I broke up with my girlfriend It s my first love, but I m very uncomfortable, what should I do?

There are a lot of questions ...... hereI really want to tell you about your experience.

Why did you break up with her, she also said that it may be that she doesn't want to delay her studies, which is one of them; Second, you said everything to follow her and treat her very well, but she still broke up with you, is she unwilling? In fact, many times it is like this, your contribution should not be too obvious, and it is easy to become natural and natural if you have more; There must also be a way to pay, the way you use may not be liked by others, or may not be accepted, but you feel that you don't deserve this result for your pay, so you are very uncomfortable, right? But from the fact that she said that she wants to be friends with you, it can be seen that she still has you in her heart, maybe she is insincere, maybe she is determined, maybe it is the pressure of her parents, she has to force herself to cut off the emotional connection with you.

As a man, you shouldn't suffer too much about gains and losses and small belly chicken intestines, you said that you don't contact her, there is no contact for more than ten days, and then people who have a heart for you will die, this is not right! Maybe you've lost the opportunity, hurry up and make up for it, if you really love her so much.

Think about it, people who fall in love for the first time don't have much experience, and both parties will inevitably have friction and psychological discomfort. You don't know how to win a girl's heart properly because you don't have the experience to do it, and many times you don't think you're particularly good for her, and she feels the same way. As for the discomfort, I think one may be that you are unwilling, and the other is that you really feel the pain caused by the loss of love.

It won't be said that there is no interest, after all, it is your first love, and it is normal to be touched. If you really still have her in your heart, try your best to make up for it. If you really can't do anything, don't force it, just go with the flow and want to open it, maybe you really love her, but face the reality, she may not be the most suitable for you, come on

Don't do that. Your thinking is not very mature, you haven't come out of the society yet, it's just a drag in the university, many colleges have been dragging out for four years, and the society has broken up for various reasons, the chance of college couples going to the end is very small, and after coming out of social work, you will know what the person you want to spend your life with is like, and you will understand it after experiencing it!

It's certain that it's uncomfortable now, after all, it's two people with feelings, but I think it's better to have a long pain than a short pain! Instead of getting back together now and waiting until you find out that it is not suitable after graduation to break up, it is better to let go now!

You can divert your attention, don't think about her all the time, or find a friend to travel, you can not only relax, but also increase your knowledge!

First love, generally will not have results, the existence of first love is mostly to lay the foundation for the future emotional road, with parents such a reason, it is obvious that I don't like you, do something else, divert your attention, or go to talk to other girls, it will be fine.

Your ex-girlfriend is also an adult, and adults should have their own thoughts, because if your parents are going to break up with you in a few words, this kind of relationship is not worth nostalgia, if she thinks you are important, how can she break up so easily. There are many solutions to things, she hasn't saved anything for your relationship at all, it's not worth it for you to feel sorry for her!

Find something to do, it won't be like this ... If you blindly immerse yourself in it, people will become more and more uncomfortable... She's very uncomfortable like this!She's said it like this, why are you still doing this?Interesting?

If she really loves you. I'll still be with you after graduation.

The reasons your girlfriend said for breaking up are all excuses, there must be something.

No way, the family atmosphere makes your girlfriend like this.

That's how this society is. People walk tea cool.

It'll be fine after a while.

Talk to a confidant of the opposite sex.

You can divert your attention, you can meet new friends, you can meet new people of the opposite sex, you can make yourself feel very uncomfortable, and you should not be immersed in such things all the time.

In the face of such a situation, you should improve your psychology, you should let yourself face your emotions with a better attitude, and you should also divert your attention and go out with friends. Talk to your family.

You need to shift your attention and start a new life, so that you can solve this problem and adjust your life status.

In six years, she has discovered that you have too many shortcomings (or problems that don't fit her), so if she dumps you, you must be irreparable.

After six years, you know that she is so decisive and resolute, which shows that you are indeed a big boss, and this is where you must reflect.

You can fix your shortcomings, but she doesn't know when you'll be able to fix them. In other words, you may have been taught again and again, and she has lost illusions about you.

In fact, a manly man, why don't you have a wife! If you can really change yourself and make yourself strong and rich, you will definitely be able to find someone better and more timely than her.

The vast majority of people in this world are treating, not getting, possessing, and having lost these three aspects, and have not grasped and understood clearly.

Regardless of family, friendship and love, any kind of social relationship, or life, work, family, career any kind of scene, will make mistakes, even low-level mistakes, of course, after the fact, it is often regret, this is also a lot of people want to buy regret medicine, the root of it, why this happens, the answer is, ask, because of the request, so there is an expectation of the result, just like a child wants to eat ice cream, if you can't eat it, it's like sitting on pins and needles, pestering adults to annoy adults, if you don't buy it, That is to become a mark of estrangement from parents, maybe a lifetime can not let go, this is a description that can not be obtained, get, eat a few bites feel that it is not delicious, just throw it away, this is called possession, after throwing it will look back a few times, if there is a feeling of loss, even some children will pick it up, this is lost, think through these three questions. Of course, there is no code of conduct, there is no norm of thought, everyone has their own rules and norms, of course, some people will say how easy it is, then think about the word willing, if the child is not pestered to ask for ice cream, then take a few more steps, maybe the parents buy him a cake or a beautiful toy.

She already knows that you are not the one she wants to stay together. This is not a denial of the past, but a loss of vision for the future. Be yourself, cherish this memory, and the future will be better.

I was dumped by my boyfriend who had been dating for seven years, I was sadly hospitalized for more than a month, lost 20 pounds, and suddenly really realized that sentence, who can live a chic life without this world.

If he doesn't have you in his heart and he doesn't love you, even if you're together, what's the point!! What would you do if you were facing someone you don't love? I guess it's the same as what he did!!

So, you don't have anything bad right now! You tell me?

To tell the truth, it is obvious that you were not together before this situation, but you were in unrequited love, but she didn't like you either, I suggest you let go, at this time it may hurt less to let go, so as not to make you feel more uncomfortable when she finds the other half in the future, and a state like you was at most a spare tire before, no one wants to accept this fact, but you have to face him.

It'll be fine after a while. Will find a better one. Don't be afraid.

You love her and she doesn't love you, this can't be forced. If you continue to dwell on it, it will not be good for you or her. This can only mean that you have no fate.

She's not the Snow White you were destined for. This world is very big, and your she is waiting for your arrival in the vast sea of people. You have to find her with your heart.

Time will tell. You want to believe me. Where there is no grass in the cliff, why bother to love a flower.

Since she doesn't cherish you. Why should you suffer yourself? Twisted melons are not sweet.

Turn the page, get a good night's sleep, and start tomorrow with a new version of yourself. Find the happiness that truly belongs to you!!

There is a kind of love called letting go.

I think that since this is the case, you should give up, although you love it very much, but it is also very groveling to get this kind of love in time, you try to accept the people around you.

Don't be stupid, she's done this to you, even if it's useless to please you, she'll just look down on you even more The only thing you can do is: show her happiness.

Then you may really not be able ... Remember that your means are the lowest ones, and I know you can't bear her.

In fact, I personally think that there is nothing to feel bad about in this regard, because each person, her life experience is different, then the experience she has in love will be different, I personally think this is a very common thing, if you have to worry about this aspect, I think you may be a very stingy person, I think everyone has the right to choose their own love.

So from this point of view, you don't interfere with her right to choose love, so if you show a very stingy attitude in this regard, I don't think you are a person worth entrusting for life

If you want to relieve this depression in your heart, or if you don't feel so sad, I think you can do it from the following points. First of all, I personally think you need to do itA channeling within yourself, Now is an era of rapid development, so for love, in fact, it is also a rapid development of the era, so in many cases, it is a very normal thing for a person to have this relationship, then, when in the process of falling in love, it is impossible for all people to fall in love for the first time, so the people who are looking for are equals, or they are all in love for the first time, or they are all in love for the first time, so if you consider it from this aspect, You don't have to dwell on how many times she's been in love.

Personally, I think you should treat it as a very ordinary thingBecause everyone has their own right to choose about their own life experience and love experience, then she didn't choose you before, probably because she didn't meet you, or I didn't think of you in this aspect, if I thought of your appearance, and you plan to continue to persevere, I personally think that she doesn't want to contact more people, so from this point of view, this situation is also forced to helpless.

Since you like her and accept her as your girlfriend, what do you have to feel uncomfortable, you should cherish her well, are you still unbalanced?

If you particularly mind, you should break up, because there is no need to be together at all.

This shouldn't be uncomfortable, you should cherish it, and he should know how to love better.

Since it is your first love, it means that she has a side that attracts you and makes you admire, why bother with her past, treat her well, and make you her favorite.

I can't figure out why you're upset, so you can stop being with her, it's not fair to her.