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When many people do something, they think about it halfway through, and they can't accept it when they fail. Those who achieve great things know a truth - it is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to achieve things. Do your part, success is not forced, just go with the flow.
The past is not in love, the present is not mixed, and the future is not welcome. Do these three things, and success is not far from you.
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The words of "Zeng Guofan's Anthology, the Golden Needle of the World, and the Essentials of Self-cultivation": "When you read, you read, and your heart is not focused on seeing guests; When you see a guest, you see a guest, and your heart is not focused on reading. If you have it, you will be private.
There is no wisdom, things come to conform, the future is not welcome, there is no miscellaneous, and there is no love. Yes, it is just nothing, it is just sincerity, so as to read the three hexagrams of "Wu False", "Xian" and "Zhongfu". There are few people who cover the grid.
Reading record: "Zhou Yi Zhongfu" is Zeng Wenzheng's feeling when he reads "Zhou Yi", which means that he lives in the present and truly lives in the present. When doing things, it is enough to focus on the things themselves, not to worry about the uncertainty of the future, not to immerse themselves in the pain of the past, and not to be bound by the current external environment, and to do what they should do according to their own will at the moment.
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A depiction of the mentality of being a person, what is said: I no longer have nostalgia for the past that has passed, and I don't care about the high achievements in my heart; I'm living in the moment, and I'm not cranky; No matter how beautiful the future is, I will not deliberately welcome it, after all, who can say what will happen in the future? What a beautiful attitude to behave in, and I should be on par with this standard!
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Let me share an example of my own: a few days ago, my boss asked me to help him change the document, that is, to adjust the order of words and sentences and inappropriate expressions, and to correct and supplement the professional content. I didn't take it too seriously at first, and I started working.
The document is about 15 pages, and I didn't feel at ease after I changed two pages. On the one hand, I wonder if there are too many places to adjust and modify by myself, which will make it seem that the leader's previous writing is not level, and the leader will be unhappy; On the other hand, if I change less, will I not be able to reflect my professional ability and serious attitude towards work? I began to struggle and contradict, I couldn't grasp this degree, I began to be bound and kidnapped by the current interpersonal relationships, and entered the chaotic state of mind at that time.
Later, I calmed down and thought of the mentality and attitude of "the future is not welcome, the time is not mixed, and the past is not in love", and then I began to do things with peace of mind, and I carefully modified it according to my ability level, and the attitude of others did not affect my objective work. The result is also good, every part of my change is reasonable, meticulous and unpretentious, and the leaders are relatively satisfied.
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To understand this passage, one needs to have a certain understanding of Confucianism and Yangming Xinxue. Yang Ming Xinxue, in a word, is to conscience. Conscience, Yang Ming compares it to a mirror, the mirror has the characteristics of flat, bright, quiet and clean, flat is flat, bright is bright, static is not shaking, net is clean.
To conscience asks us to correspond to all things, as if we were in the bright realm, to reflect them. According to the rules, the original appearance of the restored thing is free of impurities, and what is is what it is. After the object, the Ming realm is still the Ming realm, there is no trace of it, the thing does not come, the Ming realm is still the Ming realm, and there is no sign of it.
This is what Zeng Gong said: things come to conform, the future is not welcome, the present is not mixed, and the past is not in love.
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Focus on the things at hand wholeheartedly, the future is not equal to the present, the past is not equal to the present, only the present, it is the present, only the present can change the future, do not travel to the past and the future, focus on the present, people are not as good as machines, machines, will calculate the winning rate of the current conditions, people are not, people will have emotions, some emotions are made by themselves, knowing is knowing, knowing all, and will not do it, with so many truths, it is still not good to live this life.
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Zeng Guofan's purpose of being a man is "don't ask about harvest, but ask about hard work", which is exactly the portrayal of his heart. He admonished his children to concentrate on what they were doing and not to think about how much they could get out of it. As long as you do your best, there is nothing to regret even if you fail in the end.
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This is an objective understanding of the development of things, not passively bearing, but actively adapting. If you are not in a right virtuous circle now, the future is very good for you. At that time, it was not complicated, but this situation was too difficult for me, and it was a matter of one's ability to deal with the current problem well, and it had to go through cultivation and comprehension.
If you don't fall in love, don't be embarrassed when it's over, it's the same for everyone.
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Zeng Guofan said that the future is not welcome, at that time is not mixed, the past is not remembered, this argument is Zeng Guofan's attitude towards life, he warned the world, the future is full of variables, do not need to cater too much, now is experiencing things do not always think about the after, too complicated processing, Zhenqiao and for the things that have passed before, do not always miss, to learn to let go. <>
First of all, we must correctly understand this sentence, this sentence is from the mouth of Zeng Guofan, and it is also Zeng Guofan's life experience and experience. This sentence is very reasonable, and it has a certain enlightening effect on life. If this sentence is simply understood, it has the meaning of living in the present.
But if you understand it thoroughly, it is also a different taste, so let's break this sentence apart and analyze it briefly. <>
The future is not welcome. Contemporary social life is very fast-paced, and full of unknowns, never know what will happen tomorrow, so some people are full of confusion about the future, and some people are afraid that one day in the future you will encounter something that you can't solve, or something unexpected will happen, so you live in fear every day, and every day is full of pressure. There are also people who have unrealistic fantasies about the future, but most of the time, these fantasies will have some impact on the existing life, so we don't have to be too attached to what will not happen in the future.
It's not mixed at the moment. This sentence is to let us learn to deal with the current matter cleanly and not disorganized. Some people are very entangled in the face of the current choice, do not know what to do, always think about it, can't make up their minds, this is a bad phenomenon, the current life must be simple, clean, happy.
I didn't love in the past. This sentence is to warn us that for what has happened in the past, don't forget it, especially some bad memories or things that make you regret it, the road of life is very long, we must look forward, if we have been living in the past, then, the whole life will be a failure.
Set a goal for yourself, such as: how many pounds to lose weight, how many points to get in the exam, what level of the project to achieve, what rewards there are after reaching the goal, and then remind yourself to work hard for this goal at any time, and you can naturally manage yourself, so as to achieve the effect of self-discipline.
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This needs years, needs to have a high level of emotional intelligence, these words are not simple, but it is difficult to do, for example, you can understand a person's appearance and not through simple things, be able to recognize facts and right and wrong, never act blindly, in fact, it is a truth to people and things, this really needs experience, if you have the heart, you can buy a few books to understand more, such as human nature, personality charm and the like, cumulative experience.
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