My boyfriend s mother wants to see me, and my boyfriend doesn t have time, should I continue the rel

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not a good question to say, it depends on whether your boyfriend is sincere or not?

    Seeing your parents for such an important issue, he can hold it for a month, but I think he doesn't want you to see her parents, if you like your boyfriend very much, you can also go and see it yourself, there are many benefits to doing so

    First, after you have seen this, you can see from his family that he does not know about him, which is called a windfall.

    Second, after you have met, your boyfriend will know that if he is really busy, he will be happy to go to you, because he is too busy to take you there, but you go, it means that you are very caring;

    Third, you can also take a look at your mother-in-law in advance to see if you get along with her.

    Kill more than one stone. If you don't have a good impression of him, you can do it yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I didn't see it because of work, what's this?

    Do you think your boyfriend did it on purpose? Do you think your boyfriend actually doesn't want to?

    It's a bit of a tragedy if you think so.

    You can actually come to the house** and chat with her mother first, on the one hand, to explain the reason, and on the other hand, you can also chat and communicate.

    But your boyfriend's side still needs the two of you to deal with it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If that's the end, then it's over.

    You can't stand such trivial things, long pain is better than short pain, your love will capsize if there is a little wind and rain.

    Maybe he thinks that sooner or later he will be a family, why be so polite, maybe he thinks that you will be more communicative when you go alone.

    You don't think too much, it's not good for anyone to be too aggressive. Finally, I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you really like your boyfriend?

    He didn't take you to his mother because he was busy with overtime.

    It's not that he deliberately doesn't want to take you. You just want to end the relationship.

    If it's he doesn't want to take you there, I'll suggest you end it.

    But not now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He always procrastinates, and there are indeed some problems, so you can ask him directly, if you don't want you to see his family so soon

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yun: Don't you like him, why do you just find an excuse to break up, maybe you can't feel it yourself, ask your own heart

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I also think it's weird.

    Why do you want to introduce this relationship? Just because I can't see my future mother-in-law?

    Feelings are a matter of 2 people, and your mother-in-law has a ** explanation to explain it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This needs to see if he really loves you and whether you are important in his heart. He may have his difficulties working overtime, maybe he doesn't want to do it, maybe he is also helpless. The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I did it on my own.

    Because he didn't come back from work that day. Actually, I knew he wouldn't be home that day. I didn't want him to be embarrassed, so I went myself.

    Actually, it doesn't matter, what matters is your feelings.

    Don't be too blind in doing things, if you can't stand even a little test, this kind of love doesn't mean much.

    I wish you all happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is the end of this relationship, are you really in love? Funny.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you have to see if you understand him or not, and what is the weight of him in your heart?? Are you sure that's what you like?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This thing is going to break up, it's too child's play, what's wrong with the importance of adult work, just explain it to a **.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't doubt him, trust him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

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  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The relationship is between you and your boyfriend, you look at your boyfriend's attitude, is he willing to work hard with you, are you asking yourself, do you want to try to change your boyfriend's mother's opinion of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think the relationship should be stopped, after all, you're making friends with your boyfriend, not with his mother.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is not very easy for two people to go from knowing each other to falling in love, after all, you are going to live with your boyfriend for the rest of your life, so you can't stop the relationship because his mother doesn't seem to like you, and give his mother a chance to like you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, after all, you and your boyfriend are in a relationship, so the key is to see if you and your boyfriend are truly in love, and then try to be as good as possible to her mother.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, you can first find out why his mother doesn't like you, find out if the problem is you or his mother, and if you don't do anything wrong, and his mother hates you for some very unreasonable reasons, stop the relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think you should stop this relationship, because you fall in love with two people, and you can go and communicate with each other's mothers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You don't have to stop, after all, it's your boyfriend who will live with you for the rest of your life, not his mother.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If that's the case, I feel like you should stop the relationship. Because if you don't let your parents bless you, you won't be happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You shouldn't stop the relationship because you're in a relationship with your boyfriend, don't care too much about what his mother thinks of you, as long as your boyfriend likes you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If your mother-in-law dislikes you very much, if you get married in such a situation, you will definitely not be happy. But you said that there is no need for this relationship, I think it is also necessary, you must first work hard for your relationship! The main direction of the effort is to make your boyfriend's mother like you, and if you really can't do it, I don't think it's necessary.

    Your future mother-in-law has an opinion about you, and some people may say that you didn't live with your mother-in-law, you lived with your husband. But after all, your mother-in-law is a member of the family, and her personal emotions and personal performance will also affect the harmony of your family. You and your husband may be very affectionate at first, but because of your mother's opinion on you, you will be inexplicably angry in your heart, and then you will have resentment and lose your temper with your husband, which is inevitable.

    At first, your husband may be considerate of you, but after a long time, he will feel that you are as difficult as Xianglin's sister-in-law, and he will only dislike you very much, so the relationship between the two of you is unlikely to end well. Of course, if your husband is a person who is good at handling the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there may be a good outcome between you, but most men are not very able to balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it is recommended that you do not have too much hope.

    But here I would like to remind you to try to do your best when doing it, but you don't have to be wronged either. If the future mother-in-law is deliberately making things difficult for you, you must also have your own bottom line and not be too humble. If you are too humble, it will only make your mother-in-law look down on you even more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    My future mother-in-law dislikes me, and I want to find out why! If I can get rid of her dislike, I'll continue with my boyfriend! If my future mother-in-law keeps this attitude, I need to reconsider our relationship!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Definitely continue, feelings are a matter of two people, although others are also important, but the most important thing is that the two of us, it may be that the personalities are incompatible, but I will definitely make her satisfied, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and when we don't live together in the future, there will be no quarrels.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How much will be affected by the future mother-in-law, life may not be very happy, but if your husband can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will be well alleviated, so it depends on your boyfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's difficult, the two of you are happy, but it is recommended to live far away from your mother-in-law, so as to avoid frequent contact, I believe you will also be in a better mood, if it is too close or live together, it is me, I am not very good-tempered, and I may quarrel every day.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think this kind of thing still depends on the attitude of your boyfriend, if he is resolute in front of his mother and must marry you, his mother will definitely not be able to stop you from getting married, and you can also show yourself after marriage to make your mother like you, and you must have a correct mode of getting along.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, because this is your own emotional problem, you should still think about it yourself, if you encounter a problem between two people in the future that you can't solve, it's not too late to talk to your mother.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't do it for a short time, if you just got a boyfriend, don't tell your family, there will be a lot of things to explain after the breakup, and if it develops steadily for a long time, you can say it, and the family is also very happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, the two of them are just dating, if there is a problem with your boyfriend, you can make it clear to your mother at this time and let your mother give some advice.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In love, you don't need to explain it to your mother in detail. After this period of passionate love. He is also very good to you, and you can explain it to your mother in detail.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course you need to, because after all, the mother is a person from the past, and after getting a boyfriend, the mother should explain it clearly and let the mother make a reference.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If he is engaged in nuclear research and development, if he is in the Ministry of Aerospace to develop the mission of Shen X, then he may not be surprised for three or five years. But if he's working in a factory and in charge of a project for a for-profit company, he shouldn't be "all the time" out of time. There are two major things in life that you can't help but face:

    Birth and death. There are two major things in life that I want to think about the most and are the most worth faceting: starting a business and achieving success, getting married and having children.

    A man who only cares about his career and does not love his family is not necessarily a good man!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't even have time to see your parents, so I don't have time to pay attention to you if you have something to do, he's too selfish.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    At this point, your boyfriend hasn't seen your mother yet, it's not that he doesn't have time, but it's delayed! It's definitely not going to be good after marriage.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you don't go to see your parents and keep refusing, you definitely don't like you, or you are just his temporary. If the man who likes you doesn't want to see your parents early and get married! Think for yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If I were you, I would have had a big fight with my mother, why should she say that she will be divided, who does she think she is.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Break up with your boyfriend** in front of your mom and continue to develop in secret.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Communicate with your mother for the rest of your life, and tell you all the reasons you think

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You must meet your parents, and a marriage without the blessing of your parents is destined to be unhappy.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    He doesn't want to marry you, so he doesn't have time, understand?.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I think that no time is an excuse, if I love you, there will be time, because you are the most important person to him.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't have time to see your mom? Parted.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You can let him meet your parents, and it would be better to have more contact.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Your boyfriend just wants to you, so he just splits it up.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Why didn't he go to see it, time is not a reason. There should be a reason why your mother wants you to share.

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