I didn t have the courage to talk to a good friend and was afraid of being disappointed

In fact, this story is a bit sudden, and there are two reasons: first, he likes you and has the same troubles as you, just like you don't dare to take the initiative to chat with him. Second, he is disgusted by your behavior and wants to get as far away from you as possible.

But no matter the first or the second, you have to take the initiative to talk to him, it's best to be a buddy, after all, men don't have anything to like, find a psychiatrist. Regain a man's self-esteem.

The question is a bit hard :

My rate is 27%, and I don't usually grasp the problem, but the ability is limited or 73% is not used.

I'm not sure this question will help you. But I sincerely want to help. So I decided to write down what I thought!

Now the 2010s are different, and feelings are a wonderful thing, regardless of men and women, young and old, and inferior. Putting aside the world's vision, if you really like it, you can boldly approach it, and what you get in exchange for sincerity must be sincere.

He may not be able to let go of the world, or he may already have someone he likes, and if he does, you should keep the relationship as good friends. I told you that if he likes you too, he just can't let go, and you're afraid that others will make irresponsible comments, so you should help him slowly. Get out of your demons.

Hold on to your feelings together!

Not much else.

One word. You shouldn't type gay in the second paragraph.

This already shows the difference in your relationship with him when you are in a relationship with him.

He may have seen it, so try to distance himself from you.

Because. Not everyone likes gay!

Be brave, get back to your old life, make your thoughts clear to him, be a good brother, a good buddy, why not?

I think it's better for you to see a psychiatrist.

That guy is so strange! It must feel like you

If you're very young, in your teens, I think that's a normal reaction. At that time, his personality was not independent enough, and his feelings were not mature enough. It's normal to have this kind of jealousy.

If you are not young, and you are now over 20 years old, it should be that you have something in your head that you have not figured out. If you're over 20 years old, take a look at my advice for you:

Afraid of losing a friend?

In fact, except for one or two good girlfriends or buddies who don't change often, most of the friends will gradually fade because of the distance. It's the norm of life, you don't have to regret anything, you just need to spend time together and be happy. Most of your friends will leave you, and new friends will come to you in the future.

You can't control such changes, and that's what you have to endure in order to keep moving forward in life. You can't let your life stand still for the sake of one or two friends. You don't have to be afraid of losing friends.

Are you uncomfortable with friends and others?

You are a bit controlling, and you don't allow others to share your friends. It's selfish to do that. Because your friend needs more than just one friend, he needs different friends to enrich his life.

You are not in a position to deprive him of the right to find different friends. On the other hand, you also have different friends, can she not allow you to have more friends besides her? Definitely not, you won't agree to it yourself.

In fact, the relationship between others and your friends will not affect the relationship between you and your friends. Different interpersonal relationships.

Nothing more. Besides, a good relationship is not easy to be destroyed, if it is so easy to be destroyed, it should not be a good relationship, since it is not a good relationship, then you don't need to care so much, for fear of losing.

This kind of good makes you uneasy, you are very afraid that this kind of good will not last long, maybe a friend betrayed you in the past, most people will be insecure, you don't think nonsense, since he is good to you, you should be happy, look forward first.

Hello, because you, have very few friends, and are very lonely in your heart, so you are afraid, lose friends, lack of security, change your personality, read more books, make more friends, make your heart stronger, sincerely, have some friends, pay some, in life, when you encounter things, many friends will help you, so that things will pass quickly, so that you will not feel it at all, afraid of losing friends, feeling insecure, and gradually becoming stronger, You will feel that life is still very good, and I wish you a happy life.

You have to believe that you can survive exceptionally well without any friends, so you must have a good mindset.

You are afraid of losing friends, you are worried about not getting friends, and you seem anxious. This is a sign of lack of self-confidence, but it does not mean that you are not capable of making friends, it is just that you do not understand the true meaning of making friends.

Everyone needs friends, so it's a need for each other, not a handout from whom.

Secondly, you have to be a respectable person, which requires you to do it in your usual words and actions. Someone who should be welcoming, a helpful person, is popular and respected.

Finally, making friends is also about fate, you don't have to be deliberate, go with the flow, but be sincere, cherish everyone who is kind to you, don't care about those who are not kind to you, in this way, you will have a lot of friends.

It's you who don't believe in yourself, and you don't trust your friends, because friends trust each other, and if you can't trust each other, it's easy to lose the friendship of your friends.

It should still be a lack of self-confidence. In fact, when it comes to making friends, you should be open and sincere. In the handling of this relationship, it should also be open and open-minded.

Equality and tolerance, mutual respect and friendship are maintained. Being together should be joyful. Don't worry about gains and losses, worrying too much will affect the relationship with friends.

Believe in yourself and believe in others. Be optimistic about the future.

Hello, yes, because you put your emotions on your friends, and you attach too much importance to the gains and losses of friendship, that is, you are too inferior and sensitive in your heart, and you are not confident in yourself, and you hope to adopt it.

Just let it be.

You don't have to do anything.

The more deliberate it is, the easier it is to cause others to misunderstand.

It's not mature enough, ah......No one will accompany anyone to the end.

Moreover, the more successful people are, the more (lonely).