What do you think it s like for a science bully and a liberal arts bully to fall in love?

I have a female master's degree in science and a doctorate in literary linguistics from my boyfriend. I repair the toilet for daily furniture, I am the cook, I am the one who repairs the computer, and I am still 80% of the housework. The boyfriend is responsible for going to work, earning money, paying money, talking about ideals, talking about life and sleeping, and grabbing quilts.

After all, he studied in three different countries and did a lot of interesting things (such as being a tour guide in Thailand and leading others to climb Mount Everest); Secondly, he was very bookish and had a strong gentlemanly demeanor, which made me always feel that I was living in an elegant world; Also, he is more serious, has a strong will, and has a pure heart, which I regard as treasures.

My science bully boyfriend is a very tenacious person. When we first got together, we started texting and chatting every night when his parents were asleep. However, this child usually finishes his homework early, goes to bed early, gets up early, and is in good health, not very accustomed to staying up late, once he texted and sent it and there was no sound, I think he was probably too tired to fall asleep, so I said to him and fell asleep.

When I woke up the next morning, I had a vague premonition that he would explain the situation of last night, but when I opened my phone in a daze, I was still shocked. Hey, why are there so many pieces of information, he's usually a very quiet person. As a result, he woke up at four in the morning and found himself asleep chatting and chatting, and felt sorry for me, so he texted me from four to eight.

I just have a deep understanding of this, you must know that I fell in love with Xueba at that time, it was really a lot of trouble. I remember that it was the first half of the sophomore year of high school, and I was together because of a joke. In fact, at first I myself would have thought it was incredible, I was just a mediocre-looking girl with mediocre grades, but he was recognized as a good student by all teachers and classmates, and we talked face-to-face for less than ten words before we were together, but sometimes, fate is so magical, we came together until today.

A month after I was with him, only a few classmates knew about me and him, Xueba fell in love to know how fast it was spread, and the next day almost two classes of classmates knew about it (I was not in the same class as him), and the people who knew it were very surprised at the time, thinking that he couldn't be with me, how could the first grade find a mediocre-looking girl as a girlfriend, and it was also rumored at that time.

They are all silent and introverted people, and they have little experience in feelings. Once, because of a trivial matter, I lost my temper more and more, and finally said that I wanted to break up. He was still coaxing me at first, and he fell silent all of a sudden.

He said I'd like to think about it, and he left. I stood silently at the school gate and watched his back disappear into the end of a field of lights. It was just in time for the school's ** festival, and the people on the stage sang affectionately that you are the most precious, I hugged my best friend's arm and cried so much that my limbs were numb, and the sequelae was that I couldn't hear your most precious song for a long time.

That day, he walked for more than 40 minutes from one district in the city to another. I begged him for peace, crying so much that I couldn't speak, but he felt that he was not a good boyfriend and insisted on agreeing to break up. I said let's meet.

He said, I haven't cried in years. Our mutual best friend went to him and he just hung up on my **. My friend said that when I turned around after I left, I saw him taking off his glasses and wiping his eyes.

Despite this, he insisted on breaking up. Let me be clear, we didn't end up breaking up because of this. It was a big fuss that time, but in the end they got back together.

Yesterday, my boyfriend called ** and said that I want to be together in this life, and when I am old, it is best for me to die in front of him, because the person who dies late when he is old will miss another partner very much, and he also added a sentence to wait for him on the bridge, and he will be together in the next life or something. I think his conclusion is too fake, and the next life together is an objective word with reference when two people are old for a lifetime, and don't you think it's too fake to say when you know each other for half a year, so after he said a bunch of things, I asked "why". Then he cried.

I said such a false thing, and others must be very moved. It's inexplicable. Then my boyfriend emotionally accused me that I couldn't speak sweetly, not gentle, not understanding, and that he hated my character.

said that he hated that I was rational and objective in everything, and thought I had no feelings. I objectively point out that his performance is a bit artificial. And character is the essence of a person, there is no superiority or inferiority, even the character is disgusted with what does he like about me?

He needs to objectively consider whether he wants to find someone who can appreciate the other person's personality to fall in love, instead of asking me to change my personality. Objectively speaking, I think he is going to break up with me, but he doesn't want to break up, saying that he wants to try to go from hating my character to not hating my character. So, I don't know what he's trying to say.

How could it be so troublesome when I fell in love with an engineering man back then. Alas.

Simplicity! Maybe it's my own professional edification, I take material things very seriously, my girlfriend never puts any pressure on herself, I can afford to buy a house in Shanghai, it doesn't matter if I don't buy it, as long as I'm here, she doesn't ask for anything.

As a science girl, I don't think I'm at all resistant to the kind of gentle, empathetic and talented boy who looks like a white and thin scholar, and there will be a little more of this kind of liberal arts man? They should be mindful of dressing and things like that. Just guessing.

When I meet such a blue boy paper, I like it no matter what he learns.

<>1. Very smart, you can use your brain to solve the small problems you encounter in life, which is reflected in the bits and pieces of life. For example, if the water faucet is broken and there is a problem with the contact of the electric kettle, it can be solved quickly.

2. Be careful and planned. Whatever you do will be planned, and you don't need to worry about it at all. For example, when he goes out to play, he will plan the route in advance, and he can predict and consider the smallest details. Food, drink, housing and transportation can be taken into account in all aspects, it is amazing!

4. Single-mindedness. I am very focused on doing anything, whether it is a trivial matter in work or life, once I do something, I will be perfect and work efficiently.

Well, I'll help my girlfriend answer that question.

If you fall in love with Xueba first, you will never get lost in the process of going out with her, this is the first point, because the way she finds the route and remembers the route is indeed superior, of course, he sometimes gets confused and can't find it himself, but I think it may be some relatively rare situations at that time, this is the first point.

The second point is that he can casually explain a lot of physical and biochemical common sense to you, as a liberal arts girl, it is undoubtedly novel to hear these things, and I also think that he can bring more knowledge to himself in these things, and can make himself have a clearer mind when making some choices, such as choosing some biological products, such as asking him when he sees some physical questions, and he can generally answer them for himself.

The third point is that in the process of getting along with her, he can throw out some very logical stalks from time to time, such as some jokes that can be told clearly with strong logic, which are actually rare in his daily life, so I can see this. As a science student, as a scholar, he is indeed very logical on the rational side, and he will not feel very tired when he falls in love with such a person, because most of what he does is more rational and can be traced.

Although it is said that IQ is required to fall in love, emotional intelligence is more important. If you fall in love with a scholar, it also depends on the level of emotional intelligence of the scholar.

If it's just a simple high IQ and low EQ, then it's embarrassing, such a scholar will use a set of formula principles to get along with you, even if it's a quarrel, then it may be a big reason to talk a set, and it may be bland in love, lacking a timely little romance, maybe you have to learn to adapt;

If it is a high IQ and EQ, then you and he She may be immersed in happiness every minute when she falls in love, maybe they are inseparable, both smart and know how to get along with the other half, this kind of love may be the pursuit of most people. Of course, falling in love is a matter of two people, and whether you are happy in love or not depends on both parties, that is to say, in this relationship, your IQ and EQ are also important. If the top student has a high IQ and low EQ, and you are too, maybe two people will not feel too uncomfortable when they get along, after all, they are people with low EQ, and they won't care too much about the so-called mood and romance, and if you are a double high, you may sometimes be blocked by the other party's big reason and have nothing to say, so you can only endure helplessly, so it is very hard to get along.

If Xueba's IQ and EQ are high, then whether you are a double bottom or a high IQ and low EQ, or a low IQ and high EQ, it should be sweeter in the process of falling in love, after all, the other party is both high and knows how to get along with you. The best thing is that both of them are double high, then they are invincible in the world, it is not difficult to get along, some things can be understood at one point, and occasionally a little romance to increase feelings is also a matter of minutes.

The two of you need to use your brain when you are together, and the other side of the problem is solved by him, you just need to bring yourself. It's really sad to fall in love with a top student, you don't have to urge him to take the initiative to learn, on the contrary, he may come to urge you. It may be the reason why I am more attentive in my studies, and I am also very attentive in my feelings.

He doesn't talk to other girls except me, and he doesn't say anything touching, but he uses his every move to make me know that he likes me very much. He said something like raising me, but I think it's better for the two of us to work together, his starting point is higher, but I think that no matter where the starting point is, as long as the end point is the same, the two will come together.

Because you are facing a top student, your boyfriend can answer all your questions. If you fight with other girls, you can dare to ask the teacher, and it will be much easier for you to ask your boyfriend. Sometimes your love will become a class, a student becomes a teacher, and you become a student.

In this way, it is impossible to think about your grades. And you can also buy and sell and tutor other people.

I haven't actually been in a relationship with a school bully, and I don't quite understand what it's like to be in a relationship with a school bullyHowever, it should be two extremes, one means that the boyfriend of the school bully can solve the problems in study and life, can have different opinions from us, and can give good opinions and suggestions in all aspects, and the other is that they may be more dull, after all, most of the time is spent on studying, so there will not be too much research in other aspects, especially in the relationship, it may be very different from others, of course, these also vary from person to person, the same thing will have different effects on different people, So the experience with Xueba's boyfriend may be different for everyone.

1. I haven't been in a relationship with a school bullyIt may be because my own academic performance is not the top kind of people, and there is very little communication with Xueba, so in this case, the possibility of being able to develop a relationship with Xueba is not too great, but my friends around me have the experience of falling in love with Xueba, her boyfriend is more gentle, although he is a Xueba, but he does a very good job in other aspects, very caring, and always can come forward to help her solve some problems in time when my friend needs it, and I am really happy to have this kind of boyfriend, It's very different from the dull image I thought, so it also varies from person to person, and different people will have different feelings.

Second, Xueba is not as scary as we thinkMany people may think that Xueba is very scary, their thinking is completely inconsistent with ours, and there is even a big difference, but in fact, this is not the case, some Xueba in addition to high grades in learning, in all other aspects of the practice are good, is the candidate for an excellent boyfriend in everyone's mind, although I have no experience of falling in love with Xueba, but as far as I observe, it is still a very good feeling.

We have talked about it, but both of us are more professional players, so the two of us will give each other supplementary lessons and learn from each other's strengths.

I haven't been in a relationship with Xueba, because I didn't study very well when I was in school, and I had little contact with Xueba.

No, because I'm not a top student, and the top students are very good, and I don't dare to get close, so I haven't been in a relationship with a top student.

I haven't been in a relationship with a top student, so I think I'm very sorry. In the next life, you must fall in love with Xueba.

I haven't been in a relationship with Xueba because I don't study well, so I feel a lot of pressure to be with Xueba, and I don't like Xueba's type very much.