It s only been 6 months since I got married, and my husband beat me for 5,000 yuan

Updated on society 2024-04-14
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As the saying goes:"There is a problem that there is not enough collusion, and there is a difficulty that is a lack of ability"Didn't you ask his dad for the money? If you want money to do something, I think you should readily agree, and he should also make it clear to you, you also need to understand the truth, husband and wife must be mutual, what you lack is collusion, so there will be problems.

    As for your husband really shouldn't hit someone, I want to ask if he found out his fault? Isn't it with you? You give him another chance, see how he performs, don't take it to heart if you know that you can change your mistakes, it's not easy to walk together, if you don't improve, it's better to make a decision as soon as possible, don't wait until you have a child to make a decision, it will be bitter for the baby.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Shanghai men don't treat women from other places as human beings because they can't afford to marry beautiful wives. When they saw that the beautiful woman was missing, they were angry when they went home and saw the foreign girl, so the foreign girl was very angry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have a friend who was beaten by her husband, the first time we persuaded her to leave her husband, but she said, or forgive him once, after all, after beating her, her husband also regretted and apologized, she said so we didn't say anything, but then his husband became more and more excessive, beating more and more fiercely, and every time he finished beating, he cried and apologized, and I wanted to say that my friend deserved it, and anything else can be forgiven once or twice, that is, it is unforgivable for a man to beat his wife, If you forgive him once, it will only increase his arrogance. Unforgivable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is not appropriate for a man to beat his wife, no matter how angry my husband is, he will not beat me, once I quarreled with him, he was so angry that he brought me up, and he was reluctant to beat me. So you still have to think about it, if you forgive him this time, will you wait for --- next time?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He's a brute, he doesn't even have a house when he gets married, he doesn't apologize at all, and he still beats you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He didn't even buy a house when he got married, it's taboo to live with his family, and he still beats you, divide it. My husband used to live with his parents, I didn't get along with her mother, he was very good to me, but once he drank too much and slapped me in the mouth, I held a grudge, even though I still love him, but I know that as long as he hits you once, there will inevitably be a next time, and you must not live with a man who has beaten you for the rest of your life. Finally after a year, we separated, and now I am married, my husband is handsome, very good, and I am very happy.

    I think a woman must not live with a man who has beaten you for the rest of her life, not to mention that he doesn't feel heartache when he beats you, he doesn't even apologize, he doesn't love you and doesn't separate, there will be happier waiting for you! Why live with a man who doesn't buy a house and still beats you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men are not people, what do you want to do so much?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe if you're angry, you'll hit someone? Although my husband never hit me, I think it's always wrong for a man to beat someone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You go learn sanda, or defend or something. Then he won't dare to bully you.

    His enthusiasm for you has faded, and he will hurt you with a heavy hand.

    If you endure it, the storm will come more violently, and you will have nowhere to hide.

    Although men like gentle women, they will also adapt to the savage girlfriend type.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As a woman, I also hate my husband beating his wife very much, but I think there must be a reason for a man to beat a woman, otherwise he can't do it, my husband loves me very much, and he is never willing to scold me, let alone beat me, but I will not divorce my husband because he beat me once, I will talk to him well, and even warn him. If he doesn't listen, I'll be angry.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find someone to beat him up, and then leave. If you don't leave, you will give him a green hat for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    ..Quarrels are taken for granted. But if you hit a woman. I will regret marrying this man because he hit me. It means that he doesn't love me anymore.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course not, if my husband beats me, I will definitely divorce him!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My wife is going to hurt, how can I beat it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No! If there is, I will get divorced!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After all, it is a man, although a man who beats a woman is not a good husband. But forgive him once for the sake of the child's face, and if there is a second time, you must leave your husband without hesitation.

    You ask him to guarantee that he won't beat you in the future, and it depends on his remorseful attitude.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A bad temper is not a reason to beat someone, if it's just a bad temper, why doesn't he beat his mother?

    Domestic violence cannot be fueled, there will be a second time if there is a first time, you have to let him know that women are used to hurt, not to beat.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is a first time, and there is a second time.

    You have to think of a way to punish him, or you will come back a second time. At least you should not talk to him for a week.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then make a big fuss, there will be a first time, there will be a second time, you have to prepare again.

    Men are like this, you don't let him know that it's amazing, the second time will come very soon.

    ok》??Good luck.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, and it is not necessary to worry about it for the second time. Think for yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not to mention that good men don't let women get hurt, and men who beat women are not good men.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you're happy to accept two fists for three days, you can marry him. The premise is: you are not afraid of death!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I guess that man has a lot of money.

    Otherwise, your family wouldn't have agreed to your breakup.

    But what does it have to do with your family if you break up or get married?

    What does their own marriage have to do with them, who does not agree to ask him to marry him.

    It's not right for a man to hit a woman, or to beat his girlfriend.

    If you are a friend, a small fight before marriage, and a life after marriage?

    I suggest you leave your house alone and leave if you can

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'll find someone to beat him up...

    My mom would just do it like this. Won't disagree with me breaking up at all...

    A man who can do it must not ask for it. That's it before marriage. Do you still want people to live after marriage? . .

    Your family is so interesting. I don't think about it...

    Parted. That's your business. After dividing it, tell the family the result...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As the saying goes: persuade and not persuade to divide, but a boyfriend like you, if it were me, I would never want it, what age is this, there are men who beat women, such men are not worthy of your love at all, such men are not called men, they have the ability to be powerful with outsiders, do you still need to teach what to do, break up, fight before you get married, you still have to get married, and when the time comes, it will be more troublesome, and the long pain is better than the short pain, I wish you to get out of the predicament as soon as possible and get happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, I certainly can't abuse myself like that. What's going on with your family? It doesn't matter if you live or die?

    Are you biological? I beat you before I got married, and you still have to live after you get married. Don't marry the man who beat you, my graduation ** is in the anti-domestic violence law, I checked a lot of information, and I also went to the Women's Federation to do an investigation, and it turns out that don't marry the man who beat you, and you can't leave when you want to.

    My classmate's cousin was beaten before marriage, she didn't tell her family, and as a result, she couldn't leave after marriage, and finally lost several truckloads of dowry to redeem her free body.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men are so cheap, and men who beat women are all tasteless things

    If not, lest you regret it later!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sister, let's break up with her. Such a man is unavoidable, if he loves you generally, he will not bear to beat you, no matter what you do wrong, he should not beat you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Let's break up in order to pay responsibility for ourselves in the future.

    If you and your family make it clear about your relationship.

    I think your family will agree to you breaking up with him.

    Don't be embarrassed to say why.

    Because it's about your life.

    If you are rude like this before marriage, it will be even worse after marriage.

    It's better to end it early.

    Don't be under any illusions.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some things have different meanings before marriage and after marriage, and it is easy to break up now After getting married, regretting it will be related to the law For the future life You will have children in the future Do you want your children to have a father and family like this? I don't think you want to be the last one to make up your own minds.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    A man's temper is the most important, if it is not a matter of principle, they can't let them be so rampant, it is their business that the family disagrees, and it is you who want to live a lifetime I slapped me less than a month after I got married, I was too naïve and didn't know how to look at people, and then there was 7 years of noise, and in the end, I still had to take the road of divorce, and the children's house and money were not mine, because I was leaving, 7 years of hard work886 Remember, but if you are sure to change you and him, then don't take it seriously.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Leave, there will be, not to leave is more painful.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Now it's very painful to be tired, leave quickly, now the child is small, don't understand anything, otherwise it will hurt the child, first separate to live with relatives and friends, and then find two relatives and friends who can cure your husband to accompany you, you are talking to him about divorce so that he doesn't beat you, he doesn't agree, you can divorce through legal means, want custody of the child, just because the father has violent tendencies, the child is more likely to belong to you, it is best to consult a local lawyer first, then more certain, come on be brave.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    We're going through the same thing, and I can relate to your feelings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Learn to love his family together, don't grieve yourself, take the initiative to hope that your lover will love you, but you have lost a lot, treat your parents well to show that he is a filial son, treat your ex-wife's daughter to show that he is a responsible man, don't fight for the love he gives to others, you love your family together, because now you are a person, don't forget, you are also his family, he will love you as much as they love in the future, learn to integrate into his love, don't let the centrifugal force of jealousy detach from her husband, son, happiness, and future!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    12 years older than you, still beating you? My boyfriend is also 12 years older than me, so he won't beat me up in the future, right?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In sympathy, break up, it's good to live alone, there will be problems if it goes on like this.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't say anything else, don't mention whether he loves you or not, just say that he will beat you, don't say twice, even once, this thing is coherent, he will hit you the first time he will beat you a second time, I dare to tell you that he will beat you a third time, believe it or not. He said that he didn't have the feeling when he was in love with you, you have to wake up and see if you did something wrong, you were a gentle and elegant person before you got married, and after you got married, did you quarrel too much and you became a shrew who didn't give up. He can't leave you because of something else for you before.

    You need to check for sure. Now the question is whether you want to spend time with him. When you think about this sentence, everything will be solved.

    I wish happiness to all lovers in the world!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There are no good words when arguing, he may be angry, don't take it to heart!

    However, the fact that he started beating people is worth paying attention to, and it has become a habit!

    Warn him not to make an example, otherwise it will easily turn into domestic violence!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    What he said when he was angry At that time, it would be good to wait for the anger to subside, how can there be a husband and wife who don't quarrel, noisy and noisy life can have a mood Don't think too much Take a step back The sea and the sky are wide.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If he hits you once, there will be a second time, a third time. If you don't stop this completely, then you won't be beaten enough in the future.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I don't know the details and don't dare to speculate.

    If it's a traditional man who beats a woman at every turn, then give me a trick to try to give him a little hard and go to court to sue him for divorce. When he was scared, he spared him and gave him a chance.

    If you are not afraid of this. It's too early.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Find the Women's Federation, say that he is domestic violence, ask him to compensate, and then divorce.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There must be a lot of misunderstandings between you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It depends on what is the reason for hitting you, if you say something excessive, then you can still forgive, if you are casually noisy and hit you, and if you beat you badly, then you have to protect yourself. For example, when he beats you, you use your mobile phone to record the process of him beating you, and after the beating, you take a picture of the injury he hit you, and if he hits you again, you will use this evidence to sue him

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    After reading your words, the first reaction was that you are so pitiful, why didn't you see him before you got married, but now that you have children, the problem is complicated. Personally, I still hope you get a divorce and wish you happiness!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    After reading the above, you wrote a whole lot of shortcomings about your husband.

    But you have to think about whether he has your own reasons for hitting you these five times, and if you yourself are at fault, you have to forgive him.

    If you are indeed right, then wait a little longer, and choose to marry him is your own choice. After all, there are children, and besides, it is not good for anyone to have children who are too young to separate.

    The child is tired and annoyed when he is young, everyone should restrain himself, and the child is much better when he is older than he is in primary school.

    Men can't be tough, if you don't do it, you will die, and you will suffer. You can change the way and compare the good and bad examples of others, and he will definitely reflect on himself in private.

    Or overcome rigidity with softness.

    Don't just see his shortcomings, think about his strengths when you have time, and praise him.

    I believe you will get better and better.

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