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Of course not, the best way is to communicate effectively. At least in many cases, you need to express your thoughts to the other person so that the other person can understand your true intentions, otherwise it is easy to misunderstand because you are silent.
In real life, in addition to choosing to be silent and ignore the other party when facing a quarrel, this is one of the effective ways to stop the argument, and in other cases, the consequences of silence will have a great impact.
Take common examples in life to illustrate that the reason why the relationship between some couples has weakened is because they have accumulated a lot of dissatisfaction with each other in their hearts in the process of life. But because they are all their closest people, they choose to deal with each other's grievances with patience. Patience and tolerance are two different things, tolerance is the sincere acceptance, and patience is the temporary disregard for the other person.
I have a cat at home, and my husband likes to like it, but he is afraid of getting dirty. But I can't put it down and always want to sleep with it. My husband has repeatedly warned me to let me put the cat outside to raise, but I am too lazy to take care of him, I think there is nothing wrong with my love for small animals, and he should understand me as a husband.
Later, the cat inadvertently ran to his clothes to pee, and when he saw it, he got angry and yelled at me, releasing all the anger that had been held in his heart before, and scolding it was quite ugly. After that, my mother-in-law came to persuade me and asked me why I had to keep the cat in the house, I said that there was no one to accompany me during the day, I only had to be a companion with the cat, and gradually I regarded the cat as my own child, and I felt that I would feel at ease only when I held it to sleep at night.
After that, my husband also understood my thoughts, but at the same time asked me not to put the cat in the quilt and let it sleep in the corner of the kang, so we no longer had conflicts about the cat. So many times, you must speak out and explain each other's thoughts clearly, if you blindly think in your heart, maybe the other party receives the wrong signal. In the face of many big and small things in the life of couples, good communication is the best way to solve them.
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For me, I don't think so. Because there are many times when you don't know how, but it's actually hurtful for you to be silent. Because the other party asks you, they may be looking forward to your answer, but as soon as you are silent, the other party will be a little disappointed.
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It should be regarded as a person, some people are reluctant to say the answer, he will choose to use a silent way to come to you, if you ask him anything, he is silent, it means that she has made a decision in her heart.
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This dry jargon comes from the famous English writer William Shakespeare: "Silence is the best." ”
This quote reminds us that sometimes it's best to be silent because it allows us to think better and not be swayed by emotions. Silence also allows us to better understand the other person's point of view without being distracted by our own thoughts. Sometimes, silence can also help us express our thoughts better without being limited by the limitations of language.
In short, silence is the best, it allows us to think, understand and express our thoughts better.
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It's a banker's change.
In people's subconscious behavior, when most people are attacked, they will try to fight back immediately, even if it is a verbal battle.
For life, silence does not mean admitting defeat, but the best justification.
Language is a unique skill given to us human beings by Shangsanqintian, and it is human beings who have a unique language that has a tool for communication, and also makes our lives much easier.
But from another point of view, language is just a form of bearing, and there is a force that is more powerful than language, and this power is called silence.
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This quote comes from the American writer Stanley Márquez, who wrote in "Black Kasanov" that "sometimes silence is the best answer." This implies that we should avoid unnecessary contradictions, and that silence may be more valuable than in a certain situation.
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Dear, silence is the best is what Confucius said.
The author of this sentence is Confucius, who was the great thinker, educator, and politician of Zheng Xunyuan in ancient China.
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This quote comes from the famous quote of the English writer Jane Austen: "Silence is the best." ”
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Silence is the best is a quote once said by the English writer Edward Somerset Maugham, who said: "Silence is the most powerful language, it can express the deepest thoughts most clearly and powerfully." "Silence can help us better understand ourselves and others, and it can also help us better control our emotions and express our thoughts better.
Silence can also help us think better, solve problems better, and grasp opportunities better. Therefore, silence is the best, it can help us deal with problems better and grasp opportunities better.
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I said that 95% of my assignments would not be posted on Moments. But even in the few assignments that were posted on Moments, I still felt that what I said was more wrong than right.
Sometimes I ask my respected teachers for their opinions, opinions, or questions, sometimes they give me analysis and answers, and sometimes they remain silent. A short silence may be that they are busy, but a long silence will make me think alertly. Because not all questions must be faced, and not all of them can be listened to.
Then let silence be the best, as much as you can understand.
I just read some of the texts, but I have to stand for a long time in front of those critical texts.
How many of my writings are meaningful?
It's not that a lot of people say it's good, it's good. Just like when you go to the national K song, how many SSS you can sing doesn't actually mean anything about you. You know whether you sing or not, you just don't know, you just know when you compare it with the original song.
Of course, this does not deny that some unknown singers sing better than the original.
Mao Ning's "The Sound of the Waves Remains" has reached the extreme, but "The Sound of the Waves Remains" is better than Mao Ning in the mouth of the wandering singer in Guangzhou! There's a sky outside the sky, you just don't know it.
There is another reason why I don't dare to post my text on my circle of friends, and that is that my circle of friends is not full of illiterate people. I'm afraid that someone will laugh at me.
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A wise man should not argue with a fool, and if a fool scolds you, and you can be silent and not, then you are far better than a fool.
In our lives, we often have arguments with others, and sometimes, even if we do not conflict with others on the surface, we are not at peace on the inside, and we still oppose others. When we are in opposition to others, it is actually ourselves who are hurt, and some people even suffer from illness because of this, which is not worth thinking about.
After reading what the Buddha said, we have to understand that sometimes there are things that don't need to be explained, let alone argued with people, and silence is the best.
This is also the last month of work, and this month of business travel has taught me to listen and be silent.
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In ancient times, primitive people were able to communicate with others through the roar of their throats and physical movements, and with the changes of the times, human beings have evolved step by step into the top of the food chain, because we have learned to think with our brains and learn to express our feelings with words.
Language is like Pandora's box, it can bring powerful power, but sometimes it can be like a sharp weapon that hurts people invisibly.
Some time ago, I went to an internship at a company and met Selina who was a student at the same time. When we first arrived, we didn't know anyone in the company well, so naturally we chatted.
Selina often complained to me about what she encountered in the office, and asked me, an intern who was only 10 steps away from her, to give me advice.
I agree with Selina's words, if you say too much, you will lose, this kind of office relationship, what you are afraid of is saying the wrong thing, even if it is an unintentional mistake, some people will remember.
In fact, Selina was silent in that group, I think it gave her the best test environment, just imagine, the group chatted hotly, but the intern couldn't interject, which really made Selina uncomfortable.
Sometimes, in a given situation, silence is not difficult to choose.
When others accuse me of unreasonable things, I will choose to remain silent, on the contrary, once I refute them, it will seem that their words have been confirmed, do I need to defend these people who are talking nonsense?
There are too many voices and opinions in this world, why bother to speak one by one, why not choose silence, there are many freedoms, and silence is reciprocated.
Silence is a kind of advanced art, and it is the highest state of communication.
Understand you, understand you, even if you talk for three days and three nights, it is better to be silent and have a look. If you don't say it, I'll understand.
The most sincere communication between people comes from the heart, nothing more than the word heart.
Fang Fang, who was in the same dormitory when he was in college, was once sad because of feelings and knots, and one afternoon, he cried while sitting alone, and I was left with another roommate in the dormitory at that time.
Fang Fang cried very sadly, it was the kind of crying without sound, this emotion was the most terrible, she couldn't vent, I didn't say anything with another classmate, and I didn't ask anything, one put a big bag of toilet paper over, and the other stood beside her, patted it gently, and then went back to their seats to continue to do our business.
I know that no matter how much she says at this time, she won't listen, and when she cries and is tired of crying, we go out to have a meal together, and she will naturally tell us what she wants to say.
To this day, I still remember what she said to us, "Thank you so much that day, for letting me know that I have you by my side at all times".
Silence is golden, and choosing the right time to be silent is worth a thousand words.
When you feel that the language is too pale, try not to say anything.
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