Why do I always care about the person I like, but he hurts me again and again

Baby, why be so impulsive?

Baby, no matter how much we love him, but, most importantly, does he love us?

Love, pain, and pass, you can end it now. Have to!

Don't look like a little pitiful person anymore, looking like you can't live without him. He knows you love him, and you don't have to remind him anymore.

Next, it's his business, he loves you, he has to be responsible for you, let you rely on. He doesn't love you, and he goes on with his life.

Perhaps, now his attitude is already the latter.

So, it's time to put an end to it, stop thinking about it, and think about what to eat tonight.

Do you understand? Baby, you've grown up, impulsive things, it's good this time, don't blame you, you can't be impulsive anymore when you face anything in the future, if you're still irrational, I'll laugh at you. We are adults, learn to be strong, brave, and chic!

Memories don't have to be deliberately forgotten, after all, they are our past, our own stories, our sweets and sorrows, and have nothing to do with others. It's good to be relieved.

Be confident that you will be happy!

There are many good men, if that man doesn't care about you, not even a word, a man who is rotten to this extent, what are you rare, hurry up and let him roll as far as he can.

The reason is simple: you like him, he doesn't like you.

Not all men are like this, I am also a man, but I know that many of them are like this, this kind of man will be reckless on impulse, and after impulsiveness, he will feel that he doesn't like others, so he will give up, because he doesn't really like it, so he is very ruthless and selfish.... I advise you to give up and look for a man who really likes you, for he is not worthy of your pain, I am sure you will find it....

It's obvious that he's playing with you, there are too many men like this now, so don't give yourself away easily, you have to protect yourself, girls still have to be reserved, unless you play by yourself, if you don't respect yourself, then who will respect you?

If you open a house, you think it is logical.

His attitude towards you is also human.

Pain, right? You can wake up after the pain!!

Wine is the medium of color!! It's easy to get this when you're drunk!!

If he has you psychologically, if you don't text or call, he may pester you every day!!

If it is the situation you are talking about, it is recommended that long pain is better than short pain. Let's end up with him!!

What do you want to do so much. There are many good men! Why do you have to care about him? He doesn't care about you anymore!!

Are you sure you know who he is when these things happen? Does he also explicitly tell you that he likes you? If not, why would you indulge yourself in things that you don't understand.

Not all men are like this, because you don't know if the other party cares about the other person as much as you do, so you lose your direction and let him do whatever he wants. Now you, let's find him and talk to him quickly.

His disappearance is not enough for you to see what kind of person he is?

Let me tell you, he is a person who has no sense of responsibility, a cowardly person, a person who does not know how to respect, and a person who plays life. But he was definitely not a man. What do you still miss about him?

Poor emotional tolerance, poor emotional processing ability, and empathy ability.

No, emotional strategy ability is not strong, etc., in the emotional world, there are many people who are avoidant personalities.

They are not scumbags, but they retreat in love, they often play hide-and-seek with you emotionally, and their purpose is not to hurt you, but to protect themselves. At this time, they refuse to be intimate, and when they encounter conflict, they choose to retreat. And people who choose to avoid and withdraw have one characteristic, and their biggest problem, that is, their emotional intelligence is not enough.

So why did they behave like this?

First of all, they have poor emotional tolerance. Every time you yell, they may get scared. Secondly, he also has poor emotional processing.

It's very common for you to talk too much and he doesn't say a word. Maybe they haven't reacted at this time, and they will give you back after a while. Therefore, this kind of person is not able to empathize, and he cannot realize what kind of pain the other person will have when he has an argument with his partner or does not speak.

In addition, their emotional strategy ability is not strong, you often think that he is very naïve, he thinks that as long as he hides, the other party's temper will naturally disappear after a while.

They are very afraid of conflict, afraid of trouble, and do not understand the pain of others. These are the spiritual journeys of the people who escape. If you want to continue associating with this kind of person, you need to see him as a wounded squirrel.

You have his favorite chestnut in your hand, but he doesn't dare to approach. At this time, you need to stay where you are for a long time so that the other person will feel safe enough.

Come get the chestnuts. Therefore, you should develop a corresponding avoidant personality.

When he's alone, he just wants to process the information you bring him. You should constantly release your sense of security and reduce the stress of his sensitivity to his surroundings. If you keep facing them straight, they will immediately go on the defensive.

You should keep your distance from her and tell him that it doesn't matter if you're alone, I won't interrupt his private world easily. Dare to impress him with your vulnerability and sincerity. If you encounter any emotional problems in your life, you can leave a comment in a private letter or comment, and I will solve it for you as soon as possible.

The person you like is always hurting yourself, which means that you care too much to be hurt. It is precisely because you care about the other party's every move, every word and deed will be easily defeated by the other party, if there is no bottom line, repeated hurt, this kind of person is better to leave, because he is not your dish, there is no need to spend too much energy for a person who doesn't care about you, only don't like it, don't care, no one can hurt themselves.

Because you like him and you care about him, many things he does will touch your heart, and you will feel that he has hurt you, and you will be very sad and very sad.

Because you're nothing to him, but you care too much about yourself, so if someone else doesn't do anything about it, you think it's nothing, and you feel that he hurts you.

Maybe it's because the other party doesn't care about this liking, so they do whatever they want.

Love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to understand even if you get together, so let's let everything go with the flow!

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. When you can't be together, you are lonely, you can listen to ** to relieve boredom.

The best solution is to keep a journal and keep your memories forever on paper. You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hands and let them pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life and feel the warmth of the sun!

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars!

Dear landlord.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Looking at your description, you should refer to Brother Yin is still young, and he has never experienced or seen many things, so he can't understand it, 1, people can like dozens, hundreds, tens of thousands of people in their lives, which has nothing to do with flowers, because this is human nature, only feasting.

2. You think he looks at you and likes you, so you like him. It's more normal. Don't you like what is good for you, like what is bad for you?

3. Don't be entangled, everyone will be possessive, and it is normal to be jealous.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ...

To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person The landlord listens to it when he is free.