Is it better to have a boy or a girl in society now?

I think it's just as good to have a boy or a girl, because society is changing and girls can inherit.

It is good to have both boys and girls, and now they are advocating equality between men and women, and there should be no discrimination on the basis of gender.

I think that to give birth to boys and girls, you have to spend money to cultivate them from an early age, give them enough love, and let them grow up healthily.

In today's society, boys and girls are the same, there is no good or bad, they are all their own children.

My own experience tells you: it's good to have a girl.

1. The girl is delicate and knows that it hurts, as long as she is educated with a little heart, the child is still more obedient. Boys are different, they were not educated well when they were young, and they have a good feeling when they enter puberty.

When boys reach puberty, they often go out to play because they make many friends. If they are influenced by bad children, they sometimes stay up at night, indulge in Internet cafes, smoke and drink.

Parents who often can't sleep at night, cry secretly, and look for their children's parents in Internet cafes in the middle of the night, most of them are looking for boys. Because of adolescent girls, parents generally discipline more strictly, such as which errand, try to be at home at night, can't spend the night outside, and so on.

In addition, adolescent girls, although some are rebellious, generally do not work directly with their parents. Boys are different, they are taller and younger than their parents. If you are not satisfied with the discipline of your parents, you will directly do it with adults, and an adult is pressed to the ground by a child, that kind of sadness, that kind of despair, and you can't speak.

I often get together with my classmates, and they all say that today's children are not easy to discipline, and last time I heard my classmate say that he and his son had a fight on the street. I believe that after entering middle age, the tears you shed the most must be because of your children.

2. Don't worry much about the house and dowry when you get married after giving birth to a girl.

It can be said to be worry-free and labor-saving. Besides, daughters generally feel more sorry for adults than boys, because only after giving birth to children, only after experiencing the difficulty of raising children, can we deeply understand the difficulties of parents.

Now in a family, basically the wife is still in charge, if the parents have something, the daughter says to help, and the son-in-law generally does not hinder it too much.

Giving birth to a boy, if the family conditions are good, you can, don't worry about the house, the dowry, don't worry about the son not marrying a daughter-in-law. If the conditions are poor, you have to consider these, so that when others retire, you may still be trying to make money, and your whole life may be for the sake of your children.

If you marry a daughter-in-law who is not filial, the hard days may be still to come, because of the mother-in-law.

is the most difficult pair of contradictions, and it is possible to live in vomiting in old age.

Of course, there are exceptions to everything, and I hope that all the bad things will not appear, and everything that is said is only more likely, not absolute.

Physiologically, it is still a boy's advantage, great strength, quick thinking, which is irreversible, more than 80% of the leaders in all walks of life are men, so boys are born with an advantage over girls, but in today's society this advantage has long been forgotten, the emergence of Ma Bao Niang Cannon has confirmed that it is not enough to have congenital advantages, and there are more and more cases of professional strong women making money outside and scumbags enjoying this kind of at home, so it is impossible to judge the advantages and disadvantages by gender, the important thing is to see what kind of person you educate your child into.

I think it's the same for both men and women, and now urban women are no worse than men. In many ways, it may be slightly better, mainly because there are still some feudal families who like the old idea of patriarchal inheritance. In this modern civilized society, if you don't work hard, it is the same to give birth to a boy and a girl, and people can only get what they want if they continue to work hard.

It is necessary to establish a correct idea for giving birth to children.

It's good to have a daughter. In the current social environment, it must be better to have a daughter than a boy.

From the perspective of genetic transmission, the probability that a man can pass on genes to his offspring is much lower than that of a woman. The ratio of men to women in China is imconstant, and it is impossible for every man to have the opportunity to obtain the right to mate, but it is unlikely that a woman will lose the right to mate, so you want to pass on the family and have daughters.

In terms of the cost of training, the cost of the daughter is much lower. As long as you are in your early 20s, you can get married, and after getting married, you will receive gifts for the New Year's Festival, and you can find your daughter for lack of money, and you can not afford to give women children the burden, and some places can also receive a lot of dowry. And give birth to a boy, if you don't send it to college, there is basically no chance to get ahead, the son is married, the house, the car, the bride price, he is basically impossible, you can only come, so don't think that raising a child can prevent old age, raising a child not only does not prevent old age, but can only gnaw on the old until you die.

In terms of class promotion, due to the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, a man can generally only marry a woman who is lower than himself, so the consequence of marriage is that your family's status in society is half a class lower, while a woman's opposite, she will generally marry someone who is one level higher than herself, so having a daughter can improve the family status.

In terms of social benefits, the best sex ratio in society is 1:1, having a daughter can benefit the society, having a son is harmful to the society, and for the healthy development of the society, please have a daughter.

In the end, I really don't understand China's patriarchal thinking, and the only explanation is probably the acquiescence of the ruling class, because maintaining rule requires a lot of labor, soldiers are needed to wage war, and police are needed to maintain social stability, and reducing women's ** can also control these soldiers and policemen who pursue mating rights, which is a double win.

As for the boy's inheritance, it is even more unreasonable, except for the "poor" in your sect, it seems that there is nothing to pass on, do you work hard to have a son in order to pass on the poverty? And what is there to pass on your surname, there are many people with the same surname as you, and you don't need to pass it on at all, and the surname you pass down all carry a poor word, which is contrary to your concept of glory and ancestry.

It is better to have a daughter, because if you give birth to a boy, you will definitely need to marry a wife for your child in the future, and you also need to buy a house for your child, but if you give birth to a good girl, you can reduce the economic pressure.

I think girls are better, because the economic conditions of the family in Zhaoxiang Ming Zhenshan are not particularly good because they live in the countryside, so they can save a lot of money by giving birth to girls.

I think it's the same thing for a boy and a son to give birth to a girl, both are God's gifts to parents. But there is still a bit of a patriarchal concept in rural areas.

I think it would be better for rural people to have boys, because boys are easy to raise, and then they can take care of themselves when they are old.