What should I do if I feel like I ve had enough of my girlfriend?

Forehead. Let's start with something that I don't like, you talk about your girlfriend like this, it hurts her a lot. As far as you said, she treats you well, don't you have feelings for him?

Or do you dislike her for being uneducated? Know that you are responsible for everything you say! If you are sincere to her, then what you should do now is to try to change her and inspire her, I believe that everyone is self-motivated, of course, everyone has a time when they are depressed, but as long as they are together, two people will make progress together!

Thank you (a little excited, but it makes sense, forgive me).

Then you don't like her anymore. Enough is enough. Just break up. But first, I remind you to see your heart.

Don't wait until after the breakup to regret it, it'll be too late.

It's one thing to be nice to you, it's another thing to love her or not.

And what I want to say is that it is enough now, it is a matter of course, after all, it has been a long time, and there is still a seven-year itch in marriage, and of course this is the case in love.

The ground floor below is quite right. Since I don't like it, I brought it up early. Don't waste your time. Waste the other party's time.

Since you feel that there is no common language, and you feel that she is not self-motivated, then you must not be able to enter the palace of marriage together, since this is the case, then you have to break up, you can't make a decision just because she is good to you, and breaking up early is also to give each other freedom, because you are really not suitable.

You can try to encourage her to experience life so that she can be self-motivated.

Hello, junior high school girls generally don't understand much, you can let go of this relationship first, and when she really grows up, you still love her, or she still loves you, you can chase it back, it's not too late.

I think you can talk to her about your thoughts, let each other calm down for a while, and think clearly before making a decision.

Well, I think you should talk to her about it, it's not appropriate to propose a breakup early, wasting your own time, and wasting her time at the same time.

Feelings are like a complete plate, as long as it is broken, it will no longer be whole, so in order for everyone to no longer be hurt, so long pain is better than short pain, you know.

Feelings can't stand the blandness, but feelings also need to be maintained by two people, and girlfriends also need you to be able to change.

Flash decisively, you will be very tired in the future.

If you have enough, divide it, and if you force yourself, you will only be unhappy for both of you.

Not all efforts can be rewarded, follow your heart.

Separate for a while and see if you can let go of the relationship.

You should be clear, it's good for each other.

Take a walk with her, go on a trip, relax, and tell her that you won't mind your love for her.

If you really like it, you will care about that, if you really like someone, you don't care about her past, you just need to care about her future.

What are you wondering about! As long as it's good to you, it's enough, who doesn't have a past! People have to look forward.

The most important thing in choosing a mate is whether there is complementarity in personality. If you find someone who is suitable for your personality, and who is also a good person who can persuade you, then it is worth associating, because he is very helpful to you; If it's just that you have been accommodating to the other party, like a sandbag, submissive, and you also feel very wronged, then you have to think carefully about whether it is suitable to go through this life.

Does she treat you like a boyfriend? It feels like you're a passerby. Male and female friends have to see each other's sincerity, and he doesn't want to treat you as a boyfriend.

It's tiring to pay one-sidedly like this, how do you feel about it? If you really can't do it, you can only break up, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't wait to die.

Look at what you said, your girlfriend is not quite right, it doesn't look like you're in love, how can there be a serious girl, there can be so many drinking friends, and it seems that I don't care about you.

Let it go early It's been a long time for fear that you'll get hurt.

I really sympathize with your current situation.

But if that's what you're used to?

Why are you so tired?

You try not to pay so much attention to her like this.

Just do your own thing.

After reading your description, it is very common for you to have emotional attrition because of a long-term conflict between you and your girlfriend. There are two possible reasons for this:

1.Long-term conflicts are never resolved, constantly erupt in concrete events, and lead to emotional breakdowns.

2.In the process of relationship development, the relationship breaks down due to a change in the thinking of one of the partners.

Your situation actually belongs to the first type. You don't know her core needs, that her basic needs are not being met.

The generation of contradictions is mutually influential, when the two sides do not realize the essence of the contradiction, the communication process naturally deviates, you don't know what she means, she thinks you don't understand him, so the various situations that erupt after that are the continuous breeding of this point.

If you're going to break up with this, you can just go.

But if you feel that the relationship can still develop, it is recommended that you go first this time and behave well.

You and your girlfriend have been together for two years, which is not a short time, and I believe you are very affectionate.

But you also have a lot of contradictions and often quarrel, which means that you need to communicate more.

It's best if you find some time to talk.

There are two things you don't like about her, one is to beat you and scold you, and the other is to always break up.

You'd better tell her what you don't like.

See if she can change for you, and if you will be relaxed after the change.

Then also ask your girlfriend what she doesn't like about your shortcomings.

Sincerely answer for you, I hope to adopt.

It's been two years, and I've been dividing and merging too many times, why and why each time? In fact, this reflects that you still have your own needs for each other, but it is too indecisive for you. It's too much of a choice.

So tired, what will I do when I get married in the future? Better a finger off than always aching. Don't be together because of habit, don't be together because of dependence.

There's still a long way to go. You are divided and combined, so many times, it will make girls look down on you.

When you are in love, you feel tired, and after marriage, it will be even more physically and mentally exhausting, if you are really tired, it is better to let go. However, as the saying goes, "good things are grinding", after shaking out all the willfulness and arrogance when you are in love, you will slowly enter a period of stability and maturity, and you will be humble, understanding and tolerant of each other, and gradually achieve harmony and live together.

For the relationship between men and women before marriage, if they don't get along, it's best to separate, the reason is very simple, if you don't get married, you get along very tired, and the contradiction is very big, so what to do after marriage. Even if you are reluctant to get married, in the end it is not the end of divorce in contradictions. Getting along before marriage is a run-in period, mutual understanding, tolerance, integration, if you really can't bear each other's shortcomings, faults, then choosing to break up is the most correct way to deal with it, so as not to leave a longer pain in the future.

I don't know what you're still worried about and worried about, why you're so reluctant to break up. Is it reluctant?

If you are not in love, you should not continue.

After all, falling in love is for getting married.

This is also the case after marriage, which is even more fatal.

If you don't be brave, you're done.

It's better to believe that the next one will be better, or you're scared, afraid that you won't find a girlfriend if you break up.

If it's a bad relationship, don't be together. Too tired, life can't be like this. True love loves each other and respects each other. If there are too many things, you can cut through the mess quickly.

Everyone's feelings are not perfect. Every pair of lovers needs to run in, and there will be contradictions and quarrels in the run-in, but no matter how noisy and noisy, they are still inseparable from each other, and that is the fate of the two of you. It would be good to pay attention to communication in the future.

Feelings, it's hard to say, sometimes, noisy and noisy, although there is no love, but there is still a long family affection, and there is more sweetness besides the noise, many times, it is inseparable, after being together for a long time, they have put down their disguises, and they really face each other, even if the two of you are separated, looking for someone else, after the disguise, after the freshness, it is also so real. Whoever is with whom is the same, it is all an end, happiness or not, mainly depends on their own management.

Since it's tiring to be together, then don't be together, separate early and get rid early, where is there no grass at the end of the world,

The relationship between two people needs to be able to identify with each other and be comfortable, no one wants to be in love, quarrel every day, cry, be sad, so you should think about whether you are suitable for each other, what is the reason for your quarrel, is there a way for you to solve it, whether the two of you respect each other, or is it just fun, think about it, and distinguish it.

Just get used to it, and happiness and pain will always be with you

Whether you go to her house or not is your business, whether you break up or not, no one will replace you with your idea. It's up to your own bottom line.