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I think it's possible that your upbringing environment has affected your sexuality, to put it bluntly, I think you're a 0, so you can talk to girls. You can be bold and brave enough to let go and love if you like it, it's no big deal.
Try to get in touch with people in this circle more, be brave, even if you can't be a lover, you can still be a friend.
Support you. I also want to tell you that homosexuality is not a disease, and you should not say that you have a problem or anything. That's just that we're in love with someone who happens to be the same gender as us.
You don't have low self-esteem either, there's nothing to be inferior to. Now that same-sex marriage is legal, what else is impossible.
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Seeing same-sex tension? Huh?
This one. There has been a bf before?Huh?
Is it not peace with your father? Huh?
How did you grow up as a child?
There are still many men in China, and there will inevitably be more contact and bumping, so it's good to find a girlfriend, let you GF protect you, and reduce the excess fear when you feel that you belong to someone.
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Looking at LZ's statement, it doesn't feel like gay
You like women, right?
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He or she just happens to be the same gender as you. When you get along with them, you must first learn to be respectful and tolerant, especially not to discriminate against people of the same sex who have affection for you, they also have the right to be loved and respected.
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In my opinion, the landlord may be transsexual. If you can talk to girls but not with boys, it shows that you are closer to girls psychologically and sexually, and you don't have the temperament of boys.
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In the final analysis, it is because of the living environment, you can try to understand the living environment, preferences, topics and so on of people of the same sex! It'll be fine slowly!
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It is possible that this person has found a lot of same-sex flashpoints and excellence in his life because there are many same-sex people around him, and he is inseparable from the same sex everywhere in his life.
It is possible that this person is completely accustomed to the usual petty fights because there are many people of the same sex around him, and because of the lack of the opposite sex, the desire for the opposite sex is stronger, so he chooses to jump out of this small environment dominated by the same sex. This man is straight in all ways. I think sexual orientation is never fixed, because it is a subjective thing, and it actually depends more on a person's self-perception.
In the above two paragraphs, sexual orientation is not the result of change, but rather the cause, the difference in behavior manifested by internal differences.
1. Give respect to homosexuals They don't want to be a different group, to correctly understand that most sexual orientation is determined by innate factors, just like the brain also has its own gender, they can't control themselves, and they can't change themselves, even if they don't want to do this, the brain's instructions are still the same, so when you find that the people around you are gay, don't stay away from them because they are special, give them respect, treat them with the right thoughts and eyes, because they haven't done anything wrong at all.
Second, more tolerant throughout the society, the gay group still occupies a minority, and because of this, they are easy to feel inferior because of their differences, afraid that their differences will be looked at by others, in fact, when they find that their sexual orientation is different from others, their hearts may be panicked or afraid, therefore, in getting along with people, they often hide themselves, disguised as normal people, and over time, one day they are found to be homosexual, It is often difficult for others to accept, and they will feel more lonely and stuffy, so when they find that the people around them are gay, give them more tolerance and give them more peace of mind, so that everyone can get along more comfortably and better together.
3. Don't discriminate against homosexuality Although homosexuality is the existence of a small number of people, they have not done anything harmful to society, they can not accept or disagree, but they cannot discriminate against this group because of their own subjective ideas, don't always criticize others with the face of a saint, understand that no one has the right to arbitrarily evaluate others, they are just different from everyone else in terms of sexual orientation, and this is not the right they can choose, so when they find that the people around them are homosexual, give them the same visionDon't embarrass them at work, don't discriminate against them in life, and let them enjoy the same rights as us.
Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, and they can't be selfishly deprived just because the other person is gay, whether this person is your relative or a stranger, please keep a kind and normal heart to treat, because homosexuals are just ordinary people, just like us.
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