How can we truly forget a person and live a good life?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget. A heartache ... In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past.

    Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime...

    That's love! Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss.

    Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ... Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

    I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person". Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner.

    Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

    When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, don't forget what you once had, cherish what you can't get, don't give up what belongs to you, keep what you have lost as a memory, life is like a one-way ticket with no return, every one is a live broadcast, grasp every performance, is the best cherish, the past of life, reminiscent, tears when sad, drunk when happy, will be valuable because of the pursuit, sunset is not the past of the years, the wind is not the fault of the woods, as long as you have loved and waited, the laughter in heaven is not a legend, No matter how beautiful the day is, if no one cares, it is also a pity. In the long years, we are all passers-by in a hurry, all the memories of the past may be a little melancholy, maybe some pain and sadness, whether the dream of life is a dream come true, or a yellow beam, we have to face, to stay unintentional. Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, a hurried life, lingering years, ebb and flow、、、 will always miss a lot of people and things, and will always leave a lot of reluctant memories in the bottom of my heart.

    There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

    There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing.

    Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.

    It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, I thought I could forget, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself, there is a feeling that I can only store with my heart, and some people and things can never be forgotten.

    Trouble, thanks!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love, how can you easily forget. Don't deliberately forget, because when you want to forget, it's when you often think about it, so when you remember, don't be in a hurry to forget, but tell yourself not to think about it anymore, after a long time, it will fade away, and it won't hurt so much, and gradually, you will find that you don't care so much It turns out that everything is a thing of the past For those of us who want to forget, maybe time is the most effective way to hurt Alas.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts, at least they have to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, forget it, it just takes a while to let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what to do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do, maybe it's easier to know than to do, but I can only say that no one can help you, only yourself, why practice yourself if you are ignored, maybe I am like you in the past, time can really change everything Learn to be strong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you want to forget him, it must be something sad that you have encountered. At this time, you have to vent the sadness and dissatisfaction in your heart through catharsis.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Are you bothered and unable to forget someone who is causing you a lot of pain, and the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget, here are good ways to help you forget.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you fall in love with another person, you will feel that the previous person is very ordinary, and you will even feel that the previous person is disgusting, why did you like this kind of person before

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are two ways to forget a person: one is time, and the other is a new love. If neither of these methods can make you forget someone, it can only mean that the time is not long enough, or the new love is not good enough.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Only enough time can forget a person, the best way to alleviate the pain caused by a little time is that you can fall in love with another person as soon as possible, of course, these are not easy, fall in love with another person right away, it is not easy to find, it is not easy to love, you will admit bad luck when you encounter such a thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, it is impossible to forget about a person's blackness, unless you have amnesia, take it as a good memory.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget. You don't have to deliberately forget about the other person, just dilute the feelings naturally.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can tell you that you can't forget it, and when you have this thought, your mind deepens the memory of this person again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Forget that you don't need it, and it becomes a memory after a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's only a matter of time before you want to forget someone or something.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Forgetting one or shaking someone will either take time, or they will need a new belt.

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