How can I choose between such a man?

To be honest, I look at this question of yours, and I am very entangled, and your feelings are too complicated. Think about it simply: what do you want in the first place?

Whether he already loves him to the point of love. Secondly, I read what you said, and I feel that your boyfriend can't let go of his ex-wife at all. Again, are you ready?

You must know that divorced men have a story and a complicated family. You have no problem with these three points, so you can follow him!! Personally, I don't recommend you to give up or never give up!!

Emotional things are really untidy and messy I personally think that if this man is both tearing up with his ex-wife and having an affair with other girls I will leave him because there are too many women around me It's not a good thing I feel like your boyfriend has a lot of secrets People who don't even share secrets with you Then there is a common language I hope you communicate well with him Observe for a while If you can't get it clear again, then there's no need to be together It's not like you can't find someone else Hehe, hehe, besides, he's still divorced and has children.

I think first of all, you can listen to your parents and see if they are against you dating a divorced man with children. Then you can ask people close to him about his personality and style of doing things without hurting him, after all, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders. In my personal opinion, this man is a bit unreliable. Finally, I wish you happiness!

Okay, find an unmarried man, don't want a second-married man, and go on. Everything has a cause and effect, and it will not come out of nowhere. Isn't it too obvious, your boyfriend is not true to you and hides a lot, and besides, he is also a problem family, and there will be a lot of problems exposed when you combine in the future.

It's better to find an unmarried man who suits you.

First, the mobile phone should be because you don't want to disturb the time with you Second, even if he takes the child to see his ex-wife, you have to understand, after all, there is a relationship, after all, the child will still miss his mother Third, don't doubt your boyfriend and that woman Because even friends should be comforted when friends are left behind, there is no perfect person, so you can't make another person, and slowly in the heart of the other person, it's okay, you just need to make sure that he has you in his heart. Well, don't guess what's worse than ...

I'm also a woman, I recommend a book to you, I haven't finished reading it yet, but it feels good, "Women Don't Hate Status, Unstable Status", but the name hates a little.

He can give up on others, he can give up on you, but you can also choose to trust him.

Divorced men can't be trusted, that's all I can say.

He regards you as his most trustworthy person, so he is unscrupulous and open-mouthed in front of you!! He is a person with this kind of character, don't be angry!

Look at everyone he sees talking like this, or is he right here with you? Actually, it's not a big deal to say this, and I've been discussing these exciting topics with my roommates every night since I was in school!

But when we leave the dormitory, we are decent gentlemen!

It may also be that he has something to do recently, and he is in a depressed mood and wants to relax and relax, so he just says something to provoke him!

In short, there is no problem for people who say this kind of thing, and they should rise to the height of character at every turn!

I'll be honest, among the men, the man who said this was the most popular!

Teach you a trick: The next time you talk about it, you say to your boyfriend: xx, do you think of me as a man?

So that he will stop in moderation!! Best wishes!

In fact, boys have a lustful heart, generally do not show it, I didn't expect this kind of man to say such things in front of his girlfriend, it seems that he is not a tasteful person, for the happiness of your life, I suggest you give up as soon as possible, long pain is better than short pain, go find a better man to take care of you!

Men always have more or less faults, maybe they just haven't found it themselves, so mention him more. This man has this problem, is it possible that there is no problem if he finds someone else?

If he likes you, he can do it. People have shortcomings, and there is no need to be so careful.

The two of them are always quarreling, what is the need to be together, he refuses to change for you at all, he doesn't realize his excesses, and he doesn't care about your feelings at all, and the man who doesn't care about your feelings doesn't deserve you at all.

This kind of man is not worth our woman for her like this, big sister, let it go, this is also the best way!

I'm dizzy, and your boyfriend is terrible.

You have to think carefully about whether you want to continue dating him in the future?! Marriage.

Haha, there's no way to pull it, why don't you know who he is and stay with him? Alas, that kind of man is also the most hated.

It's okay if the essence is good, what's the use of being good for you if the essence is bad!!

Think about what you love about him.

None of these factors are important.

If you can't bear it anymore, you don't have to be nostalgic.

I think there should be no problem with age, as long as you like each other, you can socialize, as long as he is interested, you can be honest with your parents, and together you will influence your parents, and your parents will accept you, and some of the concepts and ways of doing things are similar to each other, better.

He is six years older than you, in fact, it is not too much different, it is not easy to find someone you really like, and you will regret missing some things, so you have to follow your heart, do you want to think about whether such a boy will accompany you through your life? ?

A self-motivated man is a good man! He should also have a sense of responsibility! As long as two people truly love each other, everything else is not a problem! Worth. Wishing you happiness!

Look at how you feel about him, now it is said that as long as two people want to love, age is not a problem, if you like it, your parents will not object!

As long as the two agree to agree, the other party's conditions are good, it is a potential stock, and you are married and not your parents, relatives and friends are married, you are happy enough......

It's a lifelong thing for two people to be together, and every day after that, when you wake up in the morning, the person who sleeps next to you, what is the feeling in your heart at this time, you should know whether you should be together or not.

Or I'll chase you too, I'm only 3 or 4 years older than you, so my parents won't object.

Like-minded, age is not a problem, bless you!

Happiness is about a lifetime! If you are with someone you don't love, even if you live like a king every day, you won't feel happy! Since you love each other with that girl, you can choose to be ruthless once and be with the person you love!

Such tragedies are happening every day, so wait and go.

At the age of 23, it should be a man who works hard and develops his own career.

It is normal for a woman to worry about her husband's daily life and diet, if a woman has to worry about her husband's career and future, then she is destined to work hard for the rest of her life.

Choose your husband, if you want to be materially satisfied, just find a rich man, if you want to have real love between marriages, although it doesn't have to be very rich, but at least this man is willing to work, willing to work hard for the family, only willing to work hard, then two people work hard to build a home, is happy.

Hurry up and divide it, the long pain is better than the short pain, my aunt is having a very bad time now, just because she found a husband who is not motivated, often gambles and plays cards outside, and when she loses, she says that she is cunning, cheats the family's money, and plays to death if she doesn't give it. When I was young, I fell in love with my uncle-in-law who was very chic and handsome, and got married without thinking much about anything, and now it is too late to regret it, because it is difficult for couples to divorce once they have children, and even if they divorce, the impact on the children is very large, and it is irresponsible. A man can have nothing, but he must be self-motivated, and if he is not motivated, he will definitely have no sense of responsibility.

People say that men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man!! Think deeply!!

Those who are not motivated should give up as soon as possible.

Now I don't go in when I'm in love.

I don't know what it will become when it's dull in the future.

23 is still young. Divide it quickly... This kind of man does not need to hesitate.

Love, and this is that, his family should be rich, otherwise how could it be like this, pretending to be rich, his family has money, and he doesn't have money and doesn't live with this kind of person.

It's useless, my brother advises you to cut it off, this person just talks like a fart.

I suggest that you have the first one Many people and many things have passed for many years, but it is still worth recalling Feelings are slowly accumulating Look at your description of the second I don't think you are the kind of person who can pursue feelings Since you don't pursue feelings, then choose a relationship that stays together These years and the first one have experienced a lot There are a lot of memories I think you can't let go of Or you won't make a choice People are young Young feelings are bound to go through too many ups and downs Everyone will be at fault He will slowly mature Know the mistakes of the past Waiting Sometimes it's not a bad thing Besides, the process of waiting is also the process of management, give him a little confidence, and don't let all these years of feelings go to waste.

Strongly disagree with being in love with two people at the same time.

The worst outcome is that both of them leave you at the same time!!

Personally, I think the latter person is good

The country is easy to change, and the temperament is difficult to change, you should have heard this sentence.

Unless a man loves this woman very much.

Otherwise, it is unlikely that you will change the bad side of your personality.

Don't believe empty promises.

This shows that this boy is not yet mature, has not learned to be tolerant and considerate, even if you get married so early, there will be many problems in the marriage in the future, love should be from the heart, joyful, happy, and you and he are just the opposite, besides, this is just the performance of his school days.

What will he look like when he goes out into society and starts working, that's another story: immature people will always have a lot of problems, and they will bring a lot of problems to the people around them, and the latter one will be self-motivated, more mature, and more considerate.

These traits are the side that should be shown when facing a girlfriend, of course, you have to choose the person you really want in your heart, and as for hurting the past in these loves, it will always be light.

Breaking up with a generous party may be a temporary injury, but it will definitely not make him unable to live, but don't step on two boats, this is very bad.

Think about it, if your boyfriend faced you and another girl, and couldn't make a choice, and talked to both of them at the same time, would you be willing? It's just a disservice to the three of you, I hope you can be happy! Huh

Oh, it's a troublesome choice!

However, it may not be right to ask a bystander to make a choice for you! Once you love, you have to be responsible for each other!

Love is sacred, not a game.

I just want to say that your first love is slowly changing for you, which is a good sign, isn't it?

Give yourself some confidence, and give your first love a little confidence, because you have also been happy and happy in the frustrations of the past few years!

No matter which pair of lovers it is, there will be more or less contradictions, and there will be unhappiness!

So, think carefully about yourself and ask your heart!

I don't know how to share this trouble with you, everyone's thinking is different!

So, friend, you have to grasp your own happiness!

Wishing happiness !

It's heart-wrenching. Which do you really love? People are emotional animals, don't you miss the old love? Are you willing to do it!?

If you really don't love it, you can consider it.

Everyone has feelings, and feelings can be cultivated. "It's really appropriate to talk about pulling after dating for a while, and you can consider it. "It's just that you're not in a relationship right now, do you understand?

You've all been around for a few years!

It is true that the classmate who chases you is more calm and considerate, and that kind of affection for you is slowly established.

If you don't have a good relationship with your current boyfriend, tell your ex-boyfriend that he's chasing you, but you want you to go on for the rest of your life. If the relationship is good, then wholeheartedly to him.

Tell your classmates that you have a boyfriend now, and you can't bear this relationship, if he really likes you, he won't care, on the contrary, he will like you more.

Remember: relationships are managed. Of course, it's all up to you, stay true to your innermost thoughts at all times.

It's really hard to tell you the exact answer right away, but you can give some personal ideas to reference.

The first man once gave you unhappiness and pain, and it depends on what kind of hurt this injury is.

If it is a betrayal, I advise you to think twice.

If a man is ruthless once, he may be ruthless a second time.

Would you rather be happy and sad yourself with his mood swings? Are you willing to say maybe you'll be angry at any time?

Generally speaking, if your new boyfriend has broken up with your girlfriend before, I would advise you not to choose him.

Heartless and indifferent people are genetic, and they will do the same to other women, and they will do the same to you.

The second man gives me the feeling that he is a caring man, if you are sure that he feels sorry for you, I suggest you observe for a long time whether he has a consistent attitude towards you, I personally feel that this will be a good gentle man.