Do people have to be hypocritical, hypocritical?

I don't like hypocrisy either, and I've asked you the same question! I was once confused!

This is one of my articles, I hope it will be helpful to you! In fact, as long as our hearts are pure and true! Why bother so much!

Look at yourself. Recently, some questions have suddenly made me feel confused, and I am a little confused and overwhelmed about what I want to work towards in the future! I don't know how to go best, and I suddenly feel that I have a lot of directions to work towards, but I don't know which one is right, and I have a little worry about my life!

I aspire to succeed and believe that I will succeed! Behind the success must be a lot of roads, which is the best one I want! I'm like a person standing at a fork in the road, waiting for a way out!

In order to succeed, it is necessary to change and constantly improve yourself. My change made me feel lost and uneasy for an instant! For the experienced seniors told me that I should do the same as him, I should learn to be tactful.

However, for me, the original simplicity and authenticity make me feel happy and comfortable. Such a change is undoubtedly beginning to be a little skeptical to me. But I know in my heart that society is a complex group that needs it.

I'm learning, I'm changing. I knew I was going to learn little by little. I say things I've never said before, and I'm doing things I've never done before!

Sometimes I still can't control myself, and I will reveal my original truth and temper! I'm not used to saying nice and happy things, even to my parents! I keep the right and wrong of things, the good and bad of people in my heart, and I always feel that I know it!

But everything is changing now! I suddenly felt that maybe I was really wrong because I wasn't good at expressing myself! Everyone around me actually wants to hear my affirmation and praise!

The exchange of feelings will make each other close and bring in the distance!

I may still be confused in the future! When I am confused, I look at myself with a different attitude! My life needs me to go well.

Why are people so hypocritical, it's just to protect themselves and survive!

Because there are many degrees of need in society, how can you not be hypocritical, at most, there is less hypocrisy now!

Hypocrisy plays an invisible role between people, between countries, between airplanes, cannons, and so on.

The ** between people is hypocrisy, scheming, and so on.

Your friend is hypocritical, and you're not hypocritical, then you're only at the mercy of others.

As long as you don't want to be slaughtered, then you have to learn hypocrisy.

You have to be free of hypocrisy, and you can't resist the harm that others use to hurt you.

If you look at history, people who are not hypocritical at all, each has his own genius, but which one is not mixed to death in the end. Even exterminate the Nine Clans!

As the saying goes, the fittest survive, the unfit are eliminated, and those who are not hypocritical are those who are not hypocritical and the unfit will be eliminated sooner or later, so if you want to survive, you have to follow the environment, so you must learn to be hypocritical.

People are different from each other, and everyone and everyone interact differently.

Hypocrisy, hypocrisy, non-delivery!

Hypocrisy is a must in social interactions.

Be honest with people, don't.

Hypocrisy Hypocrisy is like this to others, others will do the same to you, so that you can't have friends, respect others will get the respect of others.

1. Full of sweet words but no action.

If a man is always committed to you, always sweet words. But he never takes any action, then he must not love you. Love words can be said to everyone, and it doesn't hurt to say them.

And action is the best embodiment of true love. The man who loves you will only give silently, and the man who is hypocritical to you only has an empty mouth that can ooze honey.

Second, there is nothing to see and nothing to be courteous.

There is a kind of man who always likes to say that he is an all-round man, as if there is nothing in this world that he can't solve. But when you have something to look for him, the other person disappears, and shirks it for various reasons, because he doesn't love you, so he feels that your affairs have nothing to do with him, and the original promise is just to please you for a while. And when it's okay, he starts to circle around you again, he doesn't want to give to you, but he wants to get your love.

3. Never planned your future.

If a man never planned for your future, never said to you later. Then in his heart, he has already tacitly assumed that you are a passerby in his life, he has never planned your future, and he has never regarded the future bride as you, because he has not fallen in love with you.

Fourth, I never took you to his house.

Once a man who really loves you is in a relationship with you, he can't wait to bring you home to meet his parents, and let his relatives and friends know what a good wife he has found. And the man who is hypocritical to you will definitely hide you well so that the whole world will not know about your existence, because in his heart he feels that you are not worthy of entering his door.

Fifth, it depends on your mood when you are hot and cold.

Perhaps many women will encounter such a problem, their men are always hot and cold to themselves. Sometimes he is very enthusiastic about himself, and sometimes he is very cold. Maybe at this time, you can't think of the exact reason after racking your brains, so I'll tell you the answer.

It must be because he doesn't love you, when he is enthusiastic because he happened to be in a good mood that day and is hypocritical to you, and when he is indifferent, it is because he doesn't want to pay attention to you at all. There is no other special reason.

Love is a very beautiful thing, but you also need to know how to distinguish whether he is sincere or false to you. From then on, I will be affectionate, not in vain, and live a happy life. Here, I really hope that the lover around you does not have these five characteristics, I wish you happiness!

The most obvious characteristic of a hypocritical person is that he does one thing in front of him and another behind his back. When he is in front of you, he says good things about you, but when he is behind your back, he constantly slanders you and says bad things about you.

So sometimes you don't know how many versions are in other people's mouths.

I hate one set of behaviors in front of me and one set behind my back, I feel that being a human being, you can't do this, it's disrespectful to others. If you don't like people, you can say it to your face, or keep silent and don't speak ill of people behind your back.

But"Who does not speak in the back, there is no one behind the water! Click "Face to face, for this kind of behavior behind the scenes, I think we should all reflect on ourselves."

In life, you will find that there is a kind of person who is very kind and friendly to people on the surface, but very insidious on the inside.

He tries his best to please you when you are valuable, but when you have no value to use, or when you threaten his interests, he ignores.

In fact, this kind of person is very hypocritical, they get along with others, and they have a very strong purpose, just for profit. They can pretend to be kind for the sake of profit, or they can become unscrupulous.

People are not superficial, they must come from the heart and be kind. People have to get along, one is expensive, the other is kind, the other is kind, the other is kind, so that they can be warm to each other.

People who are hypocritical often say very well with their mouths, but they are almost impossible to put into practice.

For example, I like you and I love you, but he just doesn't give time and doesn't take action.

Therefore, hypocritical people are well disguised, and if you ask him to help you do something, he will immediately show his feet, for example, he will refuse for various reasons.

Clause.

1. Insincerity;

Whether a person is sincere or not, in fact, we can feel it completely. For example, we only need to listen to the tone of the voice on the other end, whether it is enthusiastic or not, whether it is a positive response, and we can know whether the other party's thoughts are sincere. Also, people who always reply to messages with "uh-huh, oh-oh-hehe" are often insincere.

In the book "Bing Jian", it is said that "there is a conversation, and the god ignores him" is a hypocrisy. In other words, when you are talking to someone and they suddenly turn their eyes and thoughts elsewhere, it shows that such a person is not sincere. When dealing with people, sincerity comes first, because it is related to whether the attitude is correct or not.

The Mean" said: "Those who are sincere are also the way of heaven." Those who are honest are also the way of people. "Sincerity is the principle of God, and the pursuit of sincerity is the principle of life. People who are sincere by nature can do it without reluctance, can have it without thinking, and naturally conform to the principles of God.

Sincere people are more obedient to the way of heaven and humanity, and they will also "have more lords who have attained the Tao". On the contrary, if you are not attentive enough in your life and deeds, and your thoughts are not sincere enough, the result of deceiving others is self-deception, and the result of insulting others is also self-humiliation. As Mencius says:

A man must insult himself, and then he will insult him", a man must first insult himself, and then others will insult him. Therefore, people with insincere intentions will not only harm others and appear hypocritical, but will also harm themselves after all.

Clause. 2. Wrong heart;

Before we talk about righteousness, let's take a look at what "good and evil" are. The Zhongfeng Zen Master in the "Four Teachings of Liaofan" said: It is beneficial to people and is good; What is good for oneself is evil.

How to understand this sentence? To do what is good for others is to be good; Doing what is good for oneself is evil.

The starting point and motivation to look at a person's good heart and evil heart: doing good deeds and devoting oneself to others is true and good; Although you have done good deeds, but you think that you can get benefits, this is hypocrisy. To do good deeds without asking for anything in return, and not to let others know about them, is true and good; To do good for a certain purpose or attempt is to be hypocritical.

In my opinion, it's all about one heart. Because I don't have the professional knowledge or skills in psychology or philosophy to distinguish between people's sincerity and falsehood, I often use my own heart to feel the hearts of others in my life. This helps you to recognize people.

Everyone has a heart, and the heart will help you discern a person's character. When I am with someone, my heart automatically feels how his words and actions make me feel. That said, you might contradict me:

What if that person keeps pretending? Yes, I've suffered too. Therefore, it takes a wise man to eat a trench.

It's really amazing to feel whether a person is sincere or not. If you meet someone who always makes you feel uncomfortable, don't get along too much if you're nervous. Sometimes I already know what kind of person the other person is, but I just don't say it.

Listening to the most primitive voice in my heart is my way of knowing people.

People who are hypocritical and false are often unscrupulous, and the eyes are the window of the soul, and you can roughly judge the truth of the other party by looking at the eyes. For example, the ancients said that "between mortal languages, those who laugh a lot will not be right", which shows that even if the eyes of the smiling tiger shine, it is also unscrupulous, and it is also hypocritical.