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People don't have to be kind, but people are better off than not kind, why do you say that? Because once a person is kind, many people think about him, everyone is for me, am I for everyone? Once you do a lot of things for others, they will do a lot of things for you, but if you really want to be evil, as long as you don't break the law, it's fine.
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People must be kind in their hearts, because kindness is not only tolerance for others, but also peace of mind.
Maybe a lot has happened in life that has given us certain misconceptions about kindness, but deep down we must still maintain some level of kindness.
We see people begging on the streets, and kindness allows us to help, but if we see it every day, it may also take a hit to our kindness.
We can not help them, but the next time we see someone in need, we should still have this heart.
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Human nature is inherently beautiful, at the beginning of human beings, nature is good, we have no reason to change this beautiful nature, a "degenerate" person will not easily integrate into the current society, so I think at this stage, it is very important for people to remain kind.
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People must be kind. Because a person's kindness is his excellent quality, if he is not kind, many people will not like him. And as the saying goes, the wicked have evil retribution, and if a person is not kind, he will be scolded by others. So people need to be kind, and they must be kind.
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I think kindness is the true color of a person, and I think the phrase "kindness" is right.
When a person has a bad idea or an idea that is not good for other people, I think that in the situation, that person may have considered one of their own factors and did not think about the other person.
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There is a good saying, at the beginning of a person, nature is good, a person's kindness will determine his life, if this person is not kind, then no one next to him will be willing to be friends with him. We all want to be friends with kind people. So people are not necessarily all kind, but most people are kind.
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I think there will be a lot of shining points in a kind person. He has a kind heart, is able to think about others, be tolerant of others, be kind to others, and be tolerant of himself. The good of people is mutual, if you are kind to others, then naturally others will also think about you.
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On the road of life, treat the encounters of life with a kind heart, and life will be bright everywhere. Give people roses, leave a lingering fragrance in your hands, every touch is like petals, and the spring, summer, autumn and winter of gorgeous life. Be kind to others, tolerant of yourself, every kindness is like rain and dew, infiltrating the most beautiful life.
As the years pass, even if one day the face is no longer there, life will be young and beautiful because of kindness, and it will never wither.
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We should cultivate righteousness and honor our parents.
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There was a rooster who went to God and asked why people eat them and not tigers.
God said: Tigers dare to eat people, do you dare, if you dare to eat people, they will not eat you.
In these years, people with good hearts and eyes are always regarded as people who lack hearts and eyes, and people with soft hearts are always pinched into soft persimmons.
Your goodness is like a piece of candy to others, and you forget who gave it when you eat it.
Your badness is like a nail to others, and you can't erase the traces when you put it on.
Don't be too kind, don't be too generous, after a long time, the people around you will feel that your good is taken for granted.
Even if one day you cry and can't hold it anymore, no one cares about you, feels sorry for you, understands you, and sympathizes with you.
Because in their eyes, what you do is what you should do.
The more you give in, the more others gain an inch; The more you take a step back, the more people will kill you.
You choose to forgive, the more unscrupulous others are, and the more you choose to be soft-hearted, the more others trample on your soft heart.
Your attachments will be easily let down; Your care will be ignored;
Your efforts will be ignored; Your sincerity will be trampled on, and you don't care about your feelings at all.
People can never be too soft-hearted, and they can't see others pity you, and they always give them away; You can't listen to other people's repeated requests, you always have to respond.
It is said that soft-heartedness is not a disease, but soft-heartedness kills people.
If you are soft-hearted, you should be soft-hearted, if you should refuse, you should refuse, don't die to save face and suffer crimes.
You can't be too kind, there are always people who take advantage of your kindness to hurt you.
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I think it should!
Because kindness is not without a bottom line, but has its own principles! Perhaps in the eyes of many people, kindness is a kind of unprincipled and bottom-line, who does not know how to refuse other people's requests, and even if they can't do it sometimes, they agree to it.
This is actually not real kindness, this kind of kindness is a kind of flattering disease, it is the fear that one's own rejection will make the relationship stiff, to put it bluntly, it is the bottom line of unconfidence, and it is the embodiment of self-cheapness. And true kindness is based on self-knowledge, which is responsible for oneself and others.
True kindness is based on self-knowledge, and we may need to remember that kindness is never a principled way to help others. Our goodness is based on self-knowledge. Just like if someone falls into the water, if you are not accustomed to water, your best way must not be to jump into the water to save people, but to find someone who can swim or call the police for police assistance.
Each of us may need to weigh our own weight. For example, when we don't have much strength, the best way is not to please others everywhere, but to strengthen ourselves. When we are strong ourselves, we will have more strength to help others.
When we are weak, remember that it is more important to learn to be obscure than to be deliberately kind, because you must first learn to take care of yourself.
Kindness is actually a very noble thing, it comes from our inner cultivation and conscience, but also from our self-understanding and our principle of helping others. Kindness is the part of the world that we should cherish, so don't let your kindness become a cheap product, but first learn to be yourself, bloom yourself, and let yourself have more ability to help others, which may be the attitude and principle we need the most. There is nothing wrong with being kind, but being excessively kind is a kind of connivance, which goes against the original intention of being a kind person!
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Life will be able to give us a lot of resistance, and make us want to give up our original intention. When you were a child, you thought that people should be kind, kindness is the passport of society, and you must also be upright. But as you grow older, you may find that all of this is not always the same.
Kindness may sometimes become the object of bullying by others, and integrity may become foolish in the eyes of some people, your knowledge sometimes becomes a show of talent in the eyes of those who do not understand, and your ideals are eventually blown away by the wind and rain and soaked in water.
All the unfairness, the dark heart wants to make you black, you don't want to embrace the world anymore. At the beginning of a person, his nature was good, you see that at the beginning of Lingxin people, his nature was evil. But, do you think, if you don't go to be kind, can you really live well?
People should do things with a conscience, and people can't live without the edges and corners that belong to themselves. In many moments, if you want to really break through, you must have the courage to "go your own way and let others do the talking". If you give up your own judgment easily because of a little suspicion, then I think it will be very difficult for you to achieve great things.
Princes and generals, would you rather have a kind? Although you don't want to be the head of the king, but you have to live a wonderful life that belongs to you, and no one can go through your life for you, you still have to rely on what you can grasp!
If your life has no edges and corners, if you are really just a crowd, if you are always just a little follower of others, a follower of others, if you have never had a self-thought, then what is the meaning of your life? It's not that I'm being sarcastic, but real life is like this, it's very boring, but it's so realistic.
I hope you can have the ability to break free from the cage of the world, I hope you can truly embrace yourself, seek yourself, I hope you don't have a trace of edges and corners worn by life, I hope you have the persistence that belongs to you, and insist on the beauty that you can protect.
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2.Kindness is a choice, a choice for yourself not to regret and to live openly. Therefore, kindness is not for people to see, but also for oneself.
3.When kindness is blasphemed, of course, we must continue to be kind, there are so many bad people and things in this world, do you mind minding it? Be firm and be yourself, and only talk about your own heart is the best way.
4.To be a man, we must have the bottom line and principles of Zheng Tande, kindness is just an adjective, once the bottom line is broken, this line will be low and low, especially if you taste the sweetness of not following the rules, it may cause greater problems later. I believe in cause and effect.
Yes, what you plant is what you reap, there are actually no fools in this world, everyone understands very well, if you do something bad to others, in the end others will return it to you in various forms, which is what is often said to come out and mix it sooner or later. The mother-in-law is not kind to her daughter-in-law, and she sees her mother-in-law in the first ten years and her daughter-in-law in the next ten years, and you can see it in the future; The husband is not kind to his wife, and in the long run, he will lose a true lover, and the wife will not be very good to the husband in the future.
5.People's hearts are all mountain meat; If you don't treat your friends well, you will lose a friend and lose a part of your heart.
It's just that there is a degree of kindness, and if you exceed that degree, you may not be kind, shouting at Tong but stupid. For example, to sympathize with child abductors, empathy for scum is very inappropriate, the most important thing is that if others keep hurting you, you must stop spreading your kindness in time, after all, repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue.
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This question is a bit interesting, cause and effect, so it can be said that it is a bit long, after all, no one can say for sure what will happen in the future, and the key lies in the heart, after all, what you do may not be able to bring you any results, but you are psychologically speaking, the spiritual level is more pleasant, but now people are a little too much to consume people's kindness, from the small population is rather than more than less.
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Of course, otherwise life has no direction.