How did you get away from the state of confusion?

Lose your utilitarianism! Fall in love with your life! I would say that if you start looking for new goals and ideals at this point, you will end up in a dead end!

In fact, utilitarianism is the culprit! It will keep us away from all good things and pursue the unattainable nothingness! It will make the down-to-earth person impatient, the honest person hypocritical, the humble person arrogant, and the harm of utilitarianism is too great!

So always remind yourself that you can't become the kind of person you hate the most!

You have to use the concept of meeting new people to understand your own confusion! Why? Because during the period of confusion, you may feel very strange, even completely deny yourself, and feel as if you have become a stranger!

Therefore, to overcome and stay away, the first thing you should do is to accept, to admit your own state of existence at this time, and to know yourself at this time like knowing new friends!

Life is a stage that a person must go through in life, so don't worry too much and relax. I am at a loss because I have no direction to have, no goal of my own, and I always feel that I have nothing to do. So, to get out of the confusion, you must first understand what you are going to do, and what you are going to do depends on what you are able to do.

The so-called new things include: new friends, new social circles, new hobbies, new sports, etc., which can be slowly chosen according to your wishes! When you really start to focus on these new things, the shadow of "confusion" has gradually disappeared from you!

When your heart is tired, rest and let your heart travel! Gently exhale a turbid breath into the morning sky, and think about it, today is another good day. Many times we need to think about it, life without sorrow is not able to feel happy, then the mood is much happier.

When you are looking for a purpose to locate you, find books you like, do what you love, and enrich your life every day; Tell myself repeatedly that when I have the opportunity to meet again five years after graduation, I don't want me to be saddened by the brilliance of others.

First of all, you need to be clear about what kind of person you want to be in the future, which needs to be combined with your own strengths and talents, or what you like. Then you will work hard towards your own goals, and you will always have gains and successes.

As the saying goes: Kung Fu is outside of poetry, spare time is your most critical time, when you make full use of the time wasted by others in playing games, falling in love, eating, drinking and having fun, you will feel that you are higher than others, and you will feel that you are very fulfilled!

There are many ways to get out of confusion. Here are a few ways to rent a chain.

1.Set learning goals and make the most of your time.

2.Talk to your parents and friends, talk to them, and let them help solve them.

3.Prepare for the study of related majors.

First of all, try to be quiet! Calm! The mind is quiet, and the tranquility is far-reaching.

As long as we are quiet, we will choose to do something, such as reading a book or watching a movie. When we do things, as long as we focus on them, we are in the present moment and we enter a state of practice. If you forget the passage of time and the world that you are busy catching up, you will feel that you have not wasted your time in vain.

Thus forgetting the self and not asking who I am, what I should be, what I should not be. Stillness gives birth to wisdom, and many practitioners use meditation, yoga, and meditation to calm themselves. When the mind is calm, there will be thinking, deeper thinking, and deeper learning.

Stillness is a good medicine, and it is the only prescription to solve anxiety and confusion. In this chaotic world, as long as you are calm, you have already succeeded, and you already know what to do! There are already options!

And no longer tasteless questioning, tasteless comparison and no direction!

First of all, we must calm down and keep learning. Knowledge is the summary of what others know about the world, and by learning these things, you can quickly understand situations that you have not yet encountered. Second, find a mentor for life.

In fact, we should all find a mentor in our own lives is the quickest way. But the life coach is not the same as the teacher of knowledge, knowledge and whoever learns are those unchanging cultures, and the life coach is directional, and if you don't choose well, it will harm your life. Finally, be willing to invest in your own knowledge.

To gain insight into the truth of this world is to be willing to invest in the acquisition of knowledge and insight. Some people don't care about spending money on eating, buying clothes, or making friends, but they just don't want to spend dozens of dollars on a book that makes you insightful, or go on a meaningful trip. In the long run, you will inevitably be derailed from this world.

Most of us are ordinary, and there will be a time when we feel at a loss. In confusion, we are anxious to find our own direction, but we often get caught up in more anxiety. Confusion is like being in a fog, not seeing the sun, not seeing the road clearly, not feeling the direction, and not feeling hope.

Confused, we need to use some correct methods to relieve our anxiety, find our own position, and determine the direction of the next step. Calm down. When we are confused, anxiety will only make us more overwhelmed, and we might as well calm down and enjoy life at this time.

Listen to ** take a bath, let the mind rest, and loosen the mood. Some people may say that this is a waste of time, but instead of leaving time for anxiety, it is better to let the body relax and relax.

Confusion is such a state: when you encounter a situation that is more complex than the situation you can handle, you will feel at a loss, it is this confusion that causes your state of mind to be in a state of confusion, coupled with the fact that you cannot quickly find an explanation for the various phenomena that appear in the world, your whole mind is in a state of confusion, which is what we call confusion. It is important to put confusion in perspective, and if you can't learn new knowledge and new perspectives to gain insight into the world at this stage, the consequences of confusion will be very serious.

How to correctly view confusion? Don't panic, this is a normal phenomenon for most people, because many people do not reach a certain level of knowledge and insight at a stage, but with the expansion of the scope of activities, you are less and less aware of the world.

If you feel confused in life, it is not enough to arrange the things around you, confusion is a process that must be experienced in the growth of life, just to see how you resolve, I have a small, 17-year-old soldier, retired this year, it has been eight years, I asked him why he wanted to retire, isn't it very good in the army, he said that it is really good to be a soldier, but also to divide what soldiers, he is in the army is specially for the leader to drive, so as long as the leader has a meeting he sends to the destination, and then is waiting, boring to play with the mobile phone, Get a salary of four or five thousand a month, if you don't drive other times, you can arrange it yourself, just like this day after day, he is tired of that kind of life, it feels like a waste of time, he doesn't want to be young in the future, there is no ideal and revenge, eight years in the army is also a veteran, resolutely choose to retire, now I have found a job I like, and I am also very longing for the future, as long as the life arrangement is sufficient and meaningful, confused and naturally gone.

It's not a good thing for people to be confused, they don't have the heart to work, they think crankily every day, they always have the idea that they don't want to live, they don't like what they see, and they just can't get out of anger every day. It's hard to get out of it if there's any way. I try not to worry about things every day, walk healthily, read the headlines, and finally someone enlightens me and comes out.

The world is so big, it really needs to go out and see it. If you feel lost, please be sure to put aside your worries for a while, pack your bags, and go on a trip. Maybe you will meet someone you want to protect or something you want to work for, and with the goal you want to strive for, you will no longer feel lost.