I found something sent by my husband s ex, and my husband hasn t opened it yet, should I open it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
56 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You shouldn't open it at this time, because these things aren't sent to you. It would be nice if your husband could open it in front of you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's best not to open it, because it's a respect, so it's better to open the gift with your husband at this time, so don't open it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think you should open it first, you can ask your husband to open what his ex sent in front of you, and you can take a look at it together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since the thing is sent to your husband, and your husband is not curious to hit him, then you should not be so curious to open his things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think you can actually open this question and read it, but this is sent to your husband, and you should respect him and yourself at the same time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What your husband's ex sent, you should also open to see what it is, and whether your husband and his ex are still in contact?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since it's your husband's thing, I don't think you should open it, and if your husband comes back, then there's no problem with you watching it together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, what's wrong with this, you and your husband's things are originally in the same family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you don't open it, respect your husband's privacy, he will thank you, if he can show you, he will show you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't have the right to open other people's things, things are directly given to your husband, how do you deal with your husband's love?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of book is best not to open because of your husband's privacy issues, otherwise your husband will have an opinion about you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, it is best for you not to hit Kai to avoid unnecessary suspicion from your husband and wife, which will have an impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you find something that your husband has come in front of you and your husband hasn't opened it yet, I think you can take a look, but you have to ask for his permission.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I found something sent by my husband's ex, and my husband hasn't opened it yet, should I open it?You shouldn't open it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What is it? Gifts? Still is**?

    It's infuriating to think about, but it's nothing!

    Maybe he just forgot about it, or maybe he didn't feel anything when he saw it.

    Just looking at it doesn't prove that there must be something!

    You can talk to him, don't question him.

    Listen to what he thinks.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Asked him in a joking tone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Does your husband still have feelings for his ex, are you two married?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Look at your relationship, if you have loved him, it's nothing, it should be comforted, if not, no one cares if you throw it away.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's normal for you to have this kind of thinking.

    If you want any girl, you will be jealous, but it's normal for him to do that! Dao he and his original girlfriend are always exclusive feelings, you should also know that feelings are not to say that you don't want to, he has told you the truth, indicating that he loves you, sometimes don't force people to a dead end, that will not be good for you in the future! Be relaxed and be considerate of him, then he will love you more!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's inevitable to feel uncomfortable, but you have to pay attention to the method, since you are married for a lifetime, don't hurt other women who are already impossible.

    Heart! Well, it doesn't matter if he keeps it, you can pretend you don't know! Since he will keep his ex-girlfriend's things, it means that this person is still more emotional, it is too difficult to find a person who is happy with each other in this life, he is good to you, some things will pass with one eye closed, after a long time, he knows that you can know about it, but every time you can not say anything, the man will feel guilty, even if he doesn't throw things away, he will try not to carry it with him!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Already married? So what are you afraid of? Don't think about it, don't think about it, he's still thinking about her or something, if he really thinks about her, why would he marry you?

    If you keep thinking about something in your marriage, it will ruin your happiness! Women, if you want to open a little, don't mess with yourself anymore!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's valuable or memorable, let him keep it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Actually, it's not necessary, just love you. Believe in your own charisma.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It must be said that it depends on what the purpose of your marriage is, whether you achieve it or not, this is the most important thing.

    First, why do you get married, there is no emotion, the reason for marriage should be your goal, has it been achieved?

    Second, since he knows that he remarried and kept his ex, it shows that he values his feelings, but he is also a good person, but his feelings are bad?

    The third is that I have slept with my ex, is it abnormal? A normal man and woman have already slept on the day of their marriage or even before they got married, doesn't it, it means that he is a normal man and there is nothing.

    But if you think about the original intention yourself, you should know that these are facts at that time, not something that came later, and if you think about it clearly, you will naturally come to a conclusion.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Who hasn't ordered a story yet? Now that you have chosen, don't give up. Not necessarily divorced, but a better man loves you? Adults, be responsible for yourself and your family!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't like to get married, why do you do it for sex, a woman, a woman or a blind date, you are a good woman, you are a person, you are not a person, what do we let me do when you enter the profession? I don't have any people?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can get a divorce, or you can find a boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Still in some kind of relationship, right?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's how they used to live.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Is it a movie made with an ex, recall.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe that's what he was with her for in the first place, right?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This kind of man is just a green hat.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Find a way to leave a record, whether it's a screenshot or a video, and leave a piece of evidence. If nothing else, it's best to have no worries, and if something really happens, it will be evidence for future lawsuits. In addition, this is not a necessity to defend against others, but it is just a right for you women to protect yourself, if your husband asks you for this ** or screenshot, don't give it to him, it's best not to let him know.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's easy to do, send it to her husband, and her parents will pay homage together.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Of course you threw it, how to say that those things are more or less a memory, he is not easy to start, if you are not, when you are unhappy, you will remember her good, you are not good! It's a hassle to make comparisons often!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hello, if you can, keep it, some things are not as simple as what the eyes see, if you throw it, it may make him disgusted, let him throw it may be reluctant! So don't worry too much about it! After all, everyone has their own space, so leave him a little missing!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let him stay, you have to give the other party a piece of heaven, so that you can have a bigger piece of heaven.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In order to show your generosity, it is better to let him handle it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Let him throw it with his own hands, otherwise it will look like you are stingy.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The husband threw it himself, so as to show that he no longer had feelings for his ex.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let him throw it away himself, so that he knows that he is completely dead.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Ask him if he can put it away. It's best to keep it away. If he throws it away, he will do the same to you one day.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Use what you can use, put away what you can't use.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's all the same, it's not a big deal.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There are many ways to think about whether to continue or not to continue.

    Gifts are valuable, if your ex gives you a DSLR, gives you a car, or even gives you a suite. Would you say throw it away? Anyway, if it were me, even if I didn't have the slightest affection for my ex, I would keep these things.

    Because they all have a practical value other than feelings. Of course, in my case, I would try to give these things back to my ex after breaking up with him, and keep these valuable things if he doesn't want them.

    So, in this case, even if he has his ex's belongings, I won't break up, these things are still very useful for us.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You can communicate well first, see what kind of situation it is, if you are worried about the old relationship, then there is no need to continue.

    Keeping something from your ex is nothing more than a couple of situations:

    aRemembering old feelings.

    b is an honest man who misses the old.

    c has a unique aesthetic hobby.

    d are all of the above.

    According to my personal point of view, I think it is divided into situations, if the gift is more practical, there is no need to throw it, don't do anything with the money, but if it is the kind of: movie tickets, necklaces, ** and the like, if he really likes it, even if you throw it, you will not like it because you threw it, it will not help.

    I also asked my friends about this question, and there is a particularly interesting answer, if my object keeps the things of my ex, although I feel that the love is important, but I still plan to separate without looking back, so that he and she also keep my things to disgust the next object.

    So I think that the practical things are kept, and the people are next to you and the two people are not connected, and if you keep the commemorative meaning, you should consider yourself.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Actually, I don't really mind it personally, because my husband is actually a good person. Being a man and doing things will not drag mud and water, and the lotus root will be broken. But he would collect things that had a specific meaning, and many of them would be kept and collected from the time he went to school. Just a memory!

    This may be a nostalgia for the past, I like to preserve things, it is a kind of respect for the past life, since I have started a new life, it means that I have let go of the past.

    There is a concept in economics called sunk cost, for example, you spend 50 yuan to buy a ticket to watch a movie, and you watch it for half an hour, and you think this ** is very bad, so what do you do at this time is the best? Do you want to read it or leave right away to do something more meaningful, such as going to dinner or shopping? Many people think that since they have already spent money, they should read it and waste time to read it.

    No matter how you choose, you will have to suffer all the consequences of your choice. It may be a happy life, or it may be a shot in two, how to choose, please weigh the pros and cons, mature and naïve are often distinguished in an instant between rational and irrational, I hope my answer can help you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    When you get married, there's no need to worry about this kind of thing. Life is a piece of chicken feathers!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If you're married, let's keep together, but you can ask him why he keeps his ex's stuff at ordinary times.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    We're all married, so let's think about it again. If you just keep it and don't have any other ideas, you can just get by.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It depends on his attitude towards his ex's belongings, if he just thinks it's useful, then it doesn't matter, if he is very precious and cherished, then break up quickly.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you just keep your ex's things, there is nothing excessive, and there is no need to mind.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It depends on the person, communicate with him well, and see his attitude before making a decision.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    are all married, it's better to take it easy, but once you want to break up, you must not let him feel better.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    You have to ask the reason before deciding whether to continue or not.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    It mainly depends on the man's attitude, and it may just be forgotten and lost.

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