Is a woman who has hurt you and already has children with someone else still worthy of your love?

Updated on society 2024-04-17
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's really not worth it, such a woman ......Hey, I really don't know what you think, she has children with others, and you still love her like this, are you dizzy? She also said that she was reluctant to have children, do you think if he broke up with that man, wouldn't she have to take the child and live with you for the rest of her life? Don't you really care?

    She takes someone else's child to live with you, do you have a balance in your heart? Would you like to? Will you be happy then?

    Don't be stupid, friend!

    Think for yourself, no matter how much you love her, you can't do this!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're 30, if you have your own family, then give it up and be a friend, if you don't, if she has the will to be with you again, then it's perverse, but the premise is that you can't destroy her family, that is, she is separated from her boyfriend, and you are willing to take care of her children, be realistic and take into account all aspects.

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's definitely not worth it, you'll be miserable if you're with her. She's so casual that she doesn't think about the consequences at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower?!

    Although it is difficult to let go completely, it will definitely be better to let go than it is now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wow, you destroyed the flowers of the motherland 7 years ago.

    What else is there to be entangled, in a word, she will love you again together, and she will love a p when she is gone!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell him you have nothing, and see if he can follow you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it were me, I would let it go. It's better to miss each other than to see each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    See if she's true to you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not worth it, aren't you still sad?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do you think? If you love each other very much, you will care about each other!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    On a moral level, it doesn't fit. But if you think you can protect her, then you can do it, you have to think about a lot of problems, and you will have to face in the future, whether it is gossip or financial difficulties... At least you have to get by financially, and a married woman wants stability.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you're out of sympathy for her, not out of knowing her strengths.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What you mean is that you want to be a hero to save a beautiful woman, you can love, you can love boldly, you can accept it, your parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Impossible, don't get yourself in trouble. Wash and sleep!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your situation is similar to that of my friend!

    It's just ......It's just ......I know I shouldn't pour cold water on you! In short, my friend (female) is not happy right now! After she divorced her ex-husband, she and her current husband have been together for 8 years, but she didn't expect her current husband to change his mind and engage in women outside, which hit her hard! ......

    Of course, it varies from person to person!

    Sometimes it's not always good to have, but if you have, you must cherish it!

    Good words are bitter! Please don't be disgusted! I wish a lover a family member!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Nonsense, if a woman wants to divorce and leave early, she is tortured like this by her husband, isn't she divorced?

    Unilateral petition for divorce without signing takes effect two years after separation. It's up to her husband to want it or not.

    She's just conflicting.

    Also, you are younger than her, she must not worry about you, she thinks you are young and vigorous, impulsive, and carried away by feelings. Compared to her husband, she is more worried about you. If she really follows you, when she is thirty, it is estimated that you will be thinking eighteen.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are used to love and love, I hope you cherish her well, and I hope you can be happy! Be brave and do what you want to do and what you should do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If, as you say, try to save someone from suffering and give her happiness.

    But if there is a trace of irritability, I advise you to mix less, and don't make other people's lives more miserable!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    According to the laws of the country, you can sue the man, the marriage law.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Are you a rich man? If yes, then I'll give you a suggestion In the world, it is not difficult for money to solve, if you are not a rich person, then you have to use sincerity to influence, it depends on your heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let's elope! The two of them go away and fly high!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's talk about it after the divorce, don't touch your feelings now. It can be said that it is a hot taro.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The important thing is whether the other party is single or not divorced, if divorced, as long as you can be good to her children and you are willing to bear it, then there will be a good outcome, if not, then there will definitely be no good outcome.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If she didn't bring her husband, there might be a result.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Brother, look at what you think, your own thoughts are the most important, you love her very much, you can't do without her, at this time, you should be desperate, I think since you can ask like this, probably love her very much, right?

    I wish you all happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she gets divorced, if you really love her, but you have to be able to accept this child, then there will be a result, otherwise it's hard to say.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The key is not whether she has children or not, but whether he loves you just as much. If you really love her, children are not a problem at all!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sometimes compassion is not love! Don't use your feelings with the wrong person!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Be nice to her.

    From the bits and pieces of life to care for her and care for her children.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do what she likes and impress her with sincerity. But she had to get past her child first.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Treat her children as her own.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Sincerely loving her and her children may take a process, but in the end, people are not hardcore, as long as they persist, they will succeed.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not right for you to do this, if you feel that your family is unhappy and the relationship between husband and wife is difficult to continue. Settle your existing marriage as soon as possible and rebuild your new home! Why fall in love with someone who has a family and children?

    You all have a descendant, have you thought about the future of your children? Since you are responsible for your children and are hesitating, let's be realistic! It's okay to be a bosom friend of the opposite sex.

    It's okay to help each other, but it's not the kind to start a family.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I advise you to let go, you say it's because of the children, then I'll say that if you both get divorced and come together, your children will still be...

    Why is there disharmony in the family? Have you ever asked yourself? Think about it! Maybe you and your wife just lack communication! Cherish the people in front of you....

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The question is that she also loves me, that is, her husband is unwilling to divorce.

    Asked if she was willing to divorce, but her family did not agree with her leaving, we still have contact, but as soon as her husband came back, he didn't dare to contact me, I want to know what kind of mentality she has.

    The question is not no, she really wants to leave, that is, her husband is unwilling to leave, and we said that he will go out to work after the New Year.

    I just want to know what kind of mentality she has?

    Question: She has already had a baby for me, and her husband knows about our relationship, but she told her husband that we don't have a relationship anymore, but we still communicate privately, and I want to know what kind of mentality she has now.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't let the good things be broken by reality, if you have a child, you must be responsible for the child, if you have a home, you must be responsible for the family, there are many unsatisfactory things in life, people can't live too selfishly, after this period you will find that you and your family will become more and more alike, you will find that she or he is a part of your life

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Communication is the foundation of family harmony and enhancing feelings, don't just think about the other party's badness, find your own reasons!

    The fact that you are in love with this person now is just a filling of feelings, and there will be no contradictions without really living together! Really live together, stay for a long time, the problems of both sides will be exposed, don't just look at the present! Cherish, cherish!!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It is recommended that you watch "Fifty Roses", once the extramarital affair ** leads to divorce, both parties will regret it afterwards.

    Your underground romance will go bad once it's on the ground.

    Love and dislove are instantaneous.

    The best thing is to stop.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's good to take time to play, children are the most important, don't you live your whole life just for a descendant?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It is not wrong to have a red face .

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Give up, if you are with her, it will destroy her family, if you really love her, let go and bless her silently

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think you should give up! If you really love her, you should let go and bless her silently, since she doesn't love you, why bother? You will definitely not be happy with her, since she has a husband and a son, why destroy her family?

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