Is the idea of not wanting to get married too prevalent these days?

Nowadays, more and more people don't want to get married, and they feel that their life alone is also very comfortable, which is a bit prevalent.

No, now the mainstream is still going to get married, after all, there are a few people who have that kind of non-marriage thinking, they are pursuing freedom and don't want to be bound.

Yes, now there are studies that show that many young people don't want to get married, and the proportion of this kind of thinking is really too high, and I think it is mainly related to the social atmosphere.

I think it's a bit too popular, but it's understandable, after all, now that everyone has the ability to support themselves, there is no need to have another person and make your life more burdensome.

With the development of the times, there are now a lot of unmarried people, compared with the previous such thoughts, it is indeed quite popular, because people's thoughts are not as feudal and single as before.

Nowadays, people's thinking has undergone earth-shaking changes, and they all think like this in their thoughts, and they don't want to get married, and they feel that marriage is a shackle.

Modern people's ideas are very open-minded, and many older leftover men and women will not be in a hurry about marriage, and basically have a Buddhist attitude.

Because women are not obliged to have children, men can buy children if they have money, don't point to women to marry.

If it prevails, it prevails! There is nothing bad about it, if you want to get married, you will get married, and if you don't want to get married, it will hurt others.

It really doesn't matter if you get married or not......

Like other things, at the beginning, I said more and did less, and when I started to do it, there was nothing to say.

It is conducive to population decline and enter the developed country.

In ancient times, it was estimated that there were also people who did not want to get married

Introduction: Girls often come up with the idea of not wanting to get married, feeling that the quality of life may decline after marriage, and there are a lot of things, family conflicts may occur if you are not careful, at that time you are still in a weak position, you feel particularly terrible when you think about it, and then you will have the idea of not wanting to get married, I believe that most girls should have such thoughts, and you want to know that raising a child is really very tiring now, and raising a child requires too much money, And getting married is not so easy, buying a car and a house, dowry, these need to be prepared.

I used to think, why do we have to pay a dowry? This is a guarantee for yourself, if it is a girl, the dowry is actually the guarantee behind you, even if you are divorced, this bride price also belongs to your pre-marital property, not the joint property of the husband and wife, and you have a bride price means that they will cherish it more, they will not cherish it much because they did not spend much money, you, and also hope that all girls when their parents ask for a bride price, do not refuse too much, and do not say no bride price, think about your family, It's not easy to think about your parents raising you, so thinking about it from this place, I feel that it's better not to get married, and getting married is really troublesome.

Until now, there is such an idea, after getting married, it means that you will have children soon, after giving birth to children, you must educate children to educate children, and you have to go to school after you are done, there is really a lot of money in it, as far as you are concerned, as far as the current salary is concerned, you can't afford to raise a child at all, and there is no way to give him a good life, and at the same time, I am very afraid of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to handle, so the family will not go far, At the same time, the husband's attitude also determines the direction of this matter, and he feels very sad when he thinks about it, and then he is not so looking forward to marriage.

I didn't want to get married because I felt that getting married was very troublesome, and having children after marriage was very painful, so I didn't want to get married.

I've had it because I think the quality of life for both of you will be very poor when you get married.

In fact, not wanting to get married is not an abnormal idea, everyone is the subject of their own life and has the freedom to choose marriage.

Therefore, we can't impose the traditional concept on everyone, everyone has their own independent way of living, the main thing is to live a wonderful life and live their own personal meaning, and life is beautiful.

Therefore, we should actively communicate with the older generation and let them know more about our ideas. When communicating with others, we should respect the other party and do the following:

1. Know how to think about others.

Don't care about everything, don't worry about some small things, and don't refuse to forgive yourself because others have done something wrong to you, refuse to forgive others, what is really good for yourself is to let others go, that is, let go of yourself. We must know how to perceive the hearts of others when we do things, and we must know how to say hello when we see people.

2. If you succeed, you don't look down on others, and if you fail, you don't look down on yourself.

Be a humble, neither humble nor arrogant person. Even if you have nothing now, you will not be excessively inferior and belittle yourself, but you will encourage yourself, even if you are successful now, you will not look down on others, and you will still work hard to check your own shortcomings.

3. Be good at listening to others. Don't plan for someone else's words when they haven't finished speaking.

If you have an opinion about the other person's opinion, don't dismiss the other person's idea. You have to wait for him to finish speaking before expressing his opinion. In this way, we can harvest more friendship and real friends.

4. Respect each other's personality and ideas, and don't talk to people in a tough tone about everything.

There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, so we must know how to respect each other's hobbies, that is, if the other party is unwilling to listen to their own words, don't talk about it blindly, and be good at talking to each other, don't always talk about their sadness, be good at listening to other people's ideas, and know how to help others.

No, it's actually an abnormal thought. Everyone is the subject of their own life, and they have the freedom to choose to marry.

Therefore, we should not impose the concept of passing on the stupid unification to every Wang Pi companion, but give everyone the right to freedom.

I don't want to get married, I don't think it's incorrect, but even if you want to get married, the generation meets the right one, because of the population ratio problem. The type of favorite or the type that Shinichi rarely accompanies in the world to meet what he really likes. And the family is also very poor, so everyone can better improve themselves and meet someone they like to be with.

There is no so-called abnormality, some people have this kind of relatively no desire or idea of marriage when they meet their married life, and each person has a different attitude towards the late life of marriage.

It's normal, but the process of getting married now is too complicated, and if you can, you don't want to get involved.

Born empty and good as a person, you have to be nice to yourself.

1. In the school stage, the oppression of parents and teachers stifles the sprout of love.

Nowadays, most of the unmarried women are only children, the family environment is superior, and the parents are also like a baby, they always carefully tell them in the back, girls should love themselves, don't fall in love, focus on their studies, have their own careers in the future, and have no problem finding any kind of boyfriend.

Teachers are also all kinds of earnest teachings, you must have enough strength to control true love, you must study hard, in order to be worthy of being better by your side. Therefore, all love must be nipped in the bud.

As a result, during the whole stage of study, your pure love that had just sprouted was stifled.

Your parents and teachers have been around you and kept instilling this kind of thinking, and the good girl grew up weirdly.

Second, the change of women's sense of value in marriage and love.

The girl has grown into a "white rich beauty" in the company of her family, and the girl relies on her own strength and independence, coupled with a more perfect interpretation of love, they are perfect in themselves, and they will only think more about only love and not marriage.

Too many predecessors have also used their blood-like personal experience to tell us that women giving up their careers and joining the family are often the first steps for women to enter the deep answer, and they will eventually consume people and lose both money and money.

Third, the phoenix man, the mother treasure man, prevailed.

As a woman in the new era, any age has the right to pursue happiness, rather than a life of deep resentment.

In fact, if there is an eye, a man can be rich and handsome, a second marriage, a little fresh meat, or a gray-haired uncle.

However, it is possible for a woman to look down on none of them.

Phoenix man, that is the golden phoenix flying out of the chicken nest, behind the dazzling brilliance is the drag of a large family, the Geng and hardness of the phoenix man is not something that ordinary girls can control, such as the love between Gu Xiaoxi and the phoenix man Jianguo in "New Marriage Era".

Their beautiful love can't withstand the impact of the strange thoughts and behaviors of the wonderful family that founded the country, and finally broke up the two people who love each other;

Ma Bao Nan, who is not growing, irresponsible, and has not grown up as a weak baby, they have to ask their mother about everything, and they do not have the courage and strength to make decisions, and they really live and make women crazy.

Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer elite men in various fields, and there are more and more excellent women in the city, so naturally, they are less and less favored by excellent women.

Because they have abandoned the traditional values of relying on men to change their fate and become independent women in the new era, what they need more is a man who can talk to them on an equal footing and be evenly matched.

In fact, modern women are more able to break through secular barriers. Be brave to love, just like the heart-rending sentence "love when you die", but you can't find an ideal partner.

Why are more and more women choosing not to get married? In fact, if we are not married, it is not that we do not love. We love, but no one makes us want to marry.

Because it's not the object that I want to spend the rest of my life with, I'm not willing to settle casually.

I believe that many people have had an idea of not wanting to get married, that is because I have seen many people live so badly after getting married, and having children, it is even more comfortable for children to live with each other, so they have the idea of fear of marriage, and think of wanting to get married again, in fact, they meet the person in their life who understands and loves themselves very much, and they will have such thoughts again. <>

One. I don't want to get married because I'm afraid.

The reason why many young people are afraid of marriage is actually that they see that many friends around them have undergone earth-shaking changes in their lives after getting married, and two people who love each other will be troubled by some trivial things in life and make it feel like hell every day. It's because I'm afraid of seeing the example of many people around me who are unhappy when they get married, so I don't want to get married, and not wanting to get married is actually a view of escaping reality. <>

Two. I believe in marriage again because I have met the person who belongs to me.

In love life, many people hope to be able to meet the right person at the right time, so that they will be very happy every day, but it is difficult to meet the right person at the right time. Let me believe that marriage again is because I met the prince charming in my life, can give myself the most intimate care, and also let me feel the warmest love in the world, as well as the warmest companionship, let me feel the meaning of love, marriage may be the best destination of love. <>

In fact, many times marriage is the best destination for love, mainly because many people use the trivial things in life as a reason for quarreling and nagging every day, so that two people can't see the light and warmth of life. To love someone is to take the initiative to discover the good of each other, everyone has the potential to become the best partner of the other party, and we should continue to tap these potentials in life, so that each other can become the people who love each other the most in the world, and always go on happily.

I don't want to get married, especially when I see other people's failed marriages or see that their married life is very miserable, my husband doesn't understand her, and I have to take care of the children, and I need to do everything myself, when I see such a situation, I will have the idea of fear of marriage, and I will sigh what marriage has brought to women, why women will suffer these tortures after marriage, if they are not married, then there is no need to face these problems. <>

There is also the pain experienced by girls when giving birth, as well as the husband's attitude towards themselves after giving birth, and seeing those couples quarrel because of some contradictions, and even to the point of divorce, every time I see these situations, I will feel that my marriage is unhappy, and marriage is not as happy as I imagined, so I will have the idea of not getting married. <>

But seeing that they are all in pairs, they can accompany each other, and they are always alone, although they also have friends, but friends they will have a home sooner or later, no one can always accompany themselves, when facing these, they will also have the idea of getting married, and feel that marriage can at least find a person to accompany them, he will always be by his side, share some pain for himself, he does not have to do anything to be alone, and he will also feel that marriage is his missionAt this age, this mission should be accomplished. And when you don't want to struggle, you will also have the idea of getting married, and you feel that as long as you get married, the pressure may be less, because there will be one more person to help you share the pressure, and after you get married, you will have a home, you don't need to be adrift all the time, you will have a home of your own, thinking of these will make you have the idea of getting married, and you will also yearn for the beauty of marriage, and you are also looking forward to your future husband, I think the good or bad of marriage depends on whether you can meet a good person, If you meet it, you will be very happy, and if you don't, you will live a miserable life. <>