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Maybe it's because she has always been friendly to you and has never thought of love, so she doesn't fit in, and she doesn't like you, all she wants is a faint friendship.

Top 10 symptoms of love impotence:

1. I don't know what love looks like, I don't know how to give feelings, and some don't even care, I only give money and material things to each other and think it's love. The copper stinking manifestation of love impotence.

Second, after the relationship is clear, when it is time to get married, it doesn't matter anything: the mind is full of practical problems: how to save money to buy a house and buy furniture.

How to meet the needs of parents, such as letting them hold their grandchildren or something. I don't know how to maintain the relationship of love, I won't keep it fresh, I won't let love sublimate, and when I catch it, I will stop work and go on strike. The inability of love to manifest itself inadequately.

3. I don't believe in love, even if I like someone, I still hug it.

Have a skeptical attitude, always keep negative examples in mind, especially those who have had a failure experience, always "engage in objects" when they have lingering palpitations, and keep a hand for themselves with scheming. Not only does it not trust love, but it doesn't even believe in feelings. A suspicious manifestation of love impotence.

Fourth, riding a donkey to find a horse, the so-called "conditions" of the other party occupy the first, even if you don't meet the conditions, first find someone to "love" and then say, halfway to find a better good at any time to "jump ship". A manifestation of irresponsible love incompetence.

Fifth, I don't know what I want at all, today I feel that the thin man is slim, and I think the fat man has meat, and my thoughts change back and forth, maybe I fall in love with the fat man, and I am reluctant to be thin. Of course, the end of this situation is that sooner or later, the fat and thin person will feel that he (she) is not a thing. I can't understand what I need, which refers to more objective conditions, such as hardware and software conditions, such as houses, cars, tickets, personality, temperament, family relationships, and family background.

Love is a manifestation of the lack of standards.

Sixth, like to be chased, but also by the favor of others, you must be self-centered, otherwise the other party is not enough love. Yes, I always give chocolate to eat, and if I change the gum one day, people will really stop doing it. I like to compare the past with the present, and I don't know how to make trade-offs and take the initiative, which is an indulgence in love.

This is a resignation to love, laissez-faire development, waiting for love, not love incompetence or lazy love. Love is a manifestation of incompetence in laziness.

Seventh, I care a lot about other people's opinions, and the words of cats and dogs are more important than my true feelings. Looking for a lover is based on the eyes of others, as long as you hear opposition, you will immediately examine each other, and then find fault and find fault with each other. Face is the first, and it must meet the needs of the public.

Other people's opinions have become the only criterion, whether love has no own opinions at all, and the impotence of love here is manifested in the inability to feel and experience love. That is, the manifestation of the impotence of love.

8. It's boring and boring, emotional things are dispensable, attention is elsewhere, and I don't know why I want to fall in love, it's almost the same whether I have love or not, and some even feel that it's better to be with a lover than to be with friends. This manifestation is a complete abandonment of love. It's not love and incompetence, it's the extermination master.

It is a symptom of outright love impotence. Love is impotent and does not pay attention to performance.

9. Nymphomaniac. Seeing a curious one, seeing a liking one, the attitude is very unserious, but I feel quite serious, and I am quite distressed about this. Love is impotent.

Children study hard, what do you want to do, mediocrity disturbs yourself.

There are two ways to do this:

First of all, you must know that sensitive people will always have an indescribable "good face", even if you know about it between the two of you, but as long as you hint at it, he will not chase you, for fear that you will look down on him, then you have to give him a friend-like care, but don't take special care of him, and don't have physical contact, beyond the boundaries of friends, so that he thinks there is still a chance, otherwise you will fall into the quagmire until you lose this friend. It can even develop to hold a grudge against you. (My thoughts are a bit extreme, but the birds are big, and there are all kinds of forests, so I have to think about it.)

But I still believe that there are many good people).

1. Hint to him that I also have a crush on you, but now our goal is to study hard and get admitted to university.

Second, recognize him as an elder brother, to show that I have no intention of developing in the direction of lovers, but we can still be good friends.

3. Don't give him too many opportunities to be alone. Even if you can't avoid it, try to bring a sister with you.

I hope it will be helpful to you, our suggestions to you are for reference only, and the specific depends on your grasp. I have a similar situation, but now we all get along well, when I go home from school, I will get together with them, and now I can see it when I am older, and I am very happy to play around. It's always a pleasure to have a friend!

Just use your studies as an excuse that you are about to enter the third year of high school, and tell her that if he really likes you, you will wait for you, and you will study hard together and talk about it in college. Since he just likes it, he doesn't have that much patience to wait for you, and maybe if he changes his mind in the process, that's his problem. Or tell him that you also have a crush on him, but you don't plan to fall in love in high school...

Since it's a classmate, it doesn't matter if you say it directly! Love doesn't happen once! He doesn't ignore you because of that, either!

Tell him that he is actually very handsome and that there will be many opportunities in the future.

Tell him that he's a good boy. Tell him that you do have a crush on him. But you're not sure if this love will be the love of a lifetime.

Then I agreed with him that I would study hard in the third year of high school, and also give each other a space to consider, if we still have that feeling of wanting to be together at that time, then it is better to be together. However, it is better not to deceive him under the pretext of studying, otherwise, it will hurt even more at that time.

You don't have to do anything, you've been doing things like a couple as friends, why bother with loving each other

It's not bad to have a friend like that, but once you cross that line, the relationship will completely deteriorate, and maybe you'll miss your current relationship in the future.

That's because she doesn't have confidence in her relationship, she should be in school at this age, you guys, it's normal for her to have no confidence, you can work hard to get into a school with her to enhance her confidence.

The main problem is that you don't give her a sense of security, you have to give her a suitable step, don't worry, you have to be reliable, you have to care about her, say less and do more, and after a while, when you have the opportunity to create a romantic atmosphere, it will be easy to get her.