What did you learn from your last relationship?

Don't quarrel over trivial things, there can be contradictions, use the right way of communication, maybe you are right, but don't take it too seriously, take a step back and open the sky, and win the quarrel but consume each other's feelings. As a boy, the pattern view should be bigger, if the two people are sincere, the girl will understand afterwards and will be good to you in other ways.

Don't expect your girlfriend to cook for yourself, and don't believe nonsense like "when I meet my own, I will change and cook for him".

Men and women have different understandings of "expressions of love". If you want to live peacefully, you still have to be single.

Girls are generally more attentive than boys, and this doesn't work for me. If I were like a German, my predecessors would be like Italians.

It doesn't matter what a boy fails to do, don't tell your girlfriend, otherwise you'll be in a worse mood. Don't expect and don't ask your girlfriend to do anything for yourself, it's all on your own.

If a guy likes a certain type of dressing girl, then go directly to the girl who dresses this way, and don't expect to be able to help his girlfriend achieve a change in dressing style.

A man with a fierce face or a serious personality is very beneficial to himself. This will prevent your girlfriend from doing tricks.

Love is giving. They are all ordinary people, they will not blindly pay, what the other party pays, please cherish. A non-independent personality will be overly dependent in love, so if you make yourself independent, you will know how to give more.

Whether it is a man or a woman, having a hobby of one's own, even if you are in love, you will often take the time to cultivate your hobby, which is very important, so that no one party will take love almost all.

In the relationship that broke up before, although it was psychologically hit. But I also personally understand my choice of partner. Relationships require mutual maintenance and mutual progress between two people.

When there are problems in life, we must communicate and deal with them in a timely manner. Be considerate of your partner's feelings in the way you do things.

Personally, I have encountered a lot of setbacks in relationships, because I was still very young at that time, and there will definitely be more problems and mistakes in the way I express and behave with my partner, so many times it will cause dissatisfaction and displeasure to the other party, and even conflict and conflict. It was also through these setbacks that I slowly understood how couples should express themselves correctly and interact with each other in their daily lives.

Relationships require mutual maintenance and mutual progress between two couples.

There are many young couples who do not have a deep understanding of their relationship when they first start dating, and they will not take the initiative in daily interactions and relationship maintenance. Everything should be decided and decided by the other party, and the topic communication should also be guided by the other party. In the long run, this will not only make the other party feel that there is no tacit understanding between the two parties.

Emotional cooperation with each other will also stagnate. I made this mistake in my previous relationships. <>

Don't overdo yourself in your daily interactions, but take into account the feelings of your partner.

Since for a long time, everyone works and lives alone, so they will be too selfish in their thinking, but never use this wrong thinking to bring it to emotional communication, and learn to think about and dedicate themselves to others in emotional communication. Excessive ego will only make your partner feel that you are very selfish. It's hard for the other person to feel your attention to her in the relationship.

When there are problems and contradictions in life, we should communicate and correct them in a timely manner.

Like some emotional conflicts and conflicts between the two people are the most likely problems in emotional communication, and both parties must learn to communicate and exchange reasonably in this type of situation. Many of the problems are caused by differences in their perceptions. As long as you communicate properly, you can solve it completely without using emotional language to express and attack the other person.

In the previous relationship, I learned to love and think about myself, and I understood that self-reflection is the most important person, and the key type of full sense should come from oneself, and make more money to maintain physical and mental health.

Don't love too much, otherwise you will feel tired and the other party will feel pressure. No matter how bad the relationship is, you must rely on yourself, don't rely on others. Don't lose yourself in the emotional hypocrisy, and don't focus negatively on the emotional change.

You should think twice before doing anything, He Jing should not be hasty or reckless, no matter what you do, you should go. I believe that I should also have enough self-confidence, please don't feel inferior, don't take the initiative to talk to the other party, and don't take the initiative to show goodwill.

1 Falling in love with the idea of getting rid of loneliness will only make you more lonely. If you fall in love with the mentality of being saved, you will only fall into another pit. 2 As you are, so are those you meet.

Just as older children don't play with younger children, an insecure attachment type usually doesn't meet a secure attachment lover. 3 There are no soul mates, some are just destined people who run in with each other and grow together.

4 The most important thing in love is to be honest, a lie is a gap, and it will continue to open countless gaps. 5 In your life, there are very few people who truly love you, and if you meet them, you must hold on tightly and not let go. 6 The best routine is that there is no routine, and you may not be able to exchange sincerity for sincerity, but after wearing a mask, even if you are loved, you will not feel love.

7 While other people's opinions are valid, respect your own feelings and always come first. 8 The person who has lost his love will doubt and suffer, but he does not have to force himself to get better quickly, and he does not have to stop believing in love because of this. Life is actually very short, and it is too wasteful to carry the pain of the past to the next person.

9 Sometimes you will miss the good things of the past and the people of the past, but you must understand that it is all in the past, and once you have come to separate, you must have felt at some point that you would have lived well without each other. Then be nostalgic and walk where you want to go.

10 Above all, everyone deserves to be loved, and if you believe in yourself, you will be worthy too. 11.Love is beautiful.

I want to experience this when you are in love, because love satisfies your inner emotional needs and makes your inner emotions more beautiful. 12.Learn to care and care for people.

When people are not in love, one lives very "alone", because you only need to take care of yourself and don't need to think more. Falling in love will allow you to slowly learn to understand the feelings of others, slowly learn to take care of others, and know the warmth and coldness of others.

13.Get rid of some of your bad habits. This is some of my own experience, when I am in love, I always want to show my own advantages, but people can't all be advantages, and many shortcomings will be slowly diluted and corrected by themselves.

Personally, I understand that even if two people are in love together, two people are still independent individuals, both need their own independent space, both have personal privacy and bottom line, we must learn to understand each other, not too self-centered, thinking that the other party should act according to our ideas when they are in love. We must learn to accommodate and understand each other in order to be long-lasting.

No matter how sweet two people get along, don't lose your life because of each other. Be sure to maintain a certain sense of mystery.

First, many times what is said is not worth believing. Second, to see how a person is, not only what the person says, but also what she does; Third, some things are tolerable and some things are not.

You have to stay rational in love, and some girls who fall in love are really "stupid".

In love, whether the other party loves you or not, the details can be seen.

Be self-confident and never be his follower or "licking the dog".

People can be scum to the point where you can't imagine it, so get to know each other well before being together. You will love yourself first, and then you will be loved.

The relationship that constantly breaks his own principles and bottom line will definitely break up! Be sure to break up too! Don't blame anyone for coming to this point, you take the initiative to break the principle and lower the bottom line, because you don't love yourself, and people who don't love themselves will definitely break up.

Whether you love each other or not, you must be honest. Even if the facts may not be pretty, you have to be honest. Otherwise, the foundation of trust will be destroyed, and anything you say in the future will have no credibility.

Those girls who lose their temper for no reason, and don't say why, think it's cute to disappear at every turn, and it's cute to think they're unreasonable at every turn, they think they're in control of love, they control each other. In fact, she is the passive party, when she wants to leave, the other party can coax her back, and when the other party wants to leave, it is the end of all stories.

<>Don't think too well of each other in the early stages of a relationship, and don't think too badly of each other in the later stages of a relationship. Don't selectively ignore those places that you feel inappropriate just because you secrete too much dopamine at a time, these may seem like squibs, but they may be ** at any time. If you don't contact you, you really don't like you, it's not because you're busy, it's really not busy, but he doesn't care about you at all, and if you have a girlfriend, it's too late to spoil you, so when you encounter this situation, it's either that he doesn't like you, or he is very annoyed with you, so this situation will occur.

Learn to stop losses in time, separate immediately if the three views don't come together, don't consume, if it goes on like this, it hurts each other, if it's not suitable, it's not suitable, and how long it will be inappropriate, don't expect time to change everything. It is better to love others than to love yourself. When you love yourself, others will love you, and if you love each other with all your heart, then you will no longer let others see your shining point.

Therefore, you can not be humble in the relationship, you can only be confident, when you are confident and love yourself, you will be worthy of others to love you. Don't look at what the other party says, it depends on what the other party does, no matter how much you say, it will be useless not to do it, and those who don't do it will never know how difficult it is to do it, we will all say, but there are very few people who do it.

If you are lucky enough to meet someone who puts yourself first in everything, don't feel that their love is cheap, and don't feel that the other party is unproductive. You must know that the other party loves you, you are the baby, and when you don't love you, you are just a familiar stranger. It is better to love others than to love yourself.

When you love yourself, others will love you, and if you love each other with all your heart, then you will no longer let others see your shining point. Therefore, you can not be humble in the relationship, you can only be confident, when you are confident and love yourself, you will be worthy of others to love you.

When you fall in love, you must have your own opinions, don't be too humble, don't be too honest, and have your own small space.

Don't be particularly nice to a guy, don't be too sensible to girls during a relationship, don't trust each other too much when you encounter some things, and don't give him all your sincerity, otherwise they won't cherish it.

I understand that you must be sincere enough to be responsible for a person, whether it is in love or family, this is a truth that must be understood.

You must not lose yourself in love, you must have your own life circle and your best friend, and don't put too much energy on each other.

In love, I understand that the other party should still be given some privacy space, should not be in charge of everything, and love others at the same time, you should also love yourself, so that you will be respected by others.

1. Fate is really wonderful, it is not something you can get if you fight for it, it will always appear at the right time. 2. Cherish the people in front of you, and don't wait until you miss it to regret your mistakes. 3. Love needs to go both ways, don't blindly ask for it, and don't pay stupidly all the time.

I think you have to believe that you are good enough to be loved, and not to be inferior; People who love you, you are good in everything, and people who don't love you, you can't change anything; It is always much happier to be loved than to love someone.

The person who made a promise to you may not really be good to you in the end. Such a person just wants to be able to keep you by his side, but does not really want to be with you for the rest of his life. Also, those who are unwilling to post you in the circle of friends and take you home to meet your parents are all because they don't love you.

If the person who loves you will be particularly active in posting you in the circle of friends, I want his relatives and friends to know and be recognized by them.

Introduction: Behind every relationship can get some experience, in the previous relationship I know that you must be your true self, don't cover up your own problems, even if it is a problem that the other party doesn't like, you can change it slowly, but don't hide it, otherwise one day there will be a conflict because of this, in addition, you must be strong, whether it is psychologically strong or physically strong, and don't always focus on the other party, you must have your own hobbies and friends, Many people will give up all their friends and jobs after falling in love, and feel that they need to make their boyfriend the most important part of their life when they are in a relationship now, but it doesn't have to be so.

Everyone wants to show the best side to their other half when they are in love, but you must know that if you are going to get married, then these little problems will be shown one by one, and it will be a little difficult to leave during that period, so when you are in love, you must be the most authentic yourself, whether it is good or bad, you must let the other party know to understand your true situation, so that he is more conducive to you to judge whether this person is suitable or not. If you find that I am not suitable, you can stop the loss in time, and if you want to change it after you get married, I guess there will be some difficulties.

Don't take your partner too seriously in the process of falling in love, you can fall in love, you can have your own life, you can have your own friends, but never give up your classmates, give up your circle of friends, and give up your hobbies because you have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, which will only make you very miserable after breaking up. At the same time, everyone must also know that no one will be inseparable from anyone, don't feel that you can't live after you leave him, he will also turn around without anyone in this world, and constantly improve his charm, so that he feels that he can't do without you, not that you can't do without him.