How did you become the most hated person you ve ever been?

Not yet. There have been people I hate the most. I think it was when I was in elementary school, and my family and my aunt's family were very good at that time, and we used to get together for dinner.

And then over time, my aunt and my dad had some intimate contact. It can be said that a woman's intuition is very sensitive, and my mother noticed it, and then my mother looked for evidence, during the Chinese New Year, I went to a relative's house with my mother to pay New Year's greetings, and my father didn't go at home, this time my mother asked others to help pay attention, and sure enough, my mother guessed correctly. After that, my parents quarreled a lot of times, and all the tools were used, benches, knives, and I was still young at that time.

But I remember the scene of their fight, I was crying under the covers, and I couldn't do anything. Later, it was my grandmother and grandmother who persuaded me. My mom asked me who I wanted to go with if they got divorced, and I didn't say anything at the time, so I cried and hugged my mom and cried.

Mom also kept saying things like don't cry, don't cry. My sister is still very young and still has no memory. I have decided to get a divorce, but later I changed my mind and did not leave.

I didn't know until I was in high school that my mother didn't leave the house because of me and my sister. Actually, my father is not bad, my father loves me and my sister very much, but my grandmother doesn't like daughters and likes boys, but my mother gave birth to two daughters. Grandma would say something about my dad.

Since then, I have hated my aunt very much, and when I see her, I never call her, I don't say hello, I don't mention her, I say, that kind of person. She died of cancer two years ago, but in fact, she was not so ruthless in her heart, but she felt a pity for her young life. After I went to college, I knew a lot of people, of course, I also met a man who had already worked, very mature, very stable, I liked my type, he was chasing me at the time, I didn't understand what was good about me, he liked me.

After being together for a while, I unexpectedly learned from his friend that he was married and had children. I was like a bolt from the blue, I really didn't know that I would be like this. Immediately cut off, I tore my face with him.

separated. I can't be the kind of person I hate, and even if I don't know it, such feelings can't continue. I don't envy Miss Zhao Si's feelings, but I won't sing praises for her, after all, it's better not to touch a married woman.

I've read a saying: If you've started doing something you hated before, you're ready to do anything bad. Of course, there are people I don't like or even hate, and some of their practices are very unpalatable to my appetite and make me sneer.

No matter how much I hated what they did, I still couldn't change the trajectory of their lives. Suppose some of them have already achieved something in some areas. So I have to wonder if my previous thinking was correct?

The more I think about what I do, the greater the achievements they achieve, and the more I will unconsciously move closer to them, but there is a bottom line to this closeness. I don't feel like I'm the one I hate, it's just that my perception has changed.

We think that we can definitely become a person who knows the world but is not sophisticated, but after being baptized by time and defeated by setbacks, our praise for others is not sincere, and our dislike for others will not be easily expressed, we are calm and gentle. I'm proud to say that I'm not the one I hate, on the contrary, I'm glad I'm so good now. If you don't want to be the person you used to hate, it's important to understand these truths.

No one will say that they hate it, and they never feel that they hate it, in ordinary life, there will occasionally be other thoughts, but when you calm down and think about it, you will tell yourself that it is not good to do there, and you will often ask yourself, what things should be done or what should not be done, kindness is my nature.

Life teaches us to live, maybe you are used to seeing the world is cold, people are weak, you feel that the fate is unfair, the society is cruel, and the feelings are not smooth, the life in front of you makes you feel that you seem to have been numb and have no temperature, but in fact, when we don't pay attention, there is always an unexpected beauty, which hits the softness of the heart. True upbringing has nothing to do with wealth, life is already so difficult, it is better for us to treat each other with kindness.

I'm like this now, I used to look down on the grassroots people when I was in the scenery, I used to rent a room now and I would jump away with a look of contempt, I would cover my nose when I used to do things in the workshop environment, I used to go to the supermarket and never look at **, now I have to shop around, and it has also caused incompatibility with the current person, woo too many things I hated before became me now, it's really better than death.

In front of the person you hate the most, you have to pretend to be your best friend, don't dare to say anything when you encounter something, and you will only bear everything silently. I really hate and hate me now, and I often wonder where that enthusiastic and lively me has gone.

Once, I was also a naïve girl, when I was in school, I always fantasized about what kind of person I would become when I went out of society, I wanted to do the work I liked to do, find a boy I liked to fall in love and then get married and have children, go back to work immediately after giving birth to a baby and maternity leave, and be able to study continuously during the work period, and take some certificates with gold content.

Life is like constantly carving yourself, although sometimes it will be very painful, but the gentleness of life is that there will always be someone who will appear to shelter you from the wind and rain, some people are wandering, but the heart is in heaven, although the clothes are shabby, but the heart is a pure land. Those who help others with their meager efforts will definitely be treated gently by the world! What do you think?

In reality, we often hear people sigh that when they reached the age of envy, they failed to become the person they were envied at the beginning. Just like Han Han's sentence:

I've heard a lot of truth since I was a child, but I still can't live this life well. You can only fight for your own life, and you can strive for your dreams. Life will not fail a heart that will never be discouraged.

At some point, I became what I didn't like.

Fickle, lazy, confused, decadent, knowing that this is the case, does not take it for granted.

Others say that there is nothing terrible in the world, as long as you put your mind to it, it will be solved; There are no great people in the world, it's just that people are better than you and work harder than you.

We all understand the truth, but we only know it.

They are all in their twenties, and there is no obscure truth anymore. We not only know the same philosophical sentences and words, but also often use them to admonish our friends, hoping that our friends can understand and act. It's funny that friends often respond by saying something like, "I know everything, but ...

The subtext is that the body can't help itself, and it can't help itself.

I'm the annoying person I am now. I hate the way other people are decadent, just like I am now. I know that I need to make changes, but I don't change it, and my thoughts and actions fight every day, and the result is that I continue without results.

I like to be a full self, and I like to do everything delicately according to the schedule every day; Hate the trivial and boring, despise the vulgar and idle, muddy and nightmarish mess.

But during this time, I completely became the person I hated.

I know that only I can save myself, and the people who care about me are just rambling what I know again, and it is I who make changes with a sedan belt.

Sometimes I comfort myself, maybe I can't fall anymore, and when I can't bear it, it's time to turn around, but at this moment, Ge You is lying down, and it proves that this doesn't make any sense.

I'm always fighting against my inner demon, but I'm falling, and every time I fall into the wilderness, I run away.

I hate who I am now, and I hate the truths that everyone understands.

Maybe everyone will have such a period of depravity, but the time is just unlucky. No, you shouldn't dislike yourself, because that's who you really are.

Maybe everyone has such a stage, after all, no one is in a state of chicken blood every day, and the exhaustion period is also an inevitable state for us.

Since I understand the reason, of course I also know that I can't always look like this, moderate decadence, and then stop in moderation, this is the correct solution to occasional depravity.

I hate myself now, talking about Lu, so at this moment, I type these characters on the keyboard, just Fan Sun is to say goodbye to such a self.

I don't know when I became the person I used to hate.

I used to hate philistine people, and I thought they were too self-conscious.

Once, I hated people who were scheming, and I thought that people were too narrow-minded.

Once, I hated slick people, and I thought they were too snobbish.

But now, I'm a philistine and just want to make more money; I became calculating, thinking only about what I could do better; I became slick and just thought about keeping the bad things around me away.

So, I became the person I used to hate.

What made the innocent girl turn into a chattering and exhausted old mother?

What made the sunny and innocent teenager turn into a greasy uncle who was lazy at home and diligent outside?

Helpless, this is the reality!

How many people have been defeated by reality and lowered their arrogant heads?

How many people have to accept the unsatisfactory Ikuno Xiang stupid life?

How many people marry love but lose to reality?

No matter how strong your heart is, you can't escape the heavy punch of reality after all.

Perhaps, that's why it became what I used to hate.