There is someone who has been pursuing me, but I don t like him, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-06
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The easiest way is to directly say that you have a boyfriend; If you really don't have it and the other party knows that you don't have a boyfriend, and you really don't like him, then you should refuse directly, and you will generally retreat; If he's the stalker, you can tell your friends to let them "humiliate" him a little in front of you, and if you lose face in front of you, they won't dare to chase you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to show your attitude directly.

    You can say 1, you are not suitable for me.

    2. I'm not suitable for you.

    3. I won't be nice to you, don't waste time on me.

    4. I'm gay--- this is a killer feature, use it with caution.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't like it, don't care if he likes you.

    It's simple, don't make things too complicated.

    If you don't like it, just reject it, there's nothing wrong with it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't like it and I'm embarrassed to refuse it directly, right, in fact, many people will encounter such embarrassing problems, but in order to make the other party not uncomfortable, if you don't refuse, you will only make yourself uncomfortable, because you don't say it directly, the other party will feel that he still has a chance, and in the end he may bring trouble to himself, I hope you can handle this matter well, come on!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is not easy to find a person you love, it is happy to find someone who loves you, and it is even more difficult to find someone you love and love yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Reject him directly....I don't like it, even if it's together, it's very cupy...So refuse directly, but don't hurt people's self-esteem, let alone deceive!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, it depends on what kind of relationship you had before, if it is inevitable to meet, it must be better to be tactful, if it is not necessary to work together or something, just refuse. Generally speaking, you can't let the other party have too much reverie, otherwise you will misunderstand and do too drastic things.

    Show your love in front of him or his friends, let yourself live a fancy life, and wait for him to retreat.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tell him that you have a boyfriend and make him die.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Open the skylight and say bright words, implicitly, others think there is still a chance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's best to tell him directly. You don't like him. Don't be afraid to hurt him. Because if you stay with him because you can't bear him. It's even more cruel to him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just tell him that you'll never fall in love with him, just let him die.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do not talk to him and do not associate with him, and distance you from it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay to make it clear.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I am confessed by someone I don't like, I will decisively refuse, don't have the slightest hesitation and soft-heartedness, that will only make the other party feel that they still have a chance, and you still have room for further development. In a relationship, if you don't like the other person, you must explicitly refuse, don't make your relationship ambiguous, which will cause the other party to misunderstand. It hurts both the other party and yourself, and wastes each other's feelings and time.

    It's better to reject the other party immediately, but pay attention not to be too tough in your tone and give others a sense of discomfort.

    The person chasing you is right, liking you means that you are very good in his eyes. If you don't like him, that's your business, and the principle of rejecting him is: let him understand that you two are not suitable, and don't hurt others.

    Let's be honest, don't refuse tactfully, because I feel that long pain is better than short pain, and sometimes others still think about it. And if you suddenly meet someone you like and are with someone you like, it feels fake. If you have to be tactful, just tell him that although he is good, you don't think you are suitable to be together.

    If you don't like someone, you should refuse. Sometimes when you feel that you can't say no to the other person, you are often afraid of offending the other person, or it will cause the other person to dislike you. Because I am always used to getting strength and support from the other person, I also like to feel needed by others.

    You can gradually change yourself, try to rely on yourself as much as possible in life, the need for the outside is reduced, and it is easy to reject others. Think about why you don't like it. Sometimes you really hate that person, but you have to keep your emotions under control and try not to be angry.

    Think about the good side of the other person, and at the same time, think carefully about why you don't like it. Think about whether the reason is on you.

    There are always some reasons for not liking a person, and the reasons are even very complicated, but they are not enough for outsiders. It is wise to be able to endure anger and hide shame. If you really don't get along, treat it with a businesslike attitude.

    Try to avoid contact with that person alone and do not accept private appointments. The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory. If you feel that you and that person are not all the way, and your heart is not together, don't force yourself.

    You don't have to always pretend to be a good person, which is not only practicing yourself, but also being insincere to others. If the hated person can understand this, there will be no indiscriminate intentions, words and deeds.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Such a great opportunity, why not give it a try? A fate is placed in front of you, if you don't cherish it, isn't it a waste in vain, isn't it the greatest destruction to yourself!

    When a person wants to find a marriage partner to spend his life with, isn't it just to expect this person to be good to him? The only reason you don't like it right now is that you have a lot of fantasies. Most of these fantasies are unrealistic.

    There is a gap between fantasy and reality. If you understand this gap, you will know how to cherish the person in front of you.

    If you like someone, you have to be good at spotting their strengths and then try to get to know them. So go ahead and give it a try. If you don't try, how do you know if you like it and let go of your preconceived notions!

    If you really don't like someone, make it clear to them.

    If you want to get along with someone, then get along with him calmly.

    <> two people get along as equals and don't have a sense of disparity. Just because a person likes you doesn't mean he's worse than you, and you shouldn't have any sense of superiority. If you use other people's feelings as your bargaining chips, or even your bragging capital, then you really need to weigh your own character.

    So, there's no need to try!

    Ask yourself what your heart is thinking, and only you know what your heart is thinking. In fact, when you ask this question, you have already made your choice. It's just that you're still trying to find a little relief and excuse for yourself.

    This thing is especially like the legendary wilderness fire, hot and cold at the same time. The first thing you need to do is give it a try. If you don't have feelings for him, it's best not to try it, as it's a waste of time and can lead to deviations in the future.

    Besides, this kind of relationship is not something that can be tried, if you don't have him in your heart, then you will feel that it should be when you see his advantages, and if you see his shortcomings, you will feel very uncomfortable, this is because you are testing him with a tentative mood, so you feel uncomfortable, and you will consciously amplify it, and over time good things do not accumulate much, and negative things will accumulate more and more, and finally you have to separate. If you can put your mind right and treat it normally, it cannot be ruled out that there will be good results.

    So, if you're just in the mindset of giving it a try, it's best not to waste time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should make it clear to him about it, because if you don't like him, you can't enjoy his pursuit, and that's not right.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Reject the other person directly, because you don't like the other person at all, and you can't be with the other person, so you shouldn't waste the other person's feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell the other party to stop chasing yourself, you always hang a person, and it is easy for this person to do some radical behavior.

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