Why do you feel scared when you look directly into your eyes, and why don t you dare to look each ot

These ignorant and ignorant people upstairs have all withdrawn to self-confidence Are you all old and alive Don't believe the words of these illiterate people I will solve your doubts for the landlord.

The instinct of animals is to look each other in the eye is a provocative behavior, and angry people will stare at each other, and you will feel uncomfortable when you are stared at by strangers, so for a person who is not hostile, the subconscious will try to avoid looking directly This is everyone's instinct, and as for why they are afraid to look in the mirror, because people are self-conscious, they know that the person in the mirror is themselves, and self-awareness is subjective, but as a third-person perspective, the subconscious mind will also take the portrait in the mirror as someone else.

Illiteracy is not terrible What is terrible is that illiterate people have to pretend to be professors.

Of course, you will be afraid of an empty heart or always remembering things that upset you. If your heart is full, or if you think more about things that are above board, you won't be afraid.

Because there are infinite possibilities for people to feel uneasy when you look at them directly.

Because there is no self-knowledge.

Because there are many doubts, then go explore or go for it.

There are many reasons for lack of self-confidence, the family environment, and the ...... itself

An effective way to do this is by reading the right books or attending training.

Me too, so do I. I don't dare to look at anyone but my best friend.

It's nothing good or bad at all!

It's okay to keep your head down. It's also good to not be confident. As long as you can seize the opportunity, you don't need to be so confident. /

It may have something to do with your upbringing and environment.

You need to exercise, self-confidence is built up slowly, and then you won't be afraid.

You don't have a correct understanding of yourself, there are many such people, you have to know yourself correctly from all aspects, first of all, physiognomy...

It's because you're not confident enough, but it's not necessarily inferiority. You may have experienced many setbacks and become less confident. Try to think of it this way: I'm a successful person, I'm proud! Mindset is the key!

It's a sign that you like her.

But you lack a kind of confidence in yourself, you don't put your mindset right. If you can treat her as a general hot person, you have a good chance to catch up, but if you still have this mentality, you are likely to see her thrown into the arms of others. It's up to you.

Sometimes you will feel pressure unconsciously when you look at someone, and sometimes you will feel very uncomfortable.

I don't dare to look others in the eye and adjust slowly.

bai section should be on it, that is, sometimes when I see other people's eyes, there is a very conscious awareness of avoidance, but it is not good to be staring at others all the time, so it is better to be natural, sometimes I always feel that I am very twisted, but it is really nothing I may be the kind of acquaintance who is more kind,。。 Actually, I don't know what to say.

There are many reasons why you don't dare to look each other in the eye. First of all, the relationship. Is it you friends or all the people who don't dare to look at each other.

The first thing you have to do is calm down. People often have fear in their hearts. It's best to start by making eye contact with a friend.

I can't finish it all at once...

Low self-esteem....You can try self-hypnosis** Tell yourself every day that it's great, and the simple thing is to make yourself narcissistic.

Let me tell you about my situation.

I also never look people in the eye. And I felt nervous, or scared.

The reason should be that he was hurt by the environment before, and he has never had the external strength to heal the scars in his heart.

Yours could be something else.

Not daring to look directly into each other's eyes is just Orientals, especially Chinese, because ancient etiquette requires that looking directly into each other's eyes is not polite.

You must know that when speaking, if you deliberately don't look at the other person's eyes, it is impolite behavior, no matter in **.

You can close your eyes for a moment and think that this is just an ancient etiquette requirement, just like a gesture, you can't be doing it, right?

The reason is that you are too bai

In the focus of the straight du

Look at each other's actions. You say zhi

It's right, one heart can't be used twice, and few people can draw a circle in one hand and a square in the other. Allowing you to look into the other person's eyes is not for you to stare into the other person's eyes. I don't know if you have ever spoken on the podium, but if you have such experience, you will know that your eyes are indeed looking at the audience when you speak, but you are not deliberately focused on the action of looking down.

The people in the audience look at you as if you're looking at him, but you don't know who you're looking at. Your attention is focused on what you have to say, and if you can't concentrate on organizing your words, but are nervously worried about what the audience will think of you, your speech will fail. Looking directly at the other person and speaking is similar to a successful speech.

Don't focus on the action, don't focus on what the other person thinks of you, but on your own thinking.

There are two reasons why you dare not look others in the eye when you speak, the first of which may be because of your personality. Some people just don't like to look at other people's eyes when they talk back. There is another reason, that is, when she speaks, her heart is weak, and what he says is false, then he may not dare to look you in the eye when he speaks.

Sometimes I don't dare to go straight.

Bai looks at each other's eyes, nothing more than a sense of admiration for the other party or a comparison of the dao person who loves the other party. It is necessary to quit the right to dare not look directly.

The timidity of other people's eyes, first of all, you must look up to yourself, everyone is equal, only by putting yourself in a position that is neither humble nor arrogant, can you have normal contact with others. Otherwise, you will always feel inferior or unworthy of others.

Psychological problems. If it's a girl, and you're in puberty, I think I can answer you. On the one hand, I guess that you have always been the best among people when you were a child, but when you get bigger and bigger, and the living environment becomes more and more open, you will find that there are people who are not inferior to you or even surpass you.

At this time, you will feel a gap in your heart, feel uncomfortable, and feel that something has exceeded your predetermined date.

And when you find that the person who used to envy you a lot is no worse than you in many ways, or even a little more, you will begin to examine yourself. In fact, there are people outside the world, so you don't have to be disappointed, but you are too proud, you feel that you are getting worse and worse, and then you will automatically magnify the inferiority complex that everyone has in their hearts, and slowly find that you sometimes dare not look directly into the eyes of others.

But you know in your heart that you are excellent but you have been covered with dust, but the automatic reflection in your heart once gave you the imprint you originally put on yourself - inferiority. When you have low self-esteem, you don't dare to look into the eyes of others, or even at people who are far inferior to your own abilities. At the end of the day, you have to make the right evaluation of yourself, take a serious look at yourself, admit your shortcomings, and stick to your strengths.

On the other hand, high self-esteem may also be a reason for this kind of heart. You have a high desire to win and want to prove yourself, so you always want to see in the eyes of others the envy that you used to take for granted. However, when you find that someone is not looking at you that you are familiar with, you will be nervous and worry about whether he will like you or look down on you.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, and the eyes are not clear when there is something in the heart. I suggest that you let go of what others have said about you in the past, let go of your own arrogance, and don't want everyone to recognize you, or be too humble and let everyone be your friend. Everyone has their own criteria for judging things, as long as they do what they do, don't care too much about what others say.

You can also keep hinting to yourself that you are all human, there is nothing to be afraid of, if you get along, you will be together, and if you don't get along, you will say goodbye to you is the best. You can ask the question, which means that you are starting to look at him directly and believe that your future is wonderful!

Not daring to look directly in the eyes with others is a typical manifestation of low self-esteem. There is a need to increase self-confidence and inner energy.

1.You can do some self-empowerment exercises and write down one of your strengths every day and read it out loud. Write down one good thing you did every day. Increase the affirmation of yourself.

2.Three questions about inferiority:

Who should I play?

What exactly does this look like?

What do I need to do for this?

We don't need to play anyone, we have to be ourselves.

3.Learn to say no, refuse what you don't want to do, learn to take responsibility for the consequences, and take responsibility for yourself.

4.Learn to praise others, see the strengths of others, express them, promote communication, and learn to look at others from a better perspective.

Hopefully, the above answers can help you.

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Many people don't dare to look each other in the eye, in fact, you don't have to look into the eyes of others when talking to someone, which is very aggressive. The best thing to do is to look at other people's heads and speak.

It is rude to stare at each other's eyes all the time, but if you don't look at each other from beginning to end, this kind of conversation is also relatively inefficient, it is difficult to resonate, and it also seems that you are very unconfident, and your inferiority complex arises spontaneously, so that you become more confident, and strive to change yourself, when chatting with others, make appropriate eye contact with the other party, it is easier to obtain the approval of the other party, and improve the quality of the conversation.

Hello, based on the feelings and thoughts you described, I think it can be initially considered to be due to a strong cowardice, which is a personality defect that is closely related to your personal growth experience. Therefore, I suggest that you seek professional psychological counseling services in interpersonal and interpersonal communication that I provide for you, so that you can reconstruct your new beliefs in this area, so that you can further improve your personality traits, so that you can more effectively eliminate the psychological factors that cause you to have a strong cowardice psychology, so as to be more conducive to your normal interpersonal communication and mental state as soon as possible.

I think you have a certain social phobia, then take your time to overcome it, communicate with people more, and don't run away.

Don't look directly at people if you're afraid, and there's no rule to look others in the eye to speak.

Not confident, inferior, afraid to look directly at others.

Lack of self-confidence, lack of courage, lack of decision-making ability.

The fear of looking directly into the eyes of others may be due to the fact that people with social phobia experience avoidance and do not dare to look directly into the eyes of others because they have a significant and persistent fear of interacting with people in public places, fear of being looked at or negatively evaluated by others, fear of running away in front of others or being embarrassed.

It may also be due to a timid personality, a particularly shy personality, and little social interaction. Therefore, it is possible that you will not dare to look others in the eye.

Therefore, patients need to make positive adjustments, because this kind of social avoidance or social avoidance behavior will affect personal development, and you can go to the psychology department for some professional psychology**.

Looking directly into someone's eyes for a long time?? Oh my God, it's strange not to be short-sighted.

Some people say that it is polite and normal to look directly into other people's eyes?? Hell, deceitful.

Is it rude to stare at people? The one who hates stalking to people the most. It is particularly uncomfortable, especially for the opposite sex.

We usually talk while doing things, each has its own busy business, who has nothing to do to look at other people's eyes, and it is not that people's eyes are particularly beautiful, it really has the effect of "Xiaofang".

Or when you are free, you are drinking tea in a circle, and you are sitting in different directions, who really looks at each other's eyes, that is, when there is a topic of interest, you should say a few more words.

At most, look at the other person when greeting, make sure you don't get the wrong person, when the person calls you, just raise your head to indicate that you have begun to pay attention to others, and then, what to say, who is staring at the other person? It's too hard work, and it's not normal. We often just glance at each other's faces once in a while.

With a smile and then just say a little bit of yourself.

When the two chat, we often look at other places, such as walking, looking at the road, looking at the scenery, the important thing is the content of the conversation, not the form of the conversation, don't deliberately think about it, whether you are looking at other people's eyes, this really doesn't matter.

Usually talk and act soothingly, be yourself, and don't care about others. Everyone has their own way of behaving, and everyone can understand it. It will also slowly get used to acceptance.

Not daring to look directly into each other's eyes is just Orientals, especially Chinese, because ancient etiquette requires that it is rude to look directly into each other's eyes.

To a large extent, it is because of lack of self-confidence, and they all feel that they are inferior to each other from the bottom of their hearts, so they dare not look directly at others.

Probably because I am not confident, I am very inferior from the bottom of my heart, which will lead to not daring to look directly at what others think of me.

I'm like that sometimes, maybe you're shy and nervous enough to look at someone, or maybe you like that person. ‍‍

The heart is weak, maybe it's not confident, it's looks or something else, shyness, that's timidity, and he doesn't dare to look at the person he likes when he sees it.