Why do many people say that a good man has no good wife ?

This is often mentioned in our rural areas, and the old people or middle-aged aunts in the village will start to talk about this and that, and sometimes whose son is married, they will also mention it. Then everyone said how good this young man looked, and he couldn't marry a wife. In fact, the implication is that people have no financial strength and fail to ask a wife with outstanding appearance to go home.

This phenomenon is relatively common in rural areas, especially in my father's generation, many of his peers are good-looking, but the wives around him are mediocre. The key reason is that the economic conditions of the meeting are not good, many families have five or six children, and the parents simply do not have so much money to help each son marry a fancy wife.

In order to be able to marry a wife when he reaches marriageable age and not be laughed at by others, as long as someone is willing to follow him, he agrees to marry and start a family together. I think this is also the case for families in poor areas today.

As a person with a lot of superior economic conditions now, in fact, there are many such situations, a good-looking man marries a woman who does not match his appearance and goes home. There are some reasons that we as outsiders can't know, but most of them are because two people live together very well, so men are willing to marry such a wife.

There are generally very handsome men, with pride in their bones, and feel that they should be worshiped by women, but women with the same outstanding appearance will not willingly worship a man who only looks good, what they need is to exchange power and status for their beauty, so good-looking women have found rich and powerful men, while women who have no appearance advantage have married good-looking men.

Because God is fair, some handsome guys are very handsome and look very eye-catching, anyway, the family conditions are not bad, but the daughter-in-law they marry is not good-looking, and I don't know what other handsome guys think, so some words are said like this.

It is indeed "a good man has no good wife, and a good wife has no good man".

As the saying goes, "A good man has no good wife, Lai Han occupies the flower branch" Those good men who are honest and honest have good looks, height, and a high monthly salary, a car and a house. Such a man can be said to be the perfect prince charming in the hearts of all women. But what is surprising is that often such a perfect man marries a shrew with a tricky personality, and such a woman often thinks that she is amazing, and thinks that she married such a man because the man has vision and feels that he is particularly attractive.

Every day at sunrise and sunset, working hard, she lives a good life at home with a husband and children, and everyone envies her. I always complain about how rough my life is and how miserable I am at home. When men are silent about her, she always feels that men are afraid of him and are complacent.

In his heart, a man should be so obedient to her.

And those who are lazy and lazy all day long with nothing often marry a good wife. It is said that men are not bad, but women are not loved, which is indeed the truth. A man who is too dull and too serious, even if he is honest, women will look down on him.

I feel that it is too boring to be with such a man, and there is no topic to talk about at all. And those ruffian men will always win the hearts of girls, because they can coax girls and say sweet words, although they are very bad, but they are also bad and cute. So women, they like such men very much, you think they are humorous and funny.

This kind of man always attracts bees and butterflies, and he has many women, but there will still be good women who are willing to marry him. And after marrying him, no matter how excessive he is after marriage, he will always show a professional appearance in front of his wife. No matter where they go, they are always in and out of pairs, and the girls obey him.

The world is so unfair, there are few things that are so unmatched. It's always a good one and a bad one, so that it goes together. A good man often meets a bad woman, and a good woman often meets a bad man.

In the eyes of others, they are so incorrect, but as long as they are happy. Perhaps it is this way that they complement each other. Let this relationship become more and more perfect.

Maybe those good men don't care what the shrews think of him, because they like this kind of shrew very much, she is very cute and willful, but it is their lifelong companionship. There may be many shortcomings, but they are all a kind of happiness in his eyes. Maybe a bad man is really bad, but a good woman will always tolerate her and give her time to change.

When he makes a mistake, the woman will give him a chance to correct it. It won't go on forever, and if it goes on like this, bad men will change themselves because of women's tolerance, so that they can regain their singleness to her.

But no matter how much they don't board, yes, it's their own choice, and I believe they will live a better and better life.

A good man has no good wife. Violent lazy wife.

The next sentence of "a good man has no good wife" is "Lai Han marries flowers."

bai branches".

A good man has no good wife, zhi Lai Han marries a flower branch" is a dao saying that has been passed down through the ages, which means that good men often can't marry a beautiful daughter-in-law, and those who are clever can marry the so-called "flower branches".

Although this sentence has no theoretical basis, it is very accurate in real life. In fact, Raihan's courtship method is indeed much more effective than that of a good man. The characteristics of Raihan are:

Thick-skinned, bold, good at lying, not too morally constrained, flamboyant, irresponsible. And these characteristics hit precisely the soft underbelly of women. Assuming that a good man with similar hardware conditions and Lai Han meet the same woman, Lai Han's lethality is n times stronger.

First of all, the probability of a good man's shot is much smaller, because a good man considers the issue of responsibility before starting to pursue, so he will not chase if he is not completely sure, he can't chase if the conditions are not mature, he can't chase if he already has a boyfriend, and he can't chase if he is not optimistic about his future prospects, and there are many restrictions. And Lai Man didn't plan to be responsible anyway, as long as the other party was a little bit of a gesture or within reach, he would chase after him first.

Therefore, we often see many excellent men who have successful careers and good looks and temperament, and their wives are often ordinary, which is also because excellent men pay more attention to each other's appearance but inner cultivation.

This also tells us: we can't look at the surface of everything, the wife of a hero does not like publicity, she is the strong backing behind success, and she is silently dedicated; And Lai Han often uses a beautiful wife who has obtained flowers and branches to swagger, but in the end, everything is difficult to achieve.

That is, the wife is strong and the husband is weak, and the husband is not as good as the wife.

Or think that their marriage is not a good match, and think that it means flowers inserted in cow dung!

A good man has no good wife. The same electric dismantling is different from the electric suction. In line with the law of the next generation of intelligence. God is not wrong with the arrangement. Brother Cheng really has no friends.

A good man has no good wife. A good wife has no good man.

But this sentence may not be suitable for everyone, I will find a good wife who is talented and beautiful!

I? Together!?! This is it!

The reason is simple:

The quality of a man is what you evaluate, and the quality of his wife is also evaluated by you, you are not him, you don't know what a good wife is like in his heart, he is considered a good man, and what everyone thinks is a good woman is not necessarily in his eyes. A good man doesn't have a good wife, it's completely someone else's idea, if he is really a good man, he definitely thinks that his wife is a good wife, so in his eyes his wife is perfect.

As for the bad guy marrying a wife, on the contrary, the reasoning is that maybe you think it's a wife, but there may actually be a lot of shortcomings that you don't know, so basically they are right, maybe the bad man's personality is not as good as the wife, but it may be better than the other party in other aspects.

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