlfriend, you won't find a good one. There are a lot of good girls in the world, are you single all your life because of a girlfriend who doesn't belong to you, if so, then I admire you very much.

    Maybe you have your helplessness, in fact, everyone has a lot of unknown helplessness that others can understand, not something that others can share, and not ...... that others can helpI don't know much about myself or more people, like me, I don't know what I want, are you the same? The cruelty of life is not that he has prescribed all kinds of predetermined paths for you, but that he mistakenly thinks that this is the path he wants to take Friends believe in you! Go the path you choose, what do others think?

    You don't have to deliberately insist on anything, just like it......Bless you, dear friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Can you not fall in love and not get married, of course you can, there are many people in this world who have never been in love in their lives, let alone married, do you have this question for yourself? Maybe you have some fear of intimacy, but it doesn't matter, Teacher Cake can help you overcome your fear together, can you tell me how you feel when you mention the topic of love and marriage?

    What kind of couple does the mention of love and marriage make you think of? Is there an image of a specific person? For example, do your parents or do you have examples of failed relationships or marriages that make you afraid of intimacy?

    Is it okay not to fall in love and not get married?

    Can you not fall in love and not get married, of course you can, there are many people in this world who have never been in love in their lives, let alone married, do you have this question for yourself? Maybe you have some fear of intimacy, but it doesn't matter, Teacher Cake can help you overcome your fear together, can you tell me how you feel when you mention the topic of love and marriage? What kind of couple does the mention of love and marriage make you think of?

    Is there an image of a specific person? For example, do your parents or do you have examples of failed relationships or marriages that make you afraid of intimacy?

    How long have you been thinking like this? What is the case with such thoughts?

    No matter what it is, don't put a lot of psychological pressure on yourself, and the teacher will face it with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Young people who don't want to get married and work in big cities fall in love, mainly to stop being lonely and have a partner, which is the case with a friend of mine, who said that the cost of marriage is too high to get married.

    The cost of marriage is too high, and there is no money to buy a house, a car, and a bride price."

    It's not that I don't want to get married, I don't have the conditions to get married, I think now, if I can fall in love for the rest of my life without getting married, it would be good if Jian Mao. Our family is in the countryside, and my parents have been farming all their lives, so they don't have much savings at all. A few years ago, when the house was still cheap, I thought that I would work hard for a few more years and save again, so that they would not borrow money for my marriage.

    In the past few years, housing prices have become more and more expensive. My previous girlfriend waited for me for a few years, but I couldn't buy a house, and then she proposed to break up.

    After breaking up with her, I have experienced some of the realities of marriage, but I have not reached the point where I don't want to get married. To be honest, I was actually quite eager to have Pi Tong alone to spend the rest of my life with. Later, I found a girlfriend again, and after a long time of contact, I naturally thought of getting married.

    I asked her, if you don't have a house or a car, I will try to give the bride price, and I will try to meet your requirements for the wedding.

    She said: "No, getting married is a lifelong event. I'm not looking for your money, but where do we live without a house?

    I can accept it without a car, but I can't do it without a house. "In the end, it was another breakup. After that, I didn't think about getting married, so let it be, and think about it when I have the conditions.

    Many people do not get married, from a realistic point of view, either they have no material foundation, or they do not have a sense of responsibility and the ability to raise offspring, or they have not met the right person. Without the right person, blindly marrying will only make us lose faith in marriage.

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